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chaircover: I am a late comer so please can someone fill me in on the reason the wife gave for building her house without letting her husband know.

texaco1: believe me some mother in laws will go to any length to destroy a son in law that wants to prove himself independent of them , once someone notices this , the best thing is to keep them at arms length and watch your wife carefully , whatever the op tells his wife believe me she will go straight to her mother to tell her . op is treading on dangerous grounds which i don't think he realizes . this is the sort of issues that has wrecked many men lives beyond repair. a word i think should be enough for any wise op

babyosisi: Do you come from a polygamous home?

babyosisi: Biko let us hear something
When you folks die extra wives and concubines plus secret pikins will start emanating from the wood works to claim relationship
There are two sides to every story
We haven't heard hers
There is mistrust issues here that made the woman do what she did

OP are you from a polygamous home?

The woman was certainly acting based on a situation the OP is not telling us
My people say that frogs don't run around in the hot afternoon in vain

gbanikiti: oga, in case your wife wants to build another one,this time with your approval,I have a plot of land for sale o! Na just shikili money. Contact me asap abeg!

ballabriggs: So your judgement and conclusion is based on the man's story ikwa? Una go old, the man has not told us the background of this story but what I can get here is, the woman does not trust him.

What went wrong? How did he lose her trust? I will like to hear the other side.

Meanwhile O boy go buy beer come, your wife done build house. This vex wey you dey vex no go make you escape am.

babyosisi: How many stories are talking about here
Is it in flats?
I hope it's in a choice part of town sef after all this demonization
Snap foto make I see with my naked eyes
I want to see her taste

babyosisi: How many stories are talking about here
Is it in flats?
I hope it's in a choice part of town sef after all this demonization
Snap foto make I see with my naked eyes

gbanikiti: there's a difference between telling her husband and seeking for permission from him. I still find it hard to believe she didn't tell him. As I said earlier,the story isn't complete without the other side of the story.

Now that the house is complete,what do you want the woman to do since she has apologized? Destroy the house or sell it to please the husband?

texaco1: @op ,
have you spoken to your father in law about this and what was his reaction or response ?just asking

texaco1: you are not getting the point , the man is not angry that his wife is rich or making progress in life , what is paining and hurting the man is that she betrayed his trust by doing what she did without informing him , if she had informed him and he refused but yet she went ahead that is another issue , but living , sleeping and eating with a woman that is building a house and yet she says nothing about it is LIKE SLEEPING WITH YOUR ENEMY , she can even kill the man if told to do so by the same people that told her not to inform her husband about the building project

smartchoice: Then you're finished...I mean seriously finished

smartchoice: [i]Forgive [/i]her..... but start your own plans don't change your attitude 2wards her....but deep inside plan well...include that priest in your plans too cos am sure he's screwing your woman! Meanwhile nothing is sorted until a medical test proves paternity...as regards the children.

smartchoice: Are they your biological children?!

smartchoice: Send her outta your life immediately!

ileobatojo: For me, I knew nothing about what Buka and Debrief said. Didn't know your moniker till this thread. My responses have been based on your first post alone. It told the whole story as far as I'm concerned.

Vonwolf: I wonder how people talk about men of God and things of God with so much disrespect,don't just comment because you intend to amuse people from your post, did d bible tell u that offerings and tithes should be lodged into any account? I'm not a member of the church but I was deeply moved by your scathing remarks,as u suggested what amount of tax do u tink can make him poor and make the body of christ flounder? Or has the tax collected by govt improve ur living condition? If u cannot respect him for who he is then respect him cos of God. NL has been flooded with kids.

Fhemmmy: beautiful one . . .Gym together as well, love to see madam infront of me at the gym on the thread mill