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are you sure people wished them dead?

so what type of coincidence is it then for me to say cancer and she got cancer?


so you dont think juju is real? what about power in the tongue?

WORLDPEACE:
You cannot make anybody live or die just by saying so. You did not kill your mother. If it were possible all our presidents would be dead. Just imagine how many people have wished Obasanjo, Goodluck Jonathan and Babangida dead, but they have outlived their enemies.

I am worried that I caused my mother to get cancer and die. When I went through a mental health break down, I told my mother in anger and frustration that I want her to get cancer and die. I also told her she won't see my future kids. Also, I bullied a woman who I believed would have bullied me, and I did not like her behaviour - so I told her that her mother would die young, as well as bullying her. Two of my past school mates who bullied me, I sent them a message saying that one will die young, and the other one should be ashamed of herself for how she treated me and that her dead father would be ashamed of her. Also, because I hated Rihanna the popstar at the time - when her grandmother died I tweeted her a horrible message saying "she is dead, she won't have to see your ugly face anymore". Also, a horrible man was harassing me as I did not sleep with him so I told him that it is good that his dad is dead, so he would not have to see his disappointment of a son. But I did apologise to my mother, I truly did not mean what I said. Furthermore, I regret all that bad things I did during the break down - that is not me and no one in real life would believe I could have done such. I did all of that in 2 years that I had a mental health break down and ended in a psychiatric hospital When my mother got cancer, I BEGGED God. I pleaded and repented. I had faith that she would be healed. I BEGGED God, constantly crying, fasting, begging, going to prayer services and so on When I said those mean things to my mother it was out of anger, I did not really want that.. but when I said by faith she will be healed and will not die it was out of truth and what I truly wanted, I BEGGED God. I repented, i fasted, I used anointing oil, I prayed, I went to different churches, we saw a herbalist, we saw doctors , we did everything... yet she still died. I feel like it is my fault. The girl I told her that her mother would die young is alive, healthy and having a great time with her daughter and granddaughter, and her daughter (the girl I told her that her mother would die young) is succeeding a lot and keeps making jokes about illness and death. Like she is trying to rub it in, she always posts images of her and her mother (but she does not know that my mother died) Please don't judge me, just advise me

yes i said it out of anger

but when she got ill, i said with my true self she will live. i said she will live
i aplogised
i repented
i prayed
i fasted
we had a herbalist
we had churches
we had pastors
we had best hospital medication

we did everything... i even said God should reduce my future success so she can stay alive..

i remember times in church i will be begging and crying out to God, my eyes were blood shot red.. we did the most, yet she still died and now im a motherless child

iamgenius:
I think you said it out of anger. And it has already been in the will of God that she'll get cancer. Even if you didn't say it, she'll still get cancer.

Let's assume she fought with someone before she died, and the person told her she'll deal with her. People will still say the person afflicted her with cancer.

am worried that I caused my mother to get cancer and die. When I went through a mental health break down, I told my mother in anger and frustration that I want her to get cancer and die. I also told her she won't see my future kids. Also, I bullied a woman who I believed would have bullied me, and I did not like her behaviour - so I told her that her mother would die young, as well as bullying her. Two of my past school mates who bullied me, I sent them a message saying that one will die young, and the other one should be ashamed of herself for how she treated me and that her dead father would be ashamed of her. Also, because I hated Rihanna the popstar at the time - when her grandmother died I tweeted her a horrible message saying "she is dead, she won't have to see your ugly face anymore". Also, a horrible man was harassing me as I did not sleep with him so I told him that it is good that his dad is dead, so he would not have to see his disappointment of a son. But I did apologise to my mother, I truly did not mean what I said. Furthermore, I regret all that bad things I did during the break down - that is not me and no one in real life would believe I could have done such. I did all of that in 2 years that I had a mental health break down and ended in a psychiatric hospital When my mother got cancer, I BEGGED God. I pleaded and repented. I had faith that she would be healed. I BEGGED God, constantly crying, fasting, begging, going to prayer services and so on When I said those mean things to my mother it was out of anger, I did not really want that.. but when I said by faith she will be healed and will not die it was out of truth and what I truly wanted, I BEGGED God. I repented, i fasted, I used anointing oil, I prayed, I went to different churches, we saw a herbalist, we saw doctors , we did everything... yet she still died. I feel like it is my fault. The girl I told her that her mother would die young is alive, healthy and having a great time with her daughter and granddaughter, and her daughter (the girl I told her that her mother would die young) is succeeding a lot and keeps making jokes about illness and death. Like she is trying to rub it in, she always posts images of her and her mother (but she does not know that my mother died) Please don't judge me, just advise me

but i told her she will get cancer and die, and she got cancer and died?

iamgenius:
How possible is that? No, you didn't. She died a natural way. Don't ask this question again.

