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Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by EVarn(m): 12:57am On Mar 06, 2016
EPISODE 1:




One of the social dilemma that has attracted wide-spread controversy in Africa is homosexualism.
Many view the idea of homosexualism as a malevolent scheme by the western world to control Africa; weed our population and spread religious unrighteousness.Others view it as barbaric and unhealthy,you will hear them bellowing: "it is unafrican!" or "it is a sin,God didnt create adam and steve!".
My opinion on this matter has always been that we need to wean ourselves off our foolhardy hypocrisy,even though I do not support gay marriage,I however recognise that each individual has fundamental human right.Did God forbid mutual affection between same sex?,I honestly dont know.
Didnt David and Jonathan love each other more than they loved any other person?,perhaps its brotherly love,but one does wonder why Jonathan would defy his father almost to the point of death for a best friend.That is a strictly religious issue anyway.
It is funny how many people who condemn homosexuality publicly,turn around to patronize gay pornography behind the safety of their curtains.
God didnt tell us to condemn people with divergent views of life,instead we should be tolerant and cultivate them in our own way.
Now let me launch into my research on the African origin of homosexuality.
Let us start from Nigeria; In the northern part of Nigeria,there are specific groups of males called the " yan daudu",these men are effeminate and are referred to as "wives of men", they practise their sexuality unhindered and are even regarded as exotic by the locals.Isn't it interesting that the government isn't talking about these people?.
One of the most prominent homosexual in African history was King Mwanga II of Buganda kingdom(modern day Uganda),who was loved by his subjects despite his sexual inclinations.
Researchers discovered bushman artwork and paintings depicting gay sex in the ancient caves of the San people near Guruve in Zimbabwe.This was one of the greatest highlight of the African culture uncovered in the 21th century.
Let us go to Lesotho,the Basotho women form cultural relationships called "motsoalle" in which they kiss,touch and have sex for fun: quite an interesting culture,isn't it?.
Aha.....we must not forget Egypt,in the late 19th century,a painting of Nyankh-khnum and Khnum-hotep surfaced in an archaelogical site in egypt.The painting depicted the two prominent egytians kissing.Furthermore,it was found that the two men were buried together. Some researchers claim they were twins,you my audience should come to your own conclusions.
Same-sex relationships in Africa were far more complex than what the
champions of the “un-African” myth would have us believe. Apart from
erotic same-sex desire, in precolonial Africa, several other activities were
involved in same-sex (or what the colonialists branded “unnatural”)
sexuality. For example, the Ndebele and Shona in Zimbabwe, the Azande in
Sudan and Congo, the Nupe in Nigeria and the Tutsi in Rwanda and Burundi
all engaged in same-sex acts for spiritual rearmament — i.e., as a source of
fresh power for their territories. It was also used for ritual purposes. Among
various communities in South Africa, sex education among adolescent peers
allowed them to experiment through acts such as “thigh sex” (“hlobonga”
among the Zulu, “ukumetsha” among the Xhosa and “gangisa” among the
Shangaan).
In many African societies, same-sex sexuality was also believed to be a
source of magical powers to guarantee bountiful crop yields and abundant
hunting, good health and to ward off evil spirits. In Angola and Namibia, for
instance, a caste of male diviners — known as “zvibanda,” “chibados,”
“quimbanda,” gangas” and “kibambaa” — were believed to carry powerful
female spirits that they would pass on to fellow men through anal sex.
Even today, marriages between women for reproductive, economic and
diplomatic reasons still exist among the Nandi and Kisii of Kenya, the Igbo
of Nigeria, the Nuer of Sudan and the Kuria of Tanzania. Like elsewhere
around the world, anal intercourse between married opposite-sex partners
to avoid pregnancy was historically practiced by many Africans before the
invention of modern contraceptive methods.

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Nobody: 12:10pm On Mar 06, 2016
Homosexualism is a complete MENTAL DERAILMENT. Its sexual MADNESS well packaged to DEHUMANIZE humanity. Just like WAR is made to look amusing in films.

