Am really confused guys.. i need help..

I started dating this girl 2 years ago, it was all moving well ,she told me she loved me and she proved it a countless times.
She did things no other girl has ever done for me, Her promises where keep and always fulfilled, including giving me her Facebook password, our calls where like forever, she could continue singing i love you for hours ..
She was not just my girlfriend, she was a friend, A date , and a wife all in one

This many things made me love like no other. I could go extra miles just to make her happy, i was always there when needed, no matter how busy i was i always made time for her alot of it.

But things changed suddenly
Just few months ago and she started behaving strange
Like no more calls, no more messages
I took it upon myself to do the calling but that didn't end there
Sometime i could call for 20times at night and she wont pick only for her to give me an excuse or the other ..
She always has an excuse to give for her failure to do something , even her promises are no more kept , the most lil of them all she cant keep nor fulfil she would always tell me she forgot..

She has started a life of lies it was unlike her, today i asked her if she was in class and she said yes and she sent me a fake pic of a class with white students in them..
I confronted her and told her she was lying but she kept insisting till i hanged up the call,
I was really sad all through today tonight she called back and apologized and said she was joking ... she promised me she wont
Make me sad again .. she asked me to come online so we could chat..
I had to go outside the rain bought airtime subscribed .. but when i came online she wasn't there
I tried calling her but she wont pick ,i called her cousin and she said she just left for a birthday

I don't sincerely know what to do guys.. she is fast in saying she loves me but all she does is make me sad ...
What can i do please help me

Guy just talk 2her and see if dre will be changes and if dre is not...Mr, just drop her like a pack of card and Move on with your life ..No time!!!

You don't have to be confused. Give her a break and face your life. #LoveIsOverated..

Femich18:
Guy just talk 2her and see if dre will be changes and if dre is not...Mr, just drop her like a pack of card and Move on with your life ..No time!!!

I have ... today i even sent her a text.. felt like even crying ...
But she doesnt feel pitt she just overlooked it like i sent a wrong text to her ...
Am just tayad

Dnt try to push it any further.

darkenkach:
You don't have to be confused. Give her a break and face your life. #LoveIsOverated..

A break i have tried .
Shw would be the one to call me thw next day and that would soften my heart ...

maxdozie:


I have ... today i even sent her a text.. felt like even crying ...
But she doesnt feel pitt she just overlooked it like i sent a wrong text to her ...
Am just tayad

Bros abeg just move on with ur life jare...you can't keep staying with sm1 dt treat u with disdain. You are only an Option to her wreas she is everything to you...My tribe pple ll say u dnt call a cow broda cos u wanna eat meat..U are priceless and dts Wt u are...just let her be. If she value you she wont have treated you like a nonetity

Femich18:

Bros abeg just move on with ur life jare...you can't keep staying with sm1 dt treat u with disdain. You are only an Option to her wreas she is everything to you...My tribe pple ll say u dnt call a cow broda cos u wanna eat meat..U are priceless and dts Wt u are...just let her be. If she value you she wont have treated you like a nonetity

Thanks bro

It seems someone else has taken over

Just try and talk to her one last time, if she refused to change, den it's best u walk away

Lol walahi your grammar chased her away . On a more serious note though. People change, feelings vanish, time does that. Your relationship is obviously dead, the signs shoe but you are choosing to ignore them. You love her more and you are more invested and that's a problem man. She's treating u like crap and you r still tagging along. I have been there, I know it's hard but you have to draw back a Lil at least and if she doesn't change you Man up and move on, and yes it's difficult as hell but it gets better.

myfantasies:
It seems someone else has taken over

Just try and talk to her one last time, if she refused to change, den it's best u walk away

I tot that way too..
One day i was listening to " one direction - steal my girl "
She walked up to me and told me no man can steal her away..

