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donstan18:
It's more provital than you can ever imagine, you'll know only mother will open up to tell you.

Most mothers do hide some father's emotional roles from the kids.

what are you saying please?

which one is worse A OR B

scenario A the girl loses her mum from cancer age 23, the dad becomes a widower after 24 years of marriage

scenario B the girl loses her dad from cancer when she was 3 months old, the mum becomes a widow for the SECOND TIME


whose situation is worse?

person A or person B

scenario A the girl loses her mum from cancer age 23, the dad becomes a widower after 24 years of marriage

scenario B the girl loses her dad from cancer when she was 3 months old, the mum becomes a widow for the SECOND TIME (she was widowed in her first marriage 5 years later marries again and is widowed again)

whose situation is worse?

person A or person B

i go to church for big events such as easter, christmas (midnight mass)

and thats all....

and then i go on sundays in the summer

i also have position in the church

where is her fatheR?

Mariangeles:
How do you mean "lost"?

unsure who i am truly

my true authentic self

im lost.

of cancer

suffered and died

she has been robbed

I am disgraced

Her mother is dead

woman asked me whether my mother buys clothes from a certain shop

I told her my mum isn't around

She asked me where she is

I said she died

She ask Me how she died, and then other stuff about my life like where I live, family, whether I finished uni etc

I gave her the answers

...

How should I have handle the situation, I don't like talking about my mum

A woman asked me whether my mother buys clothes from a certain shop

I told her my mum isn't around

She asked me where she is

I said she died

She ask Me how she died, and then other stuff about my life like where I live, family, whether I finished uni etc

I gave her the answers

...

How should I have handle the situation, I don't like talking about my mum

where is she

Martinez19:
No it's not. There are people who have done worse and are far better and comfortable in life.

But if I may ask, why did you do all those things?

Mental breakdown

And anger of retaliation to those who mistreated me

I'm not a bad person to naturally nor do I do not such now

I've been blaming myself and fear my enemies are laughing at me

Why did she die then

my mother died of cancer

im ashamed

please dont judge me

im ashamed because of the following reasons...

1. i was a born again christian always talking about God / and always so focused on my future.. those who were atheists / were not serious back then.. are now doing better than me, whilst me who was a christian has a destroyed life including dead mother

2. HEAR ME OUT FIRST! in the year 2012... I did mock some people who had a dead parent (when i was a teen)
example :

a. a girl who was supposed to be my friend when we were in school but started to bully me... so in anger i wrote her a message and in the message i did write that her dead father would be ashamed of her for that behaviour

b. a boy who started to maltreat me because i did not give into his sexual wishes i said to him in anger that it is good that his dad is dead so he doesnt have to see what type of horrible son he has

c. a girl who was supposed to be my friend started to bully me.. so in anger i told her she will die of that her illness and God hates her

d. finally, when i had a mental break down/ so mentally unwell i went to a psychiatric hospital, i tweeted to rihanna that it is good her grandmother is dead, and i also told another celebrity that i did not like that her mother will die young


... i have not done such since then and i never will..

but i feel as though is this my bad karma?

im so ashamed.

i no longer have ocd

Probz:
Email me again and stick to my advise this time round. I beg you in the name of God.

my mother died of cancer

im ashamed

please dont judge me

im ashamed because of the following reasons...

1. i was a born again christian always talking about God / and always so focused on my future.. those who were atheists / were not serious back then.. are now doing better than me, whilst me who was a christian has a destroyed life including dead mother

2. HEAR ME OUT FIRST! in the year 2012... I did mock some people who had a dead parent (when i was a teen)
example :

a. a girl who was supposed to be my friend when we were in school but started to bully me... so in anger i wrote her a message and in the message i did write that her dead father would be ashamed of her for that behaviour

b. a boy who started to maltreat me because i did not give into his sexual wishes i said to him in anger that it is good that his dad is dead so he doesnt have to see what type of horrible son he has

c. a girl who was supposed to be my friend started to bully me.. so in anger i told her she will die of that her illness and God hates her

d. finally, when i had a mental break down/ so mentally unwell i went to a psychiatric hospital, i tweeted to rihanna that it is good her grandmother is dead, and i also told another celebrity that i did not like that her mother will die young


... i have not done such since then and i never will..

but i feel as though is this my bad karma?

im so ashamed.

