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what does a 28 year old man find appealing about a 15 year old girl (no offence)?

if I tell you here, how will only you know? do you think everyone else in NL is blind?

what's that got to do with anything?

wormedup:
a feminine sweetheart.

you know me well

stressed out dude

oh I couldn't fight with my Grizzly Bear . . . or could I?

There are certainly some very strong opinions flying around on this thread.
I'm about to give my own personal testimony based on my own experience, and I'm sure I'll get my head chewed off by many of you, but I don't think all of you are truely aware of just how awful some marriages can become.

I was married to a man I would have given my life for. I loved him more than I know how to express in words. Initially we were very happy, we talked about starting a family, and decided the time was right, and within months I was pregnant. I was so unbelievably happy, and he told me he was too. In time I started noticing a few changes in his behaviour, but we were married, so I adjusted to his change after seeing that talking to him wasn't getting me anywhere. After the birth of our son he became violent. When our son was 5 weeks old I noticed several bruises on his little body, and he had begun crying all the time, refusing the breast, and he'd begun vomiting. I took him to the doctor who had us all (husband included) rushed to the childrens hospital in the nearest city. Our son was examined and x-rays were taken of his little body, and photographs were taken of the bruises. During this time I was treated like a criminal & accused of abusing my baby. What the !!! The x-rays showed that our little baby had 6 fractured ribs. Can you imagine? A 5 week old baby with 6 fractured ribs Our son was taken away from us immediately, and we were sent home with empty arms. I felt I was dying, it is the most intense pain I have ever felt in my life. I was so confused, so torn between wanting to scream at the injustice and wanting to cry my eyes out. Not once did I ever accuse my husband, I honestly believed that he couldn't have done it. The law pointed the finger at me because I had suffered a lot of physical trauma during the delivery of our baby. My husband & I were arrested and locked up. It took me 7 months to prove that I was innocent, and for the law to prove my husband was guilty. I was told by the judge in court that I would never see my son again as long as I remained married to my husband. I didn't know what to do. I was married. Marriage is for life! I stood by my husband and supported him as much as I could. I attended marriage guidence counselling with him, though after two sessions he refused to go again. I went alone. I tried desperately to talk him into anger management therapy, but he refused. He just got more violent. When our baby was 10 months old I was finally allowed to bring him home. For the next two weeks we had to live in a parenting village to prove we could be good parents. At the end of the two weeks I was told that I am a wonderful Mum. Once we were home my husband made it very well known that he wanted to end our marriage. I kept our marriage together until our son was 2 yrs 6 months old. I endured his physical violence. I endure his affair with my sister. I endured more beatings every time I stood in his way as he went after our son.
My son is now 14 years old. He is a beautiful young man. Very passionate, emotional, loving, caring, protective. He is not involved with anything illegal. . . no drugs, no theft, no chasing girls.
It is not fair for any of you to point at anyone who has had a divorce and call us cowards, sinners, whatever. Try walking in the shoes of a divorcee before you place judgement. Some of you are so quick to quote the Bible and judge those who have divorced. . . doesn't it also say in the Bible that you shouldn't judge others?. . .

I tell you, he ticked me off so much with his attitude once he got that I just wasn't helping him, he got all nasty and made sure I knew he wasn't happy *rolling my eyes*
I had so much steam coming out of my ears, I singed my hair!
Seriously though, I don't ever believe anyone who tells me that they're in love with my photo. . . I mean, come on

Love is my drug

Seems everyone was sucked in to give advice that wasn't needed.
Another example of how easy it is to lie online

If I Want To - Usher

i'm thinking sshhhh Grizzly, before you blow my cover

surely you don't need to ask that question, or do you?

who asked for your opinion Mr Grizzly?

I'm thinking Grizzly keeps so should perhaps call himself Grumpy

smoke

i'm up for it

idiot:
really. . .and have you looked at the site he links through his profile. . ?

I know! I personally don't think he's a Christian, he claimed he's one.
Like I said I was just commenting on his words

this thread is funny yet sad
i've had the same response to my pic, they see it and are immediately in love, i'm like what the and I was sending them a pic that made me look so their response is just illogical. I usually refuse to give out my pic now and yet they still say the same thing! Except for this one guy last night, I just have to share this story with you He saw me here in NL and so he contacted me through my yahoo id. He was all questions! Said he was in Nigeria, 23 blah blah blah. Had a word to me about how much he was spending just to talk to me, I mentioned that I have to pay for my time online too and he was sarcastic in implying his time cost more blah blah blah. Then at the end of the chat he tells me how much he enjoyed the chat and how he's looking forward to chatting again, he thinks I'm a nice madam blah blah blah, then he fires his request at me Wants me to purchase a computer for him and some other thing I didn't understand, and wants me to send them to him, he follows the request by stating that he knows I will do this for him as it is his fist time in asking me Mind you, I'd already explained that I'm single, raising two kids ON MY OWN! Where does he think this money will come from? Perhaps he thinks we grow money trees in Australia
Anyway, talk about making me so you see, with or without a picture, some people will just say anything! You've got to be careful.

are you asking me?

idiot:
And. . .what makes you say Reverend is a christian?

I haven't seen any posts which say the bible suggests refusing sex or consuming alcohol. So, what are you talking about?

He has said he is a Christian, i was responding to his comment!

you're forgiven *hugs*

yes is all I will say

tpbm loves to be the dominating partner regarding sex

hahahaha true!

naughty boy

@vichel, me thinks Rhodalyn was referring to me (thanks sweetie )

I've never cheated on a partner, I'm a good girl

tpbm is smiling right now