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,   where on earth do u pple meet this kinda girls? chineke!

@poster: are u the guy in the situation or just another concerned citizen?

"Thanks Guys for your pieces of advice. I differenciated between the MATURED guys and those layabouts who knows nothing about marriage issues. They all
came up with a hollier than thou attitude."

comments like this makes me sick to my stomach! . did u expect everyone to giv u da thumbs up? just becos pple beg to differ in their submissions on the issue makes them immature and lay-abouts? Pls, ,,do your generation a favour and keep ur truck load of problems to urself.

Nihil-ce-M:
@ poster

Na una know.

Whatever you do nor concern us.

People who dey shout child-abuse: NA NAIJA WE DEY.

The law doesn't give a hoot about a full fledged woman, ma small pikin e go dey worry about?

Find something else to say. Since the girl family don agree, make she carry go.

Further education nor go help the girl sef, because as I dey see am so, na real olodo she be.

quite agree, but that d law doesnt protect doesnt make it rite.

@poster: u should thank God she told u d truth and say ur good bye nicely.

@poster: i think u should respect her stand and let her be, its obvious her religious perspective outshadows any emotional attachment of any sort.

almondjoy:
A fool at 30 is a fool for ever!

At 32? A female? In Nigeria?



Next please!

dearie i love u , but that was rather too harsh. yeah i agree she wakin up to smell the coffee rather late but reparations can still be made.

@poster: datin or courting is not just about the gifts and candle light dinners, its a time for u really be observant and inquisitive, it helps u to sniff out the garbage, highlight the exceptional qualities and have a picture or forecast of what a future would be like with ur supposed love.

well now u know what to do, don't u?

angelchi:
bottom line,forget him.

u guys are always gonna be parallel lines, when ur up, he;s down!

thats the thing about an overtly genuine love, its easily taken for granted. all da best.

@poster: can see u are into some big time craddle-snatching! haba, fifteen yrs, is it that bad?

@poster: pls what i need u to clearify is where its a matter of lack of interest or opportunity? u got this ladies sayin nice stuff bout u, is that u aint into any of them or they were not down with u?

not sayin anything is wrong with u, but u need to ascertain which team ur playin on.

u should stick to ur belief if it works for u. there is no universal procedure for starting a relationship. its a matter of choice.

@ufobabe: whats d souce of ur statistics?

am cool with all d drama all lady can bring (pretence, gossip, etc) except, , "GOLD-DIGGING"

trust me if u were loaded, they won't a hoot if u were a playa. get a job first and then clean up and see if they dont fall over themselves to have u.

rachiwise:
for some,no money,no job,no pay in short proverty.

for others self-centredness,selfishness,stupidity, u name it.

good. but the main reason is becos of them lazy-ass. no good, gold diggin, two timing ladies we have around these days, ready to dump their truck load of issues and madness at every eligible guys doorstep!

@poster: really? thats new! well beauty is relative and it depends on what every individual is lookin 4.

there are times when pple are forced to take certain decision and actions against their will/feelings and even though at that time it was the rite thing to do, they felt it was not the for the best. pple like that often find it difficult to move past that phase and get stuck in the lamentations of "had i known" and so on.   a comeback is usually attempted if such opportunity is given.

ThoniaSlim:
Nope, whats in the past, stays in the past. period.

WELL PUT! BUT THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS ATIMES ESPECIALLY WHEN THE BREAKUP WAS SOMETHING BOTH PARTIES NEVER REALLY WANTED. BUT DA SHOW MUST ALWAYS GO ON.

@poster: am sorry, but he chose the other lady over you and that makes u just another "SIDEKICK"

@rockiedink or cockiedonk, , whatever d curse befell u , my advise is that u go hang!

quit tryin to come off on me cos d*$kheads like u are not allowed to dream about it.

the guy asked a question i gave my response, period!


(since u feel the guys pain that much, u can send him yours for a start! )


load of crap!

Nautillus:
Naira landers,

Very nice people. _{TDK, Tall,,,,,,,,,Dark,,,,,,,,,,,,,,& handsome}

dreams can come true

candies:
Do people actually enjoy talking about this virginity thing?
Look different plp have different reasons for remaining virgins, so, it's not right to generalize and say 'virgins are not opportuned'.

I'll definitely always pass over all this virginity talk.

very good idea! had about enouf.

@zignor: very contradictory submission when compared to your signature: u are what u think!

frankies and almondjoy, what da hell is goin on?

u could start with, your mama!

ur damn rite!

pin4eva:
i think his problem is what to tell the girl, just tell him to start with some thing to get the girl's attention first. aim towards becoming casual friends and not lovers.

NOTE: don't meet the hash type oh! !!

good advice, or you meger confidence will be trampled upon 4eva!