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Re: I Masturbate. Help by Epatty(f): 3:56pm On Mar 23, 2016
MUVA:
You have a really peculiar problem. You need to get into therapy.
pls wat kind of therapy. I really need to b lyk oda women n bn natural lyk hw a woman ought to b. Ds is serious pls
Re: I Masturbate. Help by Epatty(f): 3:57pm On Mar 23, 2016
AirSultan:
This is F'd up. I cant seem to wrap my head around what you will be thinking about while doing it. Comments on here wont help, my say, go see a therapist. Sorry
ok. Tnx
Re: I Masturbate. Help by Nobody: 4:03pm On Mar 23, 2016
Epatty
Fvck what people are saying here

Masturbation is normal for any sexually developing teen .... I do it sometimes'' but... It's just that you have taken it too far try to reduce the way you masturbate

if you are finding it difficult to reduce the way you do it contact me on whatsapp +2348122958329

Let's talk better
Re: I Masturbate. Help by Epatty(f): 4:05pm On Mar 23, 2016
Daniel2289:
Who are u then attracted to
From the beginning God made them Male n Female. First thing is to b attracted to men. Do dis b4 any oda tin.
Honestly, I really want to b bt cnt. I only ve feelings for d female gender. Tho I was a lez bt stopped 3years ago. Nw am finding it difficult to stop self masturbatn. Its bn givin me concern lately
Re: I Masturbate. Help by MUVA(m): 4:06pm On Mar 23, 2016
Epatty:
pls wat kind of therapy. I really need to b lyk oda women n bn natural lyk hw a woman ought to b. Ds is serious pls

Ofcourse I know its serious. You need to see a shrink hun. Find out if there are any in your locality. Don't listen to anyone giving you phone numbers or asking you to contact them, they just want to exploit you.
Re: I Masturbate. Help by Nobody: 4:10pm On Mar 23, 2016
Epatty:
ok. Tnx
welcome
Re: I Masturbate. Help by Epatty(f): 4:11pm On Mar 23, 2016
KashyBaby:





Not at all...for me, masturbation is a safe sex...ur feeling urself, ur imagination runs wild but only with females..as long u feel great every episodes, then go on..don't listen to the negative energies,they will juz pull up thru somewhere wink
ok... Bt pls hw cn I stop bn sexually attracted to d female gender. Pls help
Re: I Masturbate. Help by Epatty(f): 4:13pm On Mar 23, 2016
Jonathan2787:
How do i help undecided help you mustarbate?, tell your parents, pray for you?, seal your p***sy, slap it out,? Am confused how do i help?
Go n sit one place. U dont ve gd advice so shut up!!!

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Re: I Masturbate. Help by Epatty(f): 4:15pm On Mar 23, 2016
Jonathan2787:
How do i help undecided help you mustarbate?, tell your parents, pray for you?, seal your p***sy, slap it out,? Am confused how do i help?
Go n sit one place. U dont ve any gd advice to give, so shut up!

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Re: I Masturbate. Help by Epatty(f): 4:16pm On Mar 23, 2016
demzylahot:
u need a bf
av tried keepn one bt it dnt wok out. It dnt evn last to a mnt
Re: I Masturbate. Help by Sunkyphil(m): 4:17pm On Mar 23, 2016
expocreek:


Epatty
Fvck what people are saying here

Masturbation is normal for any sexually developing teen .... I do it sometimes'' but... It's just that you have taken it too far try to reduce the way you masturbate

if you are finding it difficult to reduce the way you do it contact me on whatsapp +2348122958329

Let's talk better
guy u sure say all these ur kurukere no b because u wan nta d place grin talk true

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Re: I Masturbate. Help by Rikidony(m): 4:17pm On Mar 23, 2016
Epatty:
Fundamental, not founder mental mumu. U irritate me sef. Dnt beg for ur opinion bt for dos dat cn help
fvck off
Re: I Masturbate. Help by Nobody: 4:18pm On Mar 23, 2016
Epatty:
ok... Bt pls hw cn I stop bn sexually attracted to d female gender. Pls help


Actually,y care what ppol say? Juz be urself & explore it...

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Re: I Masturbate. Help by Epatty(f): 4:20pm On Mar 23, 2016
olac21:


(You love him but he is a barber,now you don't love any man&you masturbate a lot) and I'm forced to assume if you're gradually running mad or maybe something strange has taken over you completely
It dnt last wit him. Dats wen I began to feel concern dat my secret lyf is affectn me. Am nt mad pls, I really need help actually
Re: I Masturbate. Help by Nobody: 4:21pm On Mar 23, 2016
Epatty:
Go n sit one place. U dont ve gd advice so shut up!!!
HAHAHAHA E DON PAIN THE MASTURBATOR!! !
Re: I Masturbate. Help by Daniel2289(m): 4:25pm On Mar 23, 2016
Epatty:
Honestly, I really want to b bt cnt. I only ve feelings for d female gender. Tho I was a lez bt stopped 3years ago. Nw am finding it difficult to stop self masturbatn. Its bn givin me concern lately

It's not your fault though. May be u shud really visit a therapist or better still visit a Priest. A real Priest, to organise a deliverance 4 u.

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Re: I Masturbate. Help by Epatty(f): 4:30pm On Mar 23, 2016
MUVA:


Ofcourse I know its serious. You need to see a shrink hun. Find out if there are any in your locality. Don't listen to anyone giving you phone numbers or asking you to contact them, they just want to exploit you.
I really appreciate. Tnx a million. I'l try n c a therapist tho scared if it wil b kept confidential by him or her.