Girls sha

Marinza:
Lol walahi your grammar chased her away . On a more serious note though. People change, feelings vanish, time does that. Your relationship is obviously dead, the signs shoe but you are choosing to ignore them. You love her more and you are more invested and that's a problem man. She's treating u like crap and you r still tagging along. I have been there, I know it's hard but you have to draw back a Lil at least and if she doesn't change you Man up and move on, and yes it's difficult as hell but it gets better.

No1 is above mistake ...

Thanks for your advice bro.

maxdozie:


I tot that way too..
One day i was listening to " one direction - steal my girl "
She walked up to me and told me no man can steal her away..

Girls sha

Don't say girls sha, it's both ways

Just try nd give it one last try, if it doesn't work out, den u know what to do

@maxdozie
Go her a Lil space. wen she calls, mk it look lik ur busy n quickly end d cal. Do it for 2-3days, if she truly loves u, u wud know.

Note.. b more prayerful n watchful n careful.

op too bad, sorry to say this but bk girl wants a guy that other girls dont want....in essence stop making her feel like she is the only one and get other female friends, then watch her come back to her senses...before i forget 97% relationship in school don't work out fine so stop thinking your doing something wrong is just nature doing its thing.

maxdozie:


I have ... today i even sent her a text.. felt like even crying ...
But she doesnt feel pitt she just overlooked it like i sent a wrong text to her ...
Am just tayad

I guess you aren't blind to see the handwriting on the wall. Its obvious that she is no longer into you. Bro, move on.

Dude... wake up... smell the coffee... it's over...

Kingsasian:
I guess you aren't blind to see the handwriting on the wall. Its obvious that she is no longer into you. Bro, move on.

I do.
Maybe am just too scared to move on

maxdozie:
Am really confused guys.. i need help..

I started dating this girl 2 years ago, it was all moving well ,she told me she loved me and she proved it a countless times.
She did things no other girl has ever done for me, Her promises where keep and always fulfilled, including giving me her Facebook password, our calls where like forever, she could continue singing i love you for hours ..
She was not just my girlfriend, she was a friend, A date , and a wife all in one

This many things made me love like no other. I could go extra miles just to make her happy, i was always there when needed, no matter how busy i was i always made time for her alot of it.

But things changed suddenly
Just few months ago and she started behaving strange
Like no more calls, no more messages
I took it upon myself to do the calling but that didn't end there
Sometime i could call for 20times at night and she wont pick only for her to give me an excuse or the other ..
She always has an excuse to give for her failure to do something , even her promises are no more kept , the most lil of them all she cant keep nor fulfil she would always tell me she forgot..

She has started a life of lies it was unlike her, today i asked her if she was in class and she said yes and she sent me a fake pic of a class with white students in them..
I confronted her and told her she was lying but she kept insisting till i hanged up the call,
I was really sad all through today tonight she called back and apologized and said she was joking ... she promised me she wont
Make me sad again .. she asked me to come online so we could chat..
I had to go outside the rain bought airtime subscribed .. but when i came online she wasn't there
I tried calling her but she wont pick ,i called her cousin and she said she just left for a birthday

I don't sincerely know what to do guys.. she is fast in saying she loves me but all she does is make me sad ...
What can i do please help me

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she had definitely found a guy with a huge dick or a huge bank account.. Trust me d former can make any girl act weird when used on them

maxdozie:


I do.
Maybe am just too scared to move on

bro, you just have to. She knows that you have made her your everything/life, you have built your world around her. She thinks you can't do without her or have a life outside the relationship. I have been in your shoes several times before and I made the exact mistake you are about to make which is one of my regrets till date. It may not be easy at first but at the end you will be glad you did. Trust me she will come back begging. I am telling you this based on my own personal experience and that of some close friends as well. Most ladies do not appreciate/value good guys. Next time, do not show or let a lady know how much you love her. Be erratic or unpredictable in your next relationship because the partner who cares less in a relationship determines it. That is what is keeping my present relationship in place at the moment. Move on! Have fun.

maxdozie:
Am really confused guys.. i need help..