3nim:
That Sounded so tiny in my head

Help you with what?

my mother died of cancer

im ashamed

please dont judge me

im ashamed because of the following reasons...

1. i was a born again christian always talking about God / and always so focused on my future.. those who were atheists / were not serious back then.. are now doing better than me, whilst me who was a christian has a destroyed life including dead mother

2. HEAR ME OUT FIRST! in the year 2012... I did mock some people who had a dead parent (when i was a teen)
example :

a. a girl who was supposed to be my friend when we were in school but started to bully me... so in anger i wrote her a message and in the message i did write that her dead father would be ashamed of her for that behaviour

b. a boy who started to maltreat me because i did not give into his sexual wishes i said to him in anger that it is good that his dad is dead so he doesnt have to see what type of horrible son he has

c. a girl who was supposed to be my friend started to bully me.. so in anger i told her she will die of that her illness and God hates her

d. finally, when i had a mental break down/ so mentally unwell i went to a psychiatric hospital, i tweeted to rihanna that it is good her grandmother is dead, and i also told another celebrity that i did not like that her mother will die young


... i have not done such since then and i never will..

but i feel as though is this my bad karma?

im so ashamed.

3nim:
I was referring to the person I quoted.

i know

help me

dingbang:
Nigeria.. I see your posts. What's the problem?

my life is a mess.

me who once had bright future is now living hell

3nim:
How could you have been sooooo sure she was lying?

im not lying jare

im being serious

im so sad and ashamed of my life

scotland and you

dingbang:
where do you reside?

i am so ashamed of my life

24

uni drop out

i have only just got a job, but it isnt a graduate job but at least i can say im working

brother disabled

mother recently dead

im very poor and on government welfare

i look terrible

i am trying to get into university for this september but struggling like im struggling with everything in my life

im so ashamed, i looked at my past school mates on facebook today - all of them, even the ones who were once useless in school, all graduates and doing well

i have nothing good to show for my life

i am too ashamed to go out as i dont want to bump into any of them, im so ashamed of the state of my life today


how did this happen?

me who was once a bright young girl with a bright future...
now my life is a mess, with so many mistakes from my past. when i was 14, i never in a million years thought my life would be this hell today.

Gracespecial101:
Babe, Sister, Aunty all I have to say is



CALM DOWN TIME SHALL TELL



don't be surprised u re still better than most of them that are graduates. So like i said ..



TIME SHALL TELL

that is my only prayer sister

i turn 25 this december

big milestone

no acheivement

but im hoping 30 which is an even bigger milestone that by then i wil have all those goodies

husband
children
first degree
house
money
fame
successful career and more

i am so ashamed of my life

24

uni drop out

i have only just got a job, but it isnt a graduate job but at least i can say im working

brother disabled

mother recently dead

im very poor and on government welfare

i look terrible

i am trying to get into university for this september but struggling like im struggling with everything in my life

im so ashamed, i looked at my past school mates on facebook today - all of them, even the ones who were once useless in school, all graduates and doing well

i have nothing good to show for my life

i am too ashamed to go out as i dont want to bump into any of them, im so ashamed of the state of my life today


how did this happen?

me who was once a bright young girl with a bright future...
now my life is a mess, with so many mistakes from my past. when i was 14, i never in a million years thought my life would be this hell today.

Daughter did not get married and had a child out of wedlock and still lives with baby daddy

Daughter alive and well
Child alive and well

Grandmother alive and well


Me
Virgin up to now age 24
Served God fervently

My mother is dead I am broken and my future child will never meet its grandma

I am so angry

When I see people living bad lives
But they are alive and well

Whilst my mother born again Christian who gave to charity is dead and Rotting

I'm so angry and there is no one to be angry too

I have lost faith in God and miss her so much

And how you coped the please


I need it.

Why

charytea:
I was about 18 when I lost my dad 2009_
hmmm..

R u married do u have kids

How did this bring u closer to God

charytea:
I lost my father 2009, lost my mum in the most painful manner three months ago.
Do you know what that has done to me?
It has drawn me closer to This Jesus!
Think all you want, He is the only one that can truly comfort.
I don't know how He does it but it is true...

How old were u when they died

butterflyl1on:
Here comes this troll again who goes around spewing her lies.

So who are you asking for help this time? Same Jesus you are asking to bleep off? LMAO.

Or some misguided nairalanders who cannot even help themselves.

SMH.

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im not lying