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@poster- u get along as best friends does not necessarily mean u are good together as lovers, besides ur both in committed relationships so why d sudden epiphany that u are in luv with her ? u mite be feeling something but just let her be if she aint feelin the same.

first of all a cute face, then a mean sillouette!

loving two pple @ the same time? very possible
loving them for same reason or otherwise? probably
loving them equally? impossible

besides its not every single tingle that we get down our spine that is love!

your friend got it real bad.

if we have been connecting in every other way apart from seeing each other, i believe its possible .

it made me realize how much i can take & really brought out the sarcasm in me ( don't know if thats a good thing though). but in all, its got d love & fun.

Posted by: frank 3.16
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you don't need any special prayers. to me you are completely normal and living you life of fun.

all ye guys who say he needs prayer
how many of you will resist a sexy, vulnerable and attractive young girl of sixteen or seventeen? i mean she is so succulent and inviting, shaking it infront of you and is willing to give you a heart stopping moment of pleasure?

will you say no?

all we do is come here and pretend that we are perfect, because probably we




birds of the same feather, na the same mama born them!

i heard something similar @ work but didnt take it seriously. thanks for da info.

yeah rite. was @ mtn friendship center 2day for the connection on my n95 (8g) but was told it was not yet available. free testing is supposed to last till july 1st with 10 dstv channels.

@poster: i really feel 4u, the shit u were doing thru last year with the 14 year old is still in your head. i think your just a joke!

na today?, have had similar experiences of gay guys approaching me n all that ( about 6 i guess)

the first 2 were through phone calls and text msgs, (i really don't know how they got my number) and they went on and on about how they wanted to be my special friend, Sho? i was really mad and warned them never to call me again. the next three were face to face interactions,two at the galleria (a popular fastfood joint there) and third at a club in ikoyi. these guys were so bold and didnt care if i was gonna cause a scene. after the first two i told a pastor friend of mine and he told me the best way to repel them (as well as help them was to preach to them) and it worked with like magic when i went all Godly on them, they eventually back off.

the last was a shock becos it was a friend i had known for 7 years, he sent me a text using another name and number claiming he wanted us to hook up, i tried calling back but he wouldnt pick up, he only sent msgs . so i decided to call him frm a payfone and the moment he picked up, i knew the voice. i called him back on my phone and asked him what was goin on. he said he'd come over so that we can talk. he told me he wanted to tell me along time ago but he wanted to be sure what my reaction towards gay people would be before he did so and that the text and my response was a test. i told him i mite not be in sync with his lifestyle but that doesnt make me love him less or dooms our friendship. i told him to free if he ever wanted to talk about it.


yeah, they are everywhere but am not homophobic . just know how u handle them.

impression says alot when it comes to dating and that happens within the first 60 seconds u meet someone. ladies that i know wont give the time of day or nite to reel out amorous intentions if they don't dig u frm day one. so that she's playing hard to get means ur still a contender and stil relevant in the scope of things. maybe she's just want to see how far u will go to get whats already urs ( am sure u've told a lady you'll cross the ocean for b4 )

p.s- beware of those who play that game while clutching their diggers ,shovels and harvest sack (gold diggers), like thonia said they don't like the taste of your honey but the love the smell of your money.

so ladies my question is this, if guys only fall in love once, how do you know whether you are that one true love or u missed the mark?

@ busta- u seem to b flyin a life-size banner for guy b. (just teasin u)

@crain- my dear, whatever u do, let your decision be based on conviction and not convenience.

also consider uspry's pointers, they may be some kind of guiding lite. cheers.

didiomos:
i have tried all the communication i can but he keeps saying, breaking up after 5 years is not easy to let go. there was even a time he with her till late, then he passed the night at her place. but someone told me i should not get too worked up that he will get over her when the time comes,

if it ain't easy to let go, then why the break up in the first place. from what u just said, it seems they are so hung up on each other. are u supposed to be the second fiddle in your relationship? hell no! i think what he needs his an ultimatum. its either he keeps chasing the love he once lost or stick with the new love he has found (you). love is not crazy, human are!

spoilt:
No one says its an offence punishable by death to talk to an ex. This exchange should be kept to its barest minimum in my opinion. When an ex starts blowing up your phone and showing up at every turn it should give your significant other cause for concern.
i believe in letting go . It was fun while it lasted. we'll meet in the streets, say our his and byes and move on.

well said. moderation is the key.

dear, why go back to egypt?

cute-ass:
Dear, i can't really say where i've been Cos i've been asking myself the same question lol, guess i just needed a break. Thanks for the shout out sha, hope you had yourself a good easter celebration?


@ topic

Like he said, take it easy. You'll be fine!

i guess atimes its good to get some fresh air, far far away frm this land.


@spoilt: i really feel your point. atimes its a lame excuse used to justify clandestine intentions. but while good mite not be good enouf, evil can never make you even. serving him the same grill makes u no different from him.

oh my gosh! . cute-ass, where the hell av u been?? u been kinda M.I.A. lately. hope ur good. (back to the thread)[pre][/pre]

dearie, rest your little head. what u feel is only natural as your guy mite be having just a friendship with his ex while she is nusring a comeback. but with love, trust and good communication, there's nothing u cant overcome.

alot is easier said than done, while some draw their inspiration frm such successful unions others hold on to their view based on the destructive ones the've seen. religion is not key but faith is and it forms a a core part of our existence (for those who are still in tune with their maker). if in your relationship, issues arise that seem to test or contradict yours, then your gonna have a big problem. yeah, love is beautiful but atimes it aint enouf and that u love someone doesnt necessarily make u compactible.

- at lost or u mean at "loss"? bros this ur grammar can cause an acute fever!

kingkams:
I see a nice, young, beautiful and attractive guy most girls would like to have as their husbands.

let me guess, your favourite cologne must be versace "the dreamer" , right?

@iice: serious?
u don't reflect ke? only vampires don't reflect in front of a mirror. this nairaland o, don't let them give u a name that is not ur own.

cheers

sagitarius:
finding d right person may be hard some times because most of d people we want are always taken.

sagitarius:
finding d right person may be hard some times because most of d people we want are always taken.

could be true atimes.

@poster: when it comes to love, what u can guarantee is giving but not getting.good luck on your quest.

efuah:
Where are the love nurses?

very funny!

doctor love,i think ur just some hopeless romantic living in some kind of fantasy of what love is. u really are loveless!