You need to know about your Creator. Why are we created? Why are we afflicted with misfortune? Why are we created? I'm sure you do t know the answers to these questions, that's why you are thinking this way.

am worried that I caused my mother to get cancer and die. When I went through a mental health break down, I told my mother in anger and frustration that I want her to get cancer and die. I also told her she won't see my future kids. Also, I bullied a woman who I believed would have bullied me, and I did not like her behaviour - so I told her that her mother would die young, as well as bullying her. Two of my past school mates who bullied me, I sent them a message saying that one will die young, and the other one should be ashamed of herself for how she treated me and that her dead father would be ashamed of her. Also, because I hated Rihanna the popstar at the time - when her grandmother died I tweeted her a horrible message saying "she is dead, she won't have to see your ugly face anymore". Also, a horrible man was harassing me as I did not sleep with him so I told him that it is good that his dad is dead, so he would not have to see his disappointment of a son. But I did apologise to my mother, I truly did not mean what I said. Furthermore, I regret all that bad things I did during the break down - that is not me and no one in real life would believe I could have done such. I did all of that in 2 years that I had a mental health break down and ended in a psychiatric hospital When my mother got cancer, I BEGGED God. I pleaded and repented. I had faith that she would be healed. I BEGGED God, constantly crying, fasting, begging, going to prayer services and so on When I said those mean things to my mother it was out of anger, I did not really want that.. but when I said by faith she will be healed and will not die it was out of truth and what I truly wanted, I BEGGED God. I repented, i fasted, I used anointing oil, I prayed, I went to different churches, we saw a herbalist, we saw doctors , we did everything... yet she still died. I feel like it is my fault. The girl I told her that her mother would die young is alive, healthy and having a great time with her daughter and granddaughter, and her daughter (the girl I told her that her mother would die young) is succeeding a lot and keeps making jokes about illness and death. Like she is trying to rub it in, she always posts images of her and her mother (but she does not know that my mother died) Please don't judge me, just advise me

did i kill my mummy with my words?

iamgenius:
Why are you so emotionally depressed? Abeg stop all this repetition.

It's because you do t believe in God, and don't know who He is.

You don't even know how this world runs

how are you so sure?

did i not kill her with my words?

Benbisco:
Pls give yourself a break. You are not responsible for your mother's death.

am worried that I caused my mother to get cancer and die. When I went through a mental health break down, I told my mother in anger and frustration that I want her to get cancer and die. I also told her she won't see my future kids. Also, I bullied a woman who I believed would have bullied me, and I did not like her behaviour - so I told her that her mother would die young, as well as bullying her. Two of my past school mates who bullied me, I sent them a message saying that one will die young, and the other one should be ashamed of herself for how she treated me and that her dead father would be ashamed of her. Also, because I hated Rihanna the popstar at the time - when her grandmother died I tweeted her a horrible message saying "she is dead, she won't have to see your ugly face anymore". Also, a horrible man was harassing me as I did not sleep with him so I told him that it is good that his dad is dead, so he would not have to see his disappointment of a son. But I did apologise to my mother, I truly did not mean what I said. Furthermore, I regret all that bad things I did during the break down - that is not me and no one in real life would believe I could have done such. I did all of that in 2 years that I had a mental health break down and ended in a psychiatric hospital When my mother got cancer, I BEGGED God. I pleaded and repented. I had faith that she would be healed. I BEGGED God, constantly crying, fasting, begging, going to prayer services and so on When I said those mean things to my mother it was out of anger, I did not really want that.. but when I said by faith she will be healed and will not die it was out of truth and what I truly wanted, I BEGGED God. I repented, i fasted, I used anointing oil, I prayed, I went to different churches, we saw a herbalist, we saw doctors , we did everything... yet she still died. I feel like it is my fault. The girl I told her that her mother would die young is alive, healthy and having a great time with her daughter and granddaughter, and her daughter (the girl I told her that her mother would die young) is succeeding a lot and keeps making jokes about illness and death. Like she is trying to rub it in, she always posts images of her and her mother (but she does not know that my mother died) Please don't judge me, just advise me

how

IgweBUIKE1:
case sera sera.... is not your fault dear

toke go an marry you are 33 and still single no husband or children

killing my mother

Zceesneh:
Hi, Good people of nairaland, How are you guys doing? is being long since I last posted, let me start by saying happy new year, so ladies and gents, what's your biggest regret in life so far?