I started dating this girl 2 years ago, it was all moving well ,she told me she loved me and she proved it a countless times.
She did things no other girl has ever done for me, Her promises where keep and always fulfilled, including giving me her Facebook password, our calls where like forever, she could continue singing i love you for hours ..
She was not just my girlfriend, she was a friend, A date , and a wife all in one

This many things made me love like no other. I could go extra miles just to make her happy, i was always there when needed, no matter how busy i was i always made time for her alot of it.

But things changed suddenly
Just few months ago and she started behaving strange
Like no more calls, no more messages
I took it upon myself to do the calling but that didn't end there
Sometime i could call for 20times at night and she wont pick only for her to give me an excuse or the other ..
She always has an excuse to give for her failure to do something , even her promises are no more kept , the most lil of them all she cant keep nor fulfil she would always tell me she forgot..

She has started a life of lies it was unlike her, today i asked her if she was in class and she said yes and she sent me a fake pic of a class with white students in them..
I confronted her and told her she was lying but she kept insisting till i hanged up the call,
I was really sad all through today tonight she called back and apologized and said she was joking ... she promised me she wont
Make me sad again .. she asked me to come online so we could chat..
I had to go outside the rain bought airtime subscribed .. but when i came online she wasn't there
I tried calling her but she wont pick ,i called her cousin and she said she just left for a birthday

I don't sincerely know what to do guys.. she is fast in saying she loves me but all she does is make me sad ...
What can i do please help me

She is seeing someone else. Dump her

I think you are a Lil too soft for your own good..
For goodness sake, you've given her your power! She knows she has you already.. One can easily deduce from your chat with her that she owns the ball.
You bore her bro, you need to take charge, show less care..
She may truly love you but she still want to taste the wild life... Lol
If truly you still want her, you need to put your lady in check, you are too predictable man, you need to think like a predator.

You show too much emotions bro and she can sense your worries, stop all that and see how things turn around..

Stop exercising your emotions by thinking about the times you guys spent together, start exercising your mind instead..

Your type shouldn't get into the hands of really wild gurls oh!

Guys are suffering in the hands of girls. Bro, you need plan B.

You are her side nigga now! Deal withh it

myfantasies:
It seems someone else has taken over

Just try and talk to her one last time, if she refused to change, den it's best u walk away

this is why girls need heavy handed dealing. i wont tolerate this from any woman. no dating. straight marriage. i keep u till the day u want to leave then i release u voluntarily. no beggin.

Ighoga898:
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she had definitely found a guy with a huge dick or a huge bank account.. Trust me d former can make any girl act weird when used on them

This is very true about the "former". Maybe you didn't use yours on her well enough or at all, because maybe you felt like you didn't want to spoil your "good boy" image. Or let's assume the new guy is someone she's been having a crush on/ her dream guy, and he has come for her....Even at that if you were using the "former" well as a boss, I don't think she will just abandon you like that, or abandon you at all sef. There's a reason it's called "making love". My advice may sound silly, lol. But ladies can tend to become emotionally attached to a guy who makes them feel "real good".

Been in your shoes before. Most of the posters before me have offered you sound advice it's left for you to take it,but i doubt you will do it because of your love for her. It happens bro.
Lemme help you with how i escaped from my own predicament.
- I faced my life squarely. My career,education,church and finances took primary importance.
- I got another girl,prettier one sef. Made me stop thinking of her.
- I acted like she doesn't exist. Anytime i feel like picking the phone to talk to her i call my mum and friends instead and wastes the airtime.
It's not easy trusts me but it's what you have to do in order to protect your heart. It's obvious she loves you but she wants to 'catch fun' a bit before settling down.
All the best

She still love you... Just relax she's just doing some stuff so dat she will be convince to love you more...... Lay low for now

Op, when a lady behaves like this, it simply means she is tired of the relationship.

Don't let anybody deceive you that she still loves you. That lady is no longer interested in you that's why she's giving you attitude.. If you are expecting her to sit you down and tell you she's no longer interested then you are sleeping on a moving bike


I will just advise you follow the advice given by Marinza, Tosyne2much, Basics007 and Boland. Goodluck