Why will a SANE PERSON go to a SEWER when there is a PLAY GROUND around.

Why will a man for example seek a S-H-I-T HOLE when there are JUICE HOLES every where.

That is a comple reaction against the intellect. Its completely IRRATIONAL.

"Nature is always rational. Every answer you pry from nature is severely LOGICAL."

Is it logical to put food through one's ANUS all because it also leads to the STOMACH? What is our mouth meant for?

"When the wind turns into a TORNADO it does so not by IRRATIONAL MADNESS but by a mathematically precise process. It seems paradoxical that, that which has no mind (a tornado for example) should be unfailingly RATIONAL. The slang expression 'MENTAL' for the 'INSANE' points to the fact that IRRATIONALITY has its source in the mind. Anyone who defends homosexualism suffers obviously from a REACTION AGAINST THE INTELLECT.

From what you have posted or written by yourself. You suffer from a chronic disease of the heart called HYPOCISY.

What does it mean when you said: "even though I DO NOT SUPPORT GAY MARRIAGES, i however recognise that each individual has the fundamental human right"

You don't support gay marriages but there you are defending this MENTAL ILLNESS in the name of THE DELUSION called HUMAN RIGHT.

Why do you have to be such an HYPOCRITE. You are propagating the act but not in support of same sex marriage.

Everything about HOMOSEXUALITY is an exhibition of how debased humanity can become once the start obeying their DESIRES and not submit to God's will.

So, you mentioned "David and Jonathan 'LOVE' each other more than any other person".

The word their is 'LOVE' not 'FVCK EACH OTHER'.

The world keeps hiding under Human Rights. Does these rights also include the right it LIFE?

Do you know how many children that die everyday alone out of HUNGER? While the first 100 most richest people's wealth can bring an end to that 4 times?

"NONE ARE MORE HOPELESSLY ENSLAVED THAN THOSE WHO FALSELY BELIEVE THEY ARE FREE"

What right? Why is incest, rape, pedophilia, beastiality not YOUR RIGHT?

In TRUTH homosexualism is a complete MENTAL DERAILMENT. Those who practice it need help and lots of prayers.

Otherwise the CONSQUENCE are always there. You can never fight against nature and win.

THE JUICE HOLE ALWAYS COMES WITH NATURAL MOIST SECRETION TO ACCEPTING A THRUST.

WHAT MOISTURE IS IN THE A-S-S HOLE? The capitalist world is using those who are into GAYISM to making more money from the sells of LUBE.

A crazy world of freedom to just being MAD.

* I have not insulted you by my using the words:

HYPOCRITE
MAD
MENTALLY DERAILED

They are all well defined and all point to you. If you are otherwise I will also be glad to use words define you as so.

IF GOD CANT BE TOLERANT ENOUGH AND SOME PEOPLE END UP IN HELL THEN WHAT TOLERANCE ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT. I FOR ONE WILL ALWAYS HELP A GAY FROM HIS CROOKEDNESS TO BECOMING STRAIGHT. THATS THE ONLY TOLERANCE I HAVE. OTHERS WILL STONE THEM TO DEATH.
Thank you and think again.

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Nobody: 10:48pm On Mar 15, 2016
Nice one EVarn, i also as a gay man dont support gay marriage too. Jst dnt knw why, maybe d type of environment i grew up in.
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by ValerianSteel(m): 7:31am On Mar 16, 2016
WORDWORLD:
Homosexualism is a complete MENTAL DERAILMENT. Its sexual MADNESS well packaged to DEHUMANIZE humanity. Just like WAR is made to look amusing in films.

Why will a SANE PERSON go to a SEWER when there is a PLAY GROUND around.

Why will a man for example seek a S-H-I-T HOLE when there are JUICE HOLES every where.

That is a comple reaction against the intellect. Its completely IRRATIONAL.

"Nature is always rational. Every answer you pry from nature is severely LOGICAL."

Is it logical to put food through one's ANUS all because it also leads to the STOMACH? What is our mouth meant for?

