₦airaland Forum

tamdun:
They are actually killing our economy

You that is not killing the economy, what are you producing and sold cheaper? What are you producing that they have failed to buy from you? Or, you still expect the same igbos to produce those things they easily buy from the abroad, meanwhile there is no govt incentive for ease of business for them? No be juju be that?

BATified2023:
any which way todays he’s 6ft down n burning in hell n tinubu is still breathing

One hate filled miscreants gone

So, you guys had to kill him just to drive home this narrative. Very pathetic.

Ikpeazukerosene:
Mental escapism. Typical ipob mentality.
E.g. Blaming fulani, DSS and Tinubu for the cage they lock your parents in every Monday.

See this Amoda drug addict.

Abdul05:
so you think 2 million pigs and l million piglets is still a joke bah...

You this gworo chewing chimpanzee, try get sense for once na.

Abdul05:
Tinubu shouldn't be part of ur worries..


But obi should be the one...

Being a biafran he might bring a war to our door steps

When was the last time you were sober and clean from whatever you take that makes you move mad?

FreeBiafra2018:
Some people think that they're too safe behind their keyboard or android phone, when people are ranting and throwing words on social media, don't jump out if you don't know your left to your right (those wey understand, knows). This guy may have been spiritually arrowed and people like that are the likes that will never believe the possibility of such.
RIP though.

I even suspect assassination, just to drive this narrative OP is cooking. Nothing about human beings fit shock me.

plaindealer:
Same with PMB, they wished him death every second of the day for years, but many of them departed already and PMB is still above the ground and looking fresh.


Life..

How are we sure that an unknown Tinubu supporters did not murder him in order to drive this narrative. E no get anything desperate people like some of you can not do.

CilicMarin:
Even if on Wheel Chair, Tinubu is next President Of Nigeria...You can only wail and gnash your teeth, when he is sworn in.

We will commit you agbadorians to psychiatric homes once Obi wins.

God1000:
We are very lucky in Nigeria, we don't experience all these natural disasters

You are not lucky. You have a good share of the end time's birth pangs with bad leaderships, insecurities and tribal wickedness. No country will escape these judgments. One way or the other, everybody must to collect wotowotoporously. Iwatago!

Omoluabi16:
these girls get who them dey call and chat with steady. Unlucky if it isn't you.

These bug dawgs don't know nothing. I can't count how many girls wey don use i incessant care and calling make me vex block and delete them. Most girls get who dem dey mumu, the problem be sey no be you.

These reptilian lucifer worshippers are purposefully acting these scripts in order to pollute the mind if unsuspecting humans into to practise vain lifestyles.

Realist12:
Wahala this is getting serious, IED in Anambra killing a top military man and some people are still shifting blame saying it's Fulani that are UGM . Thank God for the realistic Soludo.
The Easterners should listen to Wise, Intelligent and thoughtful Nnamani.

Chimaroka, an iyanmri is now your god, abi?

MrBrownJay1:
yes he tried, and that childish woman still gave him the cold shoulder... fair enough, but let us think for a minute: you havent seen/contacted your kids for 9 weeks, and you finally get a response from that childish wife of yours, and instead of focussing on your children (and deal with that childish woman later), you would add another 3 months of silent treatment and/or NOT SEEING/CONTACTING your children, really?!?!?

It was even the children she was using as the missile in this war. She knew he would be frustrated if the children were cut off from him. And indeed, he showed that with how consistent he tried to reach her. She is now mad that he doesn't care about the children. Her frustration is not that he is not making attempts to reconcile with her, but the only weapon she had yo hold him down is neutralised.

VTJN:
Lol

You should know that most of them are childish with no family value orientation

Don't you see how some of them are singing the man should cut her off, divorce her, bla bla bla

Even though we all know that the woman is completely wrong

If you as a man believe in Tit for Tat then you should remain single

Most of our parents made sacrifices to get this far in their various marriages

Some even still consider their marriage in the face of cheating

Marriage is not for kids truly

Most of our parents also divorce for less excuses. Don't make it look like divorce only became a thing today.

