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@ luxoire: my dear, u trashed the issue fairly. i hope we all can rest from the virginity episodes

@poster: really shocking! u have gone to a place no man should eva go and u think ur life will be the same? lai lai.

i think i dentifying that you have a problem is a step in the right direction but u need to get some truths rite:

- your door cannot swing both ways, ur either gay or not.
- your urge for men has nothing to do with d size of ur manhood.
- suddenly trying to hang out with a chic won't transform u.

proposed way forward:

- drop that lifestyle, its abominable
- do some soul searching as to why u feel this urge (what u xpose urself to)
- serious prayers and cleansing
- counselling

P.S: dont drag any innocent chic into this ur wahala o! else she will castrate u 4life.

@steph: thnks, i'll wrk on it asap.

amen.

Bolarge:
Look into the light son. Appreciate yourself as has already been said. Please look for some really nice peeps here on N'land n' chat with 'em. I can furnish u with some names.

_{Na so these Virginia Tech kin tins dey start oh}

i definitely agree  because i watched the killer's tape. first, u sink so low then burst out wit a destructive rage.

@steph: very insightful and convincing. am so curious already.

@poster:

did u ask her out on a phone conversation? be man and do wht u gotta do in her face.

masari:
no too much nonsense,just contact while interested, Alright.

obviously fron u. i saw ur pathetic S.O.S and intially ignored it but u still got nerve to talk? plsssss

@poster: sorry bro but i dnt have the experience or expertise u require. Try Dr Phil. he always has the rite solution (did i say always? )

@steph: it would hav been phenomenal if it was so. a guy and a girl had phone intimacy and chic got pregnant. the guy ddnt even question the paternity. very crazy!

@steph:

there's no clear-cut guide to solving this but try this reverse-therapy (no guarantees though)

don't call, but send messages of how much u'd love 2 talk 2 him but u don't have the time because your busy with other things.  give the impression that your super busy and u av a life too. it mite give him a nudge that u aint always going to be  handy as he thinks. g. luck

@steph: true, but av u seen the movie "the truth about cats and dogs" ? this stuff happened in it. (dont tell me its just a movie)

@poster: forgiven. nice pix by the way, gonna keep it on my pc

@steph:
thanks 4 setting d record straight. i don't mean to make u feel bad, but maybe ur just very far down on his list of priorities and he thinks u'd always be there for him to attend to whenever he feel like. But, ask urself this question, the few times u guys get to talk is it qualitative enouf for him to wanna call back again? cos u always gotta make a guy wanna come back for more, thats d trick.

confusion!

@:congrats on ur 10,000th post. phew!

@poster: truly inspiring but damn long.

in all fairness, she said buddy in that post (some male friend i guess with no strong ties).

@steph:i guess this guy must be the one u are really interested in, rite?

Kashif:
@stephanay,

In another post, you said you like it when you and your hubby 'endulge' in midnight sex call. How come you are now saying he doesn't call you? Which one you dey sef?

Take your gist elsewhere

BUSTED!!

@steph: hope u use virtual protection, u could get pregant u know.

let's help the bro out.

its an informal outdoor gathering of people (friends/invitees) for relaxation and fun. (grilled edibles are usually served)

by the way, what planet are u from? just curious!

@silly: it called preference. why giv a girl a love card she'll trash as soon as u turn ur back? if u know ur girl and she's about them vouchers, send her one.probably thats the language of her love.

@tranquil: sorry dear, for u 2 be this broken,i think u rlly loved this guy. it can be painful when the one thing u want d most is what u can't have. i think u definitely need a friend/confidant to share ur pain with.

i like my friends, i love my life but i totally adore my sleep. so no midnite thingy.

money & relationship? i definitely need some money (not necessarily for relationships only) but i don't need all the money in the world cos there are things money can't give or fix.

@bolarge: good point on the impatience thing, but slow poison guys usually aint playas as it make them obvious. a slow poison kinda guy would strike u as probably the most decent and caring person on earth, but like u said, he's got to be shaggin some other conquest on the side while waiting for the one in d pipeline.

if u go ahead and take d job, i guess u av what u call work experience rite? but in future, should u decide to move elsewhere (i knw u will anyway cos i dont c u surviving on that stipend in modern nigeria), how do u think i would look when asked about ur past remuneration by your would-de employer? it mite automatically short-sell u!

beside a job of 5k for a graduate is no job, its a slave camp, pls don't take it.

fashlak:
I love my job but my boss is making life difficult for me, i share the same floor with him, so each time theres no ne around , he tells me to come to hes office for a brief meeting , but istead or the socalled brief meeting, this man will push me to the wall and starts caressing me like some one that has not had sex for 2 years, sometimes, i feel he watches pornography in his office, because i notice hes privates is always strong even without doin anything. he complains am always attracted to me. , CAN You IMAGINE?

i know ladies who will kill for ur job!

if am sure she would do the same 4me.