"When the wind turns into a TORNADO it does so not by IRRATIONAL MADNESS but by a mathematically precise process. It seems paradoxical that, that which has no mind (a tornado for example) should be unfailingly RATIONAL. The slang expression 'MENTAL' for the 'INSANE' points to the fact that IRRATIONALITY has its source in the mind. Anyone who defends homosexualism suffers obviously from a REACTION AGAINST THE INTELLECT.

From what you have posted or written by yourself. You suffer from a chronic disease of the heart called HYPOCISY.

What does it mean when you said: "even though I DO NOT SUPPORT GAY MARRIAGES, i however recognise that each individual has the fundamental human right"

You don't support gay marriages but there you are defending this MENTAL ILLNESS in the name of THE DELUSION called HUMAN RIGHT.

Why do you have to be such an HYPOCRITE. You are propagating the act but not in support of same sex marriage.

Everything about HOMOSEXUALITY is an exhibition of how debased humanity can become once the start obeying their DESIRES and not submit to God's will.

So, you mentioned "David and Jonathan 'LOVE' each other more than any other person".

The word their is 'LOVE' not 'FVCK EACH OTHER'.

The world keeps hiding under Human Rights. Does these rights also include the right it LIFE?

Do you know how many children that die everyday alone out of HUNGER? While the first 100 most richest people's wealth can bring an end to that 4 times?

"NONE ARE MORE HOPELESSLY ENSLAVED THAN THOSE WHO FALSELY BELIEVE THEY ARE FREE"

What right? Why is incest, rape, pedophilia, beastiality not YOUR RIGHT?

In TRUTH homosexualism is a complete MENTAL DERAILMENT. Those who practice it need help and lots of prayers.

Otherwise the CONSQUENCE are always there. You can never fight against nature and win.

THE JUICE HOLE ALWAYS COMES WITH NATURAL MOIST SECRETION TO ACCEPTING A THRUST.

WHAT MOISTURE IS IN THE A-S-S HOLE? The capitalist world is using those who are into GAYISM to making more money from the sells of LUBE.

A crazy world of freedom to just being MAD.

* I have not insulted you by my using the words:

HYPOCRITE
MAD
MENTALLY DERAILED

They are all well defined and all point to you. If you are otherwise I will also be glad to use words define you as so.

IF GOD CANT BE TOLERANT ENOUGH AND SOME PEOPLE END UP IN HELL THEN WHAT TOLERANCE ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT. I FOR ONE WILL ALWAYS HELP A GAY FROM HIS CROOKEDNESS TO BECOMING STRAIGHT. THATS THE ONLY TOLERANCE I HAVE. OTHERS WILL STONE THEM TO DEATH.
Thank you and think again.
You lack good judgement and your critic is overwhelmingly clouded in unprofound bigotry.

Your attempt at sexual practice between two men is very shallow and doesn't appeal to logic because sexual activities between homosexuals are widely practiced by their heterosexual counterparts.

Also,it appears in your dictionary,homosexuality equates two men with erect shafts.Where are the lesbians?Does your whole anal theory hold logic against homosexuality?No it doesn't.

If you can't define homosexuality based on chemical reaction between members of the same sex rather than on sexual practices,then your arguements are highly flawed.

If it's all about sexual desiire,tell me why we have virgins who haven't been inches close to touching another man's penis identify as homosexual.Your claims only targets homosexuality as a certain lust for the genitals and orifice of the same sex rather than the attraction to the same sex.

Start from placing your arguements rightly,then your condemnations would be heard as valide.

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by EVarn(m): 7:38am On Mar 16, 2016
Durentt:
Nice one EVarn, i also as a gay man dont support gay marriage too. Jst dnt knw why, maybe d type of environment i grew up in.
society always leave its mark.
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by ValerianSteel(m): 7:39am On Mar 16, 2016
Durentt:
Nice one EVarn, i also as a gay man dont support gay marriage too. Jst dnt knw why, maybe d type of environment i grew up in.
You regard yourself as a subspecie to heterosexuals and it's blind hypocrisy in my books for a supposedly gay man to have a problem with marriage between the same-sex.

