Hi Fam., owk.. Am a '15A corps member, in a relationship with an undergraduate who is in her final year. Its been good so far., we've been together for a year + and we have plans to settle down as soon as things gets better job wise.

But this afternoon I read on fbck where she was advising a girl to stay off male corpers coming for relationship.. dat they had nufin serious to offer.

My people am shocked because its been all good and i've been supportive the little way I can. She looks happy and satisfied with me., why will she discourage a fellow frm dating a corper? .


Am I missing sumfin?

Your contributions are highly appreciated.

Have a long talk with her. I'm sure you'll know where you stand in the relationship when the talk ends. Good luck!

looooooool swear this the first real laugh i had today

Geez op your gf had found her talent comedy chai

halfricanadian:
looooooool swear this the first real laugh i had today

Geez op your gf had found her talent comedy chai

How is this comic?

There are some ladies who can be very deceptive. Just try find out d reason she said that so that u won't just be a toy she's toiling with.

jopretty:
Have a long talk with her. I'm sure you'll know where you stand in the relationship when the talk ends. Good luck!

Hmmm, owk. Tnks

MrSmith007:

How is this comic?

Its a real comic

so fun and interesting


Geez seriously loooooool

She dint tell you its over right? she only adviced another person not to date a corper. You just need to discuss about it when you guys talk and ask her why she gave such an advice.

halfricanadian:


Its a real comic

so fun and interesting


Geez seriously loooooool

owk, yu have nothing good to say.

I think you guys were together before you became a Corps Member right? Probably, your own case is quite different. So, you may just tell her how you feel about it if this fact of hers really bothers you.

grad2012:
She dint tell you its over right? she only adviced another person not to date a corper. You just need to discuss about it when you guys talk and ask her why she gave such an advice.

Naah., we've been enjoying a good rship. Am still lost as to why she said wat she said.

DesChyko:
I think you guys were together before you became a Corps Member right? Probably, your own case is quite different. So, you may just tell her how you feel about it if this fact of hers really bothers you.

Yea we started dating weeks before I left for camp.

Tnks, I hope that's the case.

MrSmith007:
owk, yu have nothing good to say.

looool why will i av any good thing to say when ya gf is a comedian

Who is she advising a secondary school student? U know u corpers feel change dose gals dream with your stick ...oya screen shot your gf comment on top that issues

halfricanadian:


looool why will i av any good thing to say when ya gf is a comedian

Done having fun?

MrSmith007:

Done having fun?

Not yet

Pheals:
Who is she advising a secondary school student? U know u corpers feel change dose gals dream with your stick ...oya screen shot your gf comment on top that issues

No., an undergraduate.

Change a girl's dream with my stick??

Op, focus on getting a job after service, making money is what you need to focus your mind on, leave that babe, don't let her dull you. Distraction is not just what you need now. Good luck.

halfricanadian:


Not yet

Aii

ojay2053:
Op, focus on getting a job after service, making money is what you need to focus your mind on, leave that babe, don't let her dull you. Distraction is not just what you need now. Good luck.

Tnks. Just funny how she'd telll a girl corpers shldnt be taken serious when she is with one. Smh

MrSmith007:

Aii

Looooool

MrSmith007:
Hi Fam., owk.. Am a '15A corps member, in a relationship with an undergraduate who is in her final year. Its been good so far., we've been together for a year + and we have plans to settle down as soon as things gets better job wise.

But this afternoon I read on fbck where she was advising a girl to stay off male corpers coming for relationship.. dat they had nufin serious to offer.

My people am shocked because its been all good and i've been supportive the little way I can. She looks happy and satisfied with me., why will she discourage a fellow frm dating a corper? .


Am I missing sumfin?

Your contributions are highly appreciated.

to be candid wt u, ur gf is nt satisfied wt ur relationship...shez just wt u bcs she loves u and bcs she hope tins will get better wt time
While she advised d lady against datin a corper is bcs she doesn't tink any lady will be able to cope wt d financial burden
And OP pls hope u dnt borrow money from her
Shez just in d relationship for love..she no dey get any benefit dats y she advised sum1 else against it

MrSmith007:
Hi Fam., owk.. Am a '15A corps member, in a relationship with an undergraduate who is in her final year. Its been good so far., we've been together for a year + and we have plans to settle down as soon as things gets better job wise.

But this afternoon I read on fbck where she was advising a girl to stay off male corpers coming for relationship.. dat they had nufin serious to offer.

My people am shocked because its been all good and i've been supportive the little way I can. She looks happy and satisfied with me., why will she discourage a fellow frm dating a corper? .


Am I missing sumfin?

Your contributions are highly appreciated.

Don't ask her because she won't say the truth but get ready for anything and create time to study her the more. You will soon find out where u belong.

Either you are Maga1 or the real man.

Sometimes we don't need to be technical or reason too far, we just have to be rational

If she is proud of you and the relationship, even if she can't generalise, she could have cited you as a good example.

When she advised her friend about corpers, did she forget about you ?

bardella1:
to be candid wt u, ur gf is nt satisfied wt ur relationship...shez just wt u bcs she loves u and bcs she hope tins will get better wt time
While she advised d lady against datin a corper is bcs she doesn't tink any lady will be able to cope wt d financial burden
And OP pls hope u dnt borrow money from her
Shez just in d relationship for love..she no dey get any benefit dats y she advised sum1 else against it

Never asked her for money., not once.
And I cant do more than my earnings.. she is aware of this.

ilobasama:
Sometimes we don't need to be technical or reason too far, we just have to be rational

If she is proud of you and the relationship, even if she can't generalise, she could have cited you as a good example.

When she advised her friend about corpers, did she forget about you ?

Good question. My thought exactly

Its possible she is not as satisfied with me as she makes me believe.

olaleks007:


Don't ask her because she won't say the truth but get ready for anything and create time to study her the more. You will soon find out where u belong.

Either you are Maga1 or the real man.

Hmmm.. i'll have an open mind when we get to have the talk.

Op dnt judge her with dat, dah cud just be mere talk
And u knw there r lots of misconceptions abt copers
Gals generally r filled with so many insecurities
Instead of concluding already talk to her abt it
Ask her wot she tinks generally of copers or y she gv dah kind of advice to a fellow gal even though she is dating a coper
Since ur so uncertain of where u stand with her
Ask ,find out

jopretty:
Have a long talk with her. I'm sure you'll know where you stand in the relationship when the talk ends. Good luck!

what are the things to discuss about?

MrSmith007:

Never asked her for money., not once.
And I cant do more than my earnings.. she is aware of this.

ok