Let me start with mine, my biggest regret in life so far is I can't really say, I have lot of regrets in life that I don't know the specific one that has done more damage in my life, some I did because I thought I was wiser while some I did out of ignorance, I don't want to blame anybody or anything for my mistakes.

So let me share with you guys the one I think is the biggest, not writing jamb the year I graduated from secondary (2014) school, I actually thought I was young so I opted to stay at home for a whole year before writing jamb, but now even though am in school, I call myself names for not writing jamb that year, i could have graduated or being in final year by now. So ladies and gents may we know yours

I am worried that I caused my mother to get cancer and die. When I went through a mental health break down, I told my mother in anger and frustration that I want her to get cancer and die. I also told her she won't see my future kids. Also, I bullied a woman who I believed would have bullied me, and I did not like her behaviour - so I told her that her mother would die young, as well as bullying her. Two of my past school mates who bullied me, I sent them a message saying that one will die young, and the other one should be ashamed of herself for how she treated me and that her dead father would be ashamed of her. Also, because I hated Rihanna the popstar at the time - when her grandmother died I tweeted her a horrible message saying "she is dead, she won't have to see your ugly face anymore". Also, a horrible man was harassing me as I did not sleep with him so I told him that it is good that his dad is dead, so he would not have to see his disappointment of a son.


But I did apologise to my mother, I truly did not mean what I said. Furthermore, I regret all that bad things I did during the break down - that is not me and no one in real life would believe I could have done such. I did all of that in 2 years that I had a mental health break down and ended in a psychiatric hospital

When my mother got cancer, I BEGGED God. I pleaded and repented. I had faith that she would be healed. I BEGGED God, constantly crying, fasting, begging, going to prayer services and so on

When I said those mean things to my mother it was out of anger, I did not really want that.. but when I said by faith she will be healed and will not die it was out of truth and what I truly wanted, I BEGGED God. I repented, i fasted, I used anointing oil, I prayed, I went to different churches, we saw a herbalist, we saw doctors , we did everything... yet she still died. I feel like it is my fault. The girl I told her that her mother would die young is alive, healthy and having a great time with her daughter and granddaughter, and her daughter (the girl I told her that her mother would die young) is succeeding a lot and keeps making jokes about illness and death. Like she is trying to rub it in, she always posts images of her and her mother (but she does not know that my mother died)

Please don't judge me, just advise me

I am worried that I caused my mother to get cancer and die. When I went through a mental health break down, I told my mother in anger and frustration that I want her to get cancer and die. I also told her she won't see my future kids. Also, I bullied a woman who I believed would have bullied me, and I did not like her behaviour - so I told her that her mother would die young, as well as bullying her. Two of my past school mates who bullied me, I sent them a message saying that one will die young, and the other one should be ashamed of herself for how she treated me and that her dead father would be ashamed of her. Also, because I hated Rihanna the popstar at the time - when her grandmother died I tweeted her a horrible message saying "she is dead, she won't have to see your ugly face anymore". Also, a horrible man was harassing me as I did not sleep with him so I told him that it is good that his dad is dead, so he would not have to see his disappointment of a son.


But I did apologise to my mother, I truly did not mean what I said. Furthermore, I regret all that bad things I did during the break down - that is not me and no one in real life would believe I could have done such. I did all of that in 2 years that I had a mental health break down and ended in a psychiatric hospital

When my mother got cancer, I BEGGED God. I pleaded and repented. I had faith that she would be healed. I BEGGED God, constantly crying, fasting, begging, going to prayer services and so on

When I said those mean things to my mother it was out of anger, I did not really want that.. but when I said by faith she will be healed and will not die it was out of truth and what I truly wanted, I BEGGED God. I repented, i fasted, I used anointing oil, I prayed, I went to different churches, we saw a herbalist, we saw doctors , we did everything... yet she still died. I feel like it is my fault. The girl I told her that her mother would die young is alive, healthy and having a great time with her daughter and granddaughter, and her daughter (the girl I told her that her mother would die young) is succeeding a lot and keeps making jokes about illness and death. Like she is trying to rub it in, she always posts images of her and her mother (but she does not know that my mother died)