In as much as you yearn for the comforts of another man's love,you look forward to sharing passionate moments with him you should support gay marriage because it takes two to tango and you can't be labelled gay if you have a problem identifying with two men committing to each other.

As long as love is the scale of measurement here,the institution of marriage is not exclusive to heterosexuals.Except there's a new definition to gay marriage which I'm not aware of undecided

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Nobody: 7:40am On Mar 16, 2016
EVarn:
society always leave its mark.
Yea. i hav plans of marrying a woman one day, maybe a lesbian bcuz society says so
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Nobody: 7:45am On Mar 16, 2016
ValerianSteel:
You regard yourself as a subspecie to heterosexuals and it's blind hypocrisy in my books for a supposedly gay man to have a problem with marriage between the same-sex.

In as much as you yearn for the comforts of another man's love,you look forward to sharing passionate moments with him you should support gay marriage because it takes two to tango and you can't be labelled gay if you have a problem identifying with two men committing to each other.

As long as love is the scale of measurement here,the institution of marriage is not exclusive to heterosexuals.Except there's a new definition to gay marriage which I'm not aware of undecided
Hmmm. i jst bliv a child deserves d role of a mother and father. Its sounds selfish to me to deprive my child of motherly love which i was given. Majority of gays i know arent also in support of gay marriage, i dnt want gay marriage to be legalized here either jst dat homosexuality shud be decriminalized.
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by EVarn(m): 7:53am On Mar 16, 2016
Durentt:
Yea. i hav plans of marrying a woman one day, maybe a lesbian bcuz society says so
Marrying a lesbian?,this is very misguided.If you cannot tolerate a union between yourself and the opposite sex,then abstain from marriage or take a gay lover.You shouldnt bow to the merciless whims of society.
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Nobody: 7:55am On Mar 16, 2016
EVarn:
Marrying a lesbian?,this is very misguided.If you cannot tolerate a union between yourself and the opposite sex,then abstain from marriage or take a gay lover.You shouldnt bow to the merciless whims of society.
Yea. thanks, i need to dammn wat people think of me and my bf.
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by firstking01(m): 8:17am On Mar 16, 2016
EVarn:
One of the social dilemma that has attracted wide-spread controversy in Africa is homosexualism.
Many view the idea of homosexualism as a malevolent scheme by the western world to control Africa; weed our population and spread religious unrighteousness.Others view it as barbaric and unhealthy,you will hear them bellowing: "it is unafrican!" or "it is a sin,God didnt create adam and steve!".
My opinion on this matter has always been that we need to wean ourselves off our foolhardy hypocrisy,even though I do not support gay marriage,I however recognise that each individual has fundamental human right.Did God forbid mutual affection between same sex?,Didnt David and Jonathan love each other more than they loved any other person?.
It is funny how many people who condemn homosexuality publicly,turn around to patronize gay pornography behind the safety of their curtains.
God didnt tell us to condemn people with divergent views of life,instead we should be tolerant and cultivate them in our own way.
You no even know wetin you dey talk, mtcheeewsundecided
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by firstking01(m): 8:22am On Mar 16, 2016
WORDWORLD:
Homosexualism is a complete MENTAL DERAILMENT. Its sexual MADNESS well packaged to DEHUMANIZE humanity. Just like WAR is made to look amusing in films.

Why will a SANE PERSON go to a SEWER when there is a PLAY GROUND around.

Why will a man for example seek a S-H-I-T HOLE when there are JUICE HOLES every where.

That is a comple reaction against the intellect. Its completely IRRATIONAL.

"Nature is always rational. Every answer you pry from nature is severely LOGICAL."

Is it logical to put food through one's ANUS all because it also leads to the STOMACH? What is our mouth meant for?

"When the wind turns into a TORNADO it does so not by IRRATIONAL MADNESS but by a mathematically precise process. It seems paradoxical that, that which has no mind (a tornado for example) should be unfailingly RATIONAL. The slang expression 'MENTAL' for the 'INSANE' points to the fact that IRRATIONALITY has its source in the mind. Anyone who defends homosexualism suffers obviously from a REACTION AGAINST THE INTELLECT.