MrBrownJay1:
i am not "blaming" the man, i am stating a fact... what the wife did is CHILDISH! you cant blame a woman for being immature and childish, and when you play tit for tat with her, not expect to be called CHILDISH too... what husband did is exacty the same as what wifey did.

The only childish thing on his part is not making moves to get in contact with his children by any means necessary. Asides that, he is in the right frame. I wanted to say that the story is fake, but considering what my own elder brother faced in Australia, how he lost his marriage, children and his first daughter he had long ago before marrying his ex-wife, I believe stories like this are true. The wife is concerned about the husband not talking to her family members or responding to messages on unrelated issues. No rational mind would accept this. This is not about being mature and better person.

BRATISLAVA:
Oh, please.

Dictators online, serfs offline.

You will be good to dominate and remould, to break all your machismo to pieces. I say that with 100% masculinity intact. Some of you here that post all the "never, good forbid this and that, she dare not, she'd be a gonner" will even enjoy the submission you'll be shaped with.

Stay one place, guy. Are Nigerian men patriarchy or they are femininised be submissive. They can't be both na, haba.

MrBrownJay1:
no matter how you wanna look at this issue, the woman IS/WAS wrong and she started AND fuelled this madness. as i stated, she needs to look within herself whats bothering her but ultimately something got to give... and by the look of things husband is not letting go after 5months (aka he is better at this childish "silent treatment" game than she is).

so that childish woman better open her eyes, give in and hope that husband forgives her childish actions.

Don't be slow, please. Unless this story is fake, this writer didn't write anything that warrant anybody blaming the man. The only thing to add is that he should have gone down to her place to see the children. That's all.

MrBrownJay1:
you are the one who is not making any sense....so your "immature" wife alienates you from your children for 9 long weeks, and the day you can resolve this immature BS silent treatment issue and get in contact with your kids again, instead of defusing the issue, you decide to give her the silent treatment (of your own) for 3 more month... in order to make it 5 months without any contact with your kids?! does that even make sense to you, really?!

You are not bright at all. Even when she boldly wrote that she called to talk about an unrelated issue and about her sisters admission and marriage, you still want the man to communicate and diffuse the matter. All these femininised men sef.

Socratiz:
I am not going to condemn either of you but it's obvious both of you need a good lesson in emotional intelligence.

Yes. Granted that raising kids alone because your husband is not with you is not easy. I can imagine the stress of combining your job with raising the kids. It's a lot of sacrifice and it's right to expect your husband to appreciate it.

Nevertheless, your husband is also working his ass out (pardon my expression) where he is to provide for the family. His complaint that he's under pressure should not be ignored.

Both of you need to appreciate each other and be empathetic. Dropping your phone while he was speaking with you did not show empathy. For him too, he should have understood the pressure you were and showed a better understanding of the context.

Both of you are creating unnecessary tension in your marriage which could lead to something more serious.

Well, it is not too late to adjust. It depends on who will take the first step.

I will advise you do.

Please don't make any reference to your sister, or any other person. You have to overcome this challenge before you can think of a third party. His attitude to your family is a consequence of the deterioration of your relationship. I advise you concentrate on repairing your relationship first.

Call him and talk about this issue. Do not pretend that is resolved. Hear him out and do not try to defend yourself.

If you need some guidance on how to go about this, you can contact me.

Your husband also has a role to play in this resolution but you have to initiate the contact.

It seems both of you would benefit front he services of a professional marriage counselor.

I would be willing to guide and support you.
I am a professional marriage counselor.