Please don't judge me, just advise me

the bible says honour your mother and father long and you live long

she honoured her parents

even to the extent of sending her mother abroad for holidays three times

looking after her mother in illness

and just honouring her parents generally

yet she died young of cancer?

my pain is that my mother suffered to raise her kids but before she could reap fruits of her labour, she died

what is all this

girl is 24 but at age 20 does fornication has baby her mother is alive to see baby everything is going right for them

I am same age as girl 24 but still a Virgin but my mum is dead to never see grandchild and everything going wrong for me

what did I do wrong

I don't even believe in God anymore as I was a true believer in the past and how has it helped me; my life is destroyed today

scenario A the girl loses her mum from cancer age 23, the dad becomes a widower after 24 years of marriage

scenario B the girl loses her dad from cancer when she was 3 months old, the mum becomes a widow for the SECOND TIME


whose situation is worse?

person A or person B

Scenario A the girl loses her mum from cancer age 23, the dad becomes a widower after 24 years of marriage

scenario B the girl loses her dad from cancer when she was 3 months old, the mum becomes a widow for the SECOND TIME


whose situation is worse?

person A or person B

scenario A the girl loses her mum from cancer age 23, the dad becomes a widower after 24 years of marriage

scenario B the girl loses her dad from cancer when she was 3 months old, the mum becomes a widow for the SECOND TIME


whose situation is worse?

person A or person B

scenario A the girl loses her mum from cancer age 23, the dad becomes a widower after 24 years of marriage

scenario B the girl loses her dad from cancer when she was 3 months old, the mum becomes a widow for the SECOND TIME


whose situation is worse?

person A or person B

scenario A the girl loses her mum from cancer age 23, the dad becomes a widower after 24 years of marriage

scenario B the girl loses her dad from cancer when she was 3 months old, the mum becomes a widow for the SECOND TIME


whose situation is worse?

person A or person B

scenario A the girl loses her mum from cancer age 23, the dad becomes a widower after 24 years of marriage

scenario B the girl loses her dad from cancer when she was 3 months old, the mum becomes a widow for the SECOND TIME


whose situation is worse?

person A or person B

Appetizer:
Aww, RIP.
God be with you

how can god be with her when she is dead

Bleep jesus

scenario A the girl loses her mum from cancer age 23, the dad becomes a widower after 24 years of marriage

scenario B the girl loses her dad from cancer when she was 3 months old, the mum becomes a widow for the SECOND TIME


whose situation is worse?

person A or person B

HI

PLEASE ANSWER ME PLEASE

scenario A the girl loses her mum from cancer age 23, the dad becomes a widower after 24 years of marriage

scenario B the girl loses her dad from cancer when she was 3 months old, the mum becomes a widow for the SECOND TIME


whose situation is worse?

person A or person B

XhosaNostra:
No problem. My condolences

Well, they were no longer together but I was 13 when my dad passed away & 15 when my mom passed.

were you close to both?

are you nigerian - your name is SA

i am close to both

my mother died when i was 23

my dad still alive

to lose my dad would be devestating

but to lose my mum.... even more devestating

its common for dad not to be around

not common for mum not to be around

she was my favourite person in the whole world.

i am just trying to compare my life to this girl

she has everything.

if i work hard, i can have everything.

but ...

no matter what i achieve in this world, my mum is always gone.

but im trying to see what is worse

her dad died when she was a few months old, that made her mother a WIDOW for the SECOND time as her first husband died too.

i mean at least i had both parents for 23 years and my dad enjoyed 24 years of marriage?

donstan18:
Both of them.

why

which one is worse

i am not a troll - genuine question.


scenario A the girl loses her mum from cancer age 23, the dad becomes a widower after 24 years of marriage

scenario B the girl loses her dad from cancer when she was 3 months old, the mum becomes a widow for the SECOND TIME


whose situation is worse?

person A or person B

XhosaNostra:
No.

im so sorry

me too

my mum died recently

how old were you/ your parents when they died

but my dad is still alive.

XhosaNostra:
How so? I'm not really getting what you're trying to say.

I'd still choose the death of a father any day because losing a mother is just soul crushing. You're never the same again.

are your parents alive?

bobokeshington:
Where did it happened ?
My sympathy with those affected.

Answer the question jare

who is worse a or b