From what you have posted or written by yourself. You suffer from a chronic disease of the heart called HYPOCISY.

What does it mean when you said: "even though I DO NOT SUPPORT GAY MARRIAGES, i however recognise that each individual has the fundamental human right"

You don't support gay marriages but there you are defending this MENTAL ILLNESS in the name of THE DELUSION called HUMAN RIGHT.

Why do you have to be such an HYPOCRITE. You are propagating the act but not in support of same sex marriage.

Everything about HOMOSEXUALITY is an exhibition of how debased humanity can become once the start obeying their DESIRES and not submit to God's will.

So, you mentioned "David and Jonathan 'LOVE' each other more than any other person".

The word their is 'LOVE' not 'FVCK EACH OTHER'.

The world keeps hiding under Human Rights. Does these rights also include the right it LIFE?

Do you know how many children that die everyday alone out of HUNGER? While the first 100 most richest people's wealth can bring an end to that 4 times?

"NONE ARE MORE HOPELESSLY ENSLAVED THAN THOSE WHO FALSELY BELIEVE THEY ARE FREE"

What right? Why is incest, rape, pedophilia, beastiality not YOUR RIGHT?

In TRUTH homosexualism is a complete MENTAL DERAILMENT. Those who practice it need help and lots of prayers.

Otherwise the CONSQUENCE are always there. You can never fight against nature and win.

THE JUICE HOLE ALWAYS COMES WITH NATURAL MOIST SECRETION TO ACCEPTING A THRUST.

WHAT MOISTURE IS IN THE A-S-S HOLE? The capitalist world is using those who are into GAYISM to making more money from the sells of LUBE.

A crazy world of freedom to just being MAD.

* I have not insulted you by my using the words:

HYPOCRITE
MAD
MENTALLY DERAILED

They are all well defined and all point to you. If you are otherwise I will also be glad to use words define you as so.

IF GOD CANT BE TOLERANT ENOUGH AND SOME PEOPLE END UP IN HELL THEN WHAT TOLERANCE ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT. I FOR ONE WILL ALWAYS HELP A GAY FROM HIS CROOKEDNESS TO BECOMING STRAIGHT. THATS THE ONLY TOLERANCE I HAVE. OTHERS WILL STONE THEM TO DEATH.
Thank you and think again.
preach on niggar cool

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by firstking01(m): 8:26am On Mar 16, 2016
Durentt:
Nice one EVarn, i also as a gay man dont support gay marriage too. Jst dnt knw why, maybe d type of environment i grew up in.
stop being gay or fvck off to thin airundecided

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by EVarn(m): 8:56am On Mar 16, 2016
firstking01:
You no even know wetin you dey talk, mtcheeewsundecided
perhaps I do not,but then again,I like to think that i'm entitled to my opinion.
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by ValerianSteel(m): 12:38pm On Mar 16, 2016
Durentt:
Hmmm. i jst bliv a child deserves d role of a mother and father. Its sounds selfish to me to deprive my child of motherly love which i was given. Majority of gays i know arent also in support of gay marriage, i dnt want gay marriage to be legalized here either jst dat homosexuality shud be decriminalized.
Normalization of homosexuality would not be complete without equal opportunities to gays.

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Nobody: 12:44pm On Mar 16, 2016
ValerianSteel:
Normalization of homosexuality would not be complete without equal opportunities to gays.
Hmmm. u hav a point there smiley
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Nobody: 12:44pm On Mar 16, 2016
Op never you misinterpret the words of God.



God forbid homosexuality. He destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah for it .



Jonathan and David shared brotherly love not romantic one


Homosexuality is demonic and also unhealthy stop supporting, tolerating or condoning it.