All these femininised men dem and there low logic analysis. She did not only disrespected him but also deprived him of hearing from his children for more than a month. Do you know the emotional torture that man passed through before he could grow thick skin to not care again? That woman weaponised the children as a torture mechanism. 2months in not a 2sec thing o.

jubrilELsudan:
YOUR HUSBAND IS STUPID AND IMMATURE

HE IS AN UNFIT HUSBAND

HE IS A DEAD BEAT FATHER TO HIS KIDS

THE WAY HE REACTED TO YOU KNOWING YOU ARE THE ONE CARRYING THE PYSHICAL DRAIN OF RAISING HIS KIDS ALONE PROVES THAT HE IS STILL A BABY MENTALLY AND HAS NO BUSINESS PARENTING A CHILD OR BEING A HUSBAND

YOU HAD EVERY RIGHT TO BEHAVE THE WAY YOU DID

HE IS A COMPLETE FOOL

IF HE THINKS ITS EASY RAISING KIDS....LET HIM COME TAKE HIS KIDS AND SEE IF HE CAN SURVIVE A DAY RAISING THEM ALONE WITHOUT THE CONSTANT PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL SUPPORT FROM A PARTNER

AND LIKE A TYPICAL NIGERIAN MAN...HIS BRAIN IS SO DAFT IN HIS MENTALITY OF THINKING THAT HE BELIEVES THAT PROVIDING MONETARY ASSISTANCE TO YOU AND HIS KIDS MAKES HIM A FIT PARENT

YOUR HUSBAND DOESN'T DESERVE YOU AND WHEN YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS ALONE...YOU MUST TELL HIM TO GO TO HELL AND MAKE SURE YOU DIVORCE HIS DEAD BEAT ROTTEN ARSE AND MAKE SURE HE NEVER SETS HIS FILTHY EYES ON HIS KIDS AGAIN

Na your type go don teach her to be a feminist, now the thing don choke her for throat.

MufasaLion:
Damn! That's sad. African marriages works abroad for some people and it doesn't for some people. It's all about the individuals.

Nah so we see am o. But don't try to find out if you own go work o. As a Nigerian man, no carry Nigerian woman go abroad o. This particular man is in pains o, right now. His first daughter sef don kuku leave go meet man, and accuse him of maltreating her with his now ex-wife. Even the three children he had with his ex, she has turned them against him and they no longer talk to him. Man has lost everything and is only now trying to start afresh.

MufasaLion:
Stop throwing word (CHILDISH) around unnecessarily. Why are you ruling out the fact that this might not be her first time of such behaviour?

Also, even if it was her first, is it ideal for the kids not to even talk to their father for 9 weeks? Even if parents despise eavh other, do you think it's ideal to deny them the right to talk to their father?

In this digital age that things are easier, you can't use anything as an excuse for kids not to have access to their father. What she did clearly shows how vile she is and a shame to womanhood. She's selfish and didn't consider her kids mental health!

Even the reason for speaking out now is because of her sister, not even because she is remorse or consider the kids. Shame!

Don't mind them. Someone I know wants to remarry again. Already, they were having problems before they left for them. In fact, once, I was the one who settled their beef anonymously by sending apology messages to each of them. They didn't suspect. They settled. Then they traveled to Australia. The man already had a daughter in his young teenage age and she was already grown. So, he also brought her the abroad including his wife's maid who was from his community. Immediately they got to Australia, he wife and their maid conspired to be thorn on the man's flesh and that of his first daughter. On one certain day, the man had a big celebration in his office and wanted to treat his guests and colleagues to African dishes. So, he asked his daughter to prepare the food since she knows his tribe's delicacy. He asked her to bring the food to his office when he she was done. But after a long waiting at the office and the occasion was set, the daughter was nowhere to be found with the food. He tried to call to no avail. So, he quickly left the office for the home. When he got home, he saw his daughter fighting with the maid, and he asked what was the reason for their quarrel and also why she didn't bring the food he asked her to prepare. Then the daughter narrated that she was already through with the cooking and was about packaging it when the maid took the pot and hid it because of a quarreling they were having, and that she refused to bring it out. The man became enraged. And when he asked the maid where she kept the food. She said that she kept it in the garden outside, out in the cold. He was very mad at the girl, and thus he confronted the wife with the matter. But instead of pacifying him, the wife was equally rude and was in support of her maid who is from her tribe. So, that angered him and for the first time in their marriage, he slapped her. The wife in turn called the cops on him and had him thrown out. She equally tried to damage him and his job by getting him fired. But luckily for him, the cops didn't find him much at fault. That made the man to abandon the marriage for her.

