₦airaland Forum

clip: . The cross of the matter is that they should not collect bribe. If they do not collect bribe from the smugglers God will always protect them in days like this.

Numero uuuno: Noted..
PS:Don't try this away from home because you're probably going to visit the rest room

chidexy: The constitution states that Suntai only need to write to the state House of Assembly that he's back to resume his duties. There's no where it is stated that the house has to first approve before he takes over governance.

Abali1: without reading it, I already know am pursuing a wrong career.... But guess what? I have come to love my job. I go to work a *late* (that word does not exist where I work) come back early. Some days I don't go at all. Yes the pay is not much, but the freedom is unlimited....

repogirl: mariage and engagement are totally different. During engament or courtship, both parties can compromise more easily, hide things and let things go without much hassles but after marriage, attitudes change. You are now married, what's d worse you can do if she doesn't let him go, divorce? Everyone hates d D-word, especially if the couples are in love.

OP has told her his mind, what more can he do? The more he hammers on the matter, d more she'll run to d ex, the more the ex will badmouth the op to his wife and it will turn into one huge mess.

u said she's already cheating, how? Because she has a close friend and the close friend is a guy? If it was female, would it still,be cheating? As far as she's not neglecting her family, wifely duties, she's not doing any cheating.

marriage is a delicate institution, u have to approach with care, maturity and wisdom,if u really love your spouse. Pick your battles, some u win, some u have to let go.

lastly u can't force your will on someone, they'll just begin to hide things frm u. Even God doesn't force his will on anyone.

No compromise? You must be a dictator.

ogorluv: I disagree with you. infidelity is not just about physical coitus, if your husband spends some emotions on another woman, he is cheating, whether she sleeps with him or not.
Before I got married, my fiance had a friend that both of them were too close, I was uncomfortable with the situation and I told her. She had to cut all ties with the guy. Its not just healthy. Maybe you played the sophisticat when it started and waited for it to go away. Now is the time to MAN UP. She either falls into line 100 % or she falls out of your life, no compromise.

victorv12: Kidnappers, Ritual Killers, Militants and Bokoharamists should be instantly killed if caught.

abujalapdog: If to say it was not true he would have sued the girl long before now for character defermation/liebale.

ehemwhy: He will never come out with the truth,everyone knows the truth,we only want him to say yes or no.
All these men of God are not what you think.when Badejo had his scandal some years back I supported him all the way,it was only when I had a close working relationship with him that I realized all accusations levelled agAinst him were actually true!
Personally I have vowed to never get close to any man of God, I'd rather go to church, pray my piece to God and go home .

Cultured: Anything religion and the erroneously termed " holy books " are all bullshits . As far as I'm concerned and live , I will always place every human being as equal with equal value also ; to gain my respect you must earn it from me , I don't give a damn whether you present yourself to me as a reverend father , imam , pastor , babalowo , marabout , dibia , ifa or by whatever professional calling out there . There's no better means to achieve internal and eternal peace that living life as a freethinker and striving hard to uphold good moral values at all times . My belief is solidly in one and only SUPREME BEING , who's called different names by different people .

honeric01: From page 1 to 7, no one claimed to have bought condoms.. Hmmm seems Nairaland is filled up with monks, nuns, virgins and infants!

joachimsaal: Hi My name is Joachim
I m German how I can find a serious woman without troubles.
Thanks you.