My Piece

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Nobody: 2:01pm On Mar 16, 2016
If girls don finish for this world, I'll rather castrate myself or masturbate dan support this sh!t called homosexualism
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Nobody: 2:08pm On Mar 16, 2016
wizzyrich:
If girls don finish for this world, I'll rather castrate myself or masturbate dan support this sh!t called homosexualism
Mtcheew. Easier said than done
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Lsofdk(m): 2:23pm On Mar 16, 2016
WORDWORLD:

"NONE ARE MORE HOPELESSLY ENSLAVED THAN THOSE WHO FALSELY BELIEVE THEY ARE FREE"

What right? Why is incest, rape, pedophilia, beastiality not YOUR RIGHT?

In TRUTH homosexualism is a complete MENTAL DERAILMENT. Those who practice it need help and lots of prayers.

Otherwise the CONSQUENCE are always there. You can never fight against nature and win.
preach my nigga
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by EVarn(m): 10:12pm On Mar 16, 2016
Diddyydiva:
Op never you misinterpret the words of God.



God forbid homosexuality. He destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah for it .



Jonathan and David shared brotherly love not romantic one


Homosexuality is demonic and also unhealthy stop supporting, tolerating or condoning it.







My Piece
quote the portion of the bible where it was written God destroyed sodom and gomorrah due to homosexualism.
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by beryl04(m): 2:54pm On Mar 17, 2016
ValerianSteel:
Normalization of homosexuality would not be complete without equal opportunities to gays.


Thank u ValerianSteel. i'm really getting tired of this 'i am gay but i'm not for gay marriage' double entendre.to me it smacks of a kind of societal induced internalized homophobia! the gays in the West did not get there by this pick and choose method of advocating for gay rights.it's all or nothing!at the end of the day when u don't like gay marriage ,then by all means, don't get gay-married!

but u know who else said the same 'i'm not for the gay marriage stuff' at the height of the struggle;Sir Elton John!today he's happily married to David with children.

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by ValerianSteel(m): 5:08pm On Mar 17, 2016
beryl04:



Thank u ValerianSteel. i'm really getting tired of this 'i am gay but i'm not for gay marriage' double entendre.to me it smacks of a kind of societal induced internalized homophobia! the gays in the West did not get there by this pick and choose method of advocating for gay rights.it's all or nothing!at the end of the day when u don't like gay marriage ,then by all means, don't get gay-married!

but u know who else said the same 'i'm not for the gay marriage stuff' at the height of the struggle;Sir Elton John!today he's happily married to David with children.
It's a gradual process especially to the gay community in Nigeria.

At Elton,he sure appears to be comfortably married

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by bigfrancis21: 2:34am On Mar 24, 2016
I am going to comment on this from an outsider point of view, void of the trappings of religious taints. From my observation so far, every gender is capable of having sex with members of the same sex and opposite sex when stimulated. For men, when a man's aroused and p3nis stimulated, it is capable of penetrating any orifice regardless of what type it is till climax, whether v@gina, @nus, m@sturbator toys (v@ginal and @nal) etc. For women, research shows that their sexuality is more fluid (non-static) than men's and women are more capable of showing bisexuality than men. In other words, even though a man may be primarily attracted to a particular gender on both emotional and s3xual levels, it is capable of having with the other gender when aroused. For centuries when homosexuality has been condemned, gay men (including 100% gay men) have been able to maintain heterosexual sex with their wives married out of societal pressure and have kids while still pursuing their primary sexual interest with other men. Heterosexual men have never been pressured into trying Sex with fellow men because the society does not require it but forbid it. In other words, they've never had their sexuality questioned or put into a test. In recent times, the real-life test sexuality test for straight men has been prisons or jails where these men, in the absence of females for an extended period of time, turn to their fellow men for pleasure and touch. In American jails, tons of straight black men in prison turn to their fellow men to have sex, in the extended absence of women for a long time. For these men, just any 'hole' that would provide the necessary stimulation for their shaft would do. The gender of the 'hole' does not matter. Many of these men return to heterosexual lives after leaving jail, some leave jail bisexual, exploring the 'other' side of their sexuality that had been laying latent all these years.