MrBrownJay1:
A) that man never became the bigger person, he lowered himsef to his wife's childish level.
B) there is a time when you have to understand that marriage is not a war to see who is the toughest person out there.
C) husband should have defused the issue, instead of taking it to EXTREME LEVEL. what is he gonna get by that?
D) there are so many ways to make a woman understand when they fukc up...and COMMUNICATION is one of them. but one thing is certain, playing childish tit for tat is certainly not the solution here.
E) men like you should remove the misplaced ego in front of your common sense. marriage is not always about "YOU" winning

Go and sit down with your maturity.

LilMissFavvy:
You need to start aplogising through calls, messages, voice notes.....yes you wronged your husband. Unfortunately he is not mature enough to forgive you and let go easily.

Satan is fighting marriages these days seriously , such that you will see so much ego, anger, unforgiveness over minor issues, how much more serious offense.

Your husband seems all out to embarrass you among your family members and let them know there is a problem in the marriage.

This is the disadvantage of long distance marriage.
Appologise with speed.

Una and this maturity thing, person go think sey no be Eve first chop the apple despite all the warnings. You all just want docile men that can take you'll shits. All the four days he called her were not signs of maturity despite that she dropped the call on him in the first instance.
And what do you mean that he wants to embarrass her in the eyes of her family members?

jumper524:
what fucking guess work. Who you think say be mumu for here? I'm sure if your pro ipob, you celebrated the killings of these soldiers on Facebook too. Una go dey form double identity when una stupid actions starts showing its implications.
We've seen videos of pro ipob communities cheering the activities of these men in the east abi na lie??
We've seen them on nairaland and also on Facebook. When it started to bite you shamelessly and Hypocritical turn to blame DSS like we are foolish in the other parts of the country.
Getat. Very Hypocritical people. You Don see mumu when you wan scam for alaba nah.

The same Obi you guys accused every other day of killing MASSOB members and dumping them in Ezu river. You are a mad man.

madridguy:
I bought same 12 pieces for 3500 this weekend somewhere in Oyo State when i traveled for Owanbe.

Those are APC farmers na, una bubu herdsmen no dey disturb them, na why you fit see am buy cheaply.

Ebi2233:
My community have constant light and my family have crude oil in large quantities. Stop going to school in Okolobiri build secondary school for una Community. Your village no get secondary school till now.

Una get palm oil or crude oil. Lol. Wetin we wan use secondary school do when we have the means to get a university or college. Your mumu never do. And besides, all lands are now developed in my community, land is hot cake. Even if we wan build am, e go be standard one, but there is no more space to build secondary school.

Ebi2233:
Go to your village and see that u have secondary school first. Till today, your village Obunagha have no secondary school.

We are the light of bayelsa state. nipp,we get. Spdc, refinery, proposed state industrial area, gas depot. Just name it. Do you have constant light?

Wilgrea7:
I find it funny and perhaps somewhat concerning that some people still believe things like this in 2022

Please get off your high horse. No antichrist is coming to get you... Or insert anything into your body.

The world doesn't revolve around you or your apocalyptic Jesus.

Stubborn man. The elites have told the world their plans, but blind bat would not see what is coming for them. Continue.

Ebi2233:
Obi changed Anambra state University to Odumegwu Ojukwu University. Reason IPOB are now Obident. That one they do is because they dont want people to.notice it.

Mad man

oyatz:
In reality, there is no effective ways of separating citizens of Niger Republic ,Tchad and Northern Cameroon from Nigerians.

These countries are more or less 37th,39th and 40th States of Nigeria.


I have lived and worked in the North and I know that so many people from these countries move in and out of Nigeria. Some have even joined our Armed Forces.

You dey see am. So,wetin be the real figures of real northerners if all those countries citizens are posing as northerners, yet it doesn't really show that the north is more populated than the south.