The world, especially Nigeria, needs to realize that bisexuality, homosexuality and heterosexuality have been part of the human population sexuality since eons of time ago, being variations in the continuum of human sexuality, and also realize that it is here to stay. From research, heterosexual and bisexual people consistently make up to 90% of a society's population and homosexual people make up 10%, indicating that there will always be enough heterosexual people to ensure the multiplicity and continuation of the human species. There is a natural order and scheme of things and this natural order keeps manifesting itself consistently in not just only humans but other species of life on earth. Spiritually, there is a purpose for every creation and specific creations would not be here if they were not intended for by the maker, creator or God force. Referring to or calling any creature of nature a 'mistake', 'aberration', etc. is to condemn nature's work of creation.

Tolerance is the key.

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Audray(f): 9:27am On Mar 24, 2016
ValerianSteel:
You regard yourself as a subspecie to heterosexuals and it's blind hypocrisy in my books for a supposedly gay man to have a problem with marriage between the same-sex.

In as much as you yearn for the comforts of another man's love,you look forward to sharing passionate moments with him you should support gay marriage because it takes two to tango and you can't be labelled gay if you have a problem identifying with two men committing to each other.

As long as love is the scale of measurement here,the institution of marriage is not exclusive to heterosexuals.Except there's a new definition to gay marriage which I'm not aware of undecided
abi? I was surprised to see the author of that comment was durentt.
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by kaziblake(f): 9:32am On Mar 24, 2016
Durentt:
Nice one EVarn, i also as a gay man dont support gay marriage too. Jst dnt knw why, maybe d type of environment i grew up in.
Are you truly a gay?
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by kaziblake(f): 9:36am On Mar 24, 2016
EVarn:
quote the portion of the bible where it was written God destroyed sodom and gomorrah due to homosexualism.
she is right.God destroyed sodom and Gomorah due to their homosexualism.
Go and study the Word of God very well.

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by EVarn(m): 11:28am On Mar 24, 2016
kaziblake:
she is right.God destroyed sodom and Gomorah due to their homosexualism.
Go and study the Word of God very well.
Dont give me petty sentiments,bring me the chapter and verse in the bible where it was said that God destroyed sodom and gomorrah specifically because of homosexually.I know my bible very well my friend.

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Nobody: 3:06pm On Mar 24, 2016
Audray:
abi? I was surprised to see the author of that comment was durentt.
my reasons for not supporting gay marriage is personal d same way some heterosexuals dont support hetero marriages. I dont want gay marriage legalized in nigeria either.
Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by fearlesschicken: 5:05pm On Mar 24, 2016
Durentt:
Hmmm. i jst bliv a child deserves d role of a mother and father. Its sounds selfish to me to deprive my child of motherly love which i was given. Majority of gays i know arent also in support of gay marriage, i dnt want gay marriage to be legalized here either jst dat homosexuality shud be decriminalized.

I find this thought coming from you very Weird.

I get the idea that everyone is entitled to their opinion but am sorry to say that this doesn't really have a basis

We got millions of children in the world who have been derived from having either a father or mother figure and even both. Yet grew up to be outstanding in their different fields. Some were trained by just males with no mother figure while some just females with no father figure.

So what stops two guys/ladies from raising a kid? BTW it is not compulsory to have kids either if you are afraid of that.


The concept motherly love is just a concept formed by the society to a woman because by nature she has formed a connection to the baby from the beginning and is suppose to be sweet and understanding to her child compared to the father.

It's all about your mindset and how you train the children that matters not the gender or motherly love you talk about. A man can also be as loving even more than the supposed mother.

Point to note: if heterosexual parents could raise gay kids who says homosexual parents can't raise straight kids?

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Nobody: 5:09pm On Mar 24, 2016
Fearlesschicken you are correct, u jst changed my view on gay marriage. Thanks

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Re: Clash Of Desires: Homosexualism And Modern Africa by Nobody: 5:10pm On Mar 24, 2016
kaziblake:
she is right.God destroyed sodom and Gomorah due to their homosexualism.
Go and study the Word of God very well.
Funny how everybody becomes a preacher when it gets to gay talk.

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