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Re: I Masturbate. Help by Nobody: 4:32pm On Mar 23, 2016
Sunkyphil:
guy u sure say all these ur kurukere no b because u wan nta d place grin talk true
Hmmmm bro you need medical checkup
Re: I Masturbate. Help by Sunkyphil(m): 4:37pm On Mar 23, 2016
[quote author=expocreek post=44040240]
Hmmmm bro you need medical checkup[/quote/]na ur way na c as ur sharply release ur number
Re: I Masturbate. Help by Nobody: 4:39pm On Mar 23, 2016
Try listening to grace preachers like Pastor Joseph Prince. Moreso, seek godly counsel from a christian who wont condemn you but will show you the way out.
Epatty:
Cnt jst stop masturbating and worst of it is dat am not attracted to men. Dont knw y, pls help, pls.

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Re: I Masturbate. Help by apparentlylaw(m): 4:50pm On Mar 23, 2016
Eyaaaah God help u
Re: I Masturbate. Help by MEN147: 5:03pm On Mar 23, 2016
Epatty:
wat pls

I assume this is not a dating site!!! Anyway, this bae in question is really sick shaa....
Re: I Masturbate. Help by MUVA(m): 5:05pm On Mar 23, 2016
Epatty:
I really appreciate. Tnx a million. I'l try n c a therapist tho scared if it wil b kept confidential by him or her.

Ofcourse it will! They are professionals aren't they?

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Re: I Masturbate. Help by ifyeky(m): 6:22pm On Mar 23, 2016
Come n taste my dick. I swear u won't masturbate again
Re: I Masturbate. Help by SkinnyDude(m): 6:31pm On Mar 23, 2016
i can't stop masturbatingg too, and that' makes us one... oya, pm me.
Re: I Masturbate. Help by xmileeasy: 7:32pm On Mar 23, 2016
"I will always be dirty. In reality. My cleanliness has NOTHING to do with what I watch or don't watch. It has everything to do with the condition of my heart. My heart, when left on its own, will drift back to dirty"
You need checkmate what enters your heart, occupy your thoughts and get busy with meaningful challenges. Epatty to get rid of an old habit, inculcate new habit.

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Re: I Masturbate. Help by xmileeasy: 7:39pm On Mar 23, 2016
Mind and stomach are like factories. If you put garbage as raw material, they will process out garbage quality products. Use high
quality raw material and enjoy quality dreams, quality health and quality happiness!

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Re: I Masturbate. Help by gulfer: 7:43pm On Mar 23, 2016
Epatty:
Cnt jst stop masturbating and worst of it is dat am not attracted to men. Dont knw y, pls help, pls.
What about the barber angry
Re: I Masturbate. Help by xmileeasy: 8:02pm On Mar 23, 2016
If you have decided that you would like to stop masturbating there are a few methods you can take to start curbing the habit.
Stop feeling guilty - The first step in getting over an addicting behavior is to stop feeling guilty for indulging. If you are dwelling on your bad behavior, it only makes it more tempting to continue. Some also find they are just as addicted to the guilt as they are to masturbating in the first place. It is perfectly acceptable to make mistakes and stumble along your path to recovery. Forgive yourself and move on rather than focusing on your slip ups instead of beating yourself up and focusing excessive energy on this incident.
Rid enablers - Remove anything that increases your temptation to participate in masturbation. If you have a stash of toys or paraphernalia, throw it away. Block websites on your computer that allow you to access pornographic content. If you have someone in your home that you are comfortable sharing this with, ask them to reset your passwords so you will not be able to remove these bans yourself. Avoid situations such as hot showers or staying up late so you will not be tempted.
Fill up your social schedule - Do this so that you do not feel bored and lonely. Loneliness increases the temptation to masturbate, especially if you feel as though you are using masturbation as a replacement for romantic interaction. Boredom gives your mind time to wander to sexual thoughts and provides the time and energy to masturbate.
Join in activities and find new hobbie - As you work to fill up your schedule with other activities, you will want to find another channel for your energy. Finding a creative outlet for your energy will fill up your time and give you something to feel satisfied about so you do not need masturbation to be satisfied. Find a new hobby, join a club, start playing sports or find a volunteer activity that you can use to fill up your time.
Alter your diet - Increasing your intake of fruits and vegetables can make you feel more alert and give you the energy you need to take part in other activities. This can also boost brainpower, giving you the push you need to resist your urge to masturbate.
Be patient - You are not going to be able to stop masturbating overnight. It is perfectly understandable if you have a relapse or struggle with letting go of your habit. Set up a reward system or checkpoint that you can use to keep yourself motivated. This will help you avoid dwelling on the negative and allowing a mistake from blocking your way to recovery.
Find someone trustworthy. Sometimes you might need help to completely stop masturbating. Find someone you can trust such as a religious leader or counselor so you can talk through your urges and find a set of tools that can help you stop. There are counselors that specialize in providing counseling and care to those with sexual addictions who may be able to help you find healthy ways to rid yourself of these urges. cc: Epatty

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Re: I Masturbate. Help by Nobody: 8:23pm On Mar 23, 2016
YOU NEED HELP AND THIS HELP COMES FROM:
(1) ASKING GOD FOR HELP
(2) LOCATE YOUR WEAK POINT(anything porn related even to music that show nude) AND MAKE A PERSONAL DECISION TO STAY AWAY FROM IT. Discipline can come if you ask for help sincerely.....

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Re: I Masturbate. Help by firstking01(m): 9:50pm On Mar 23, 2016
cruzita:
I was just kidding
stop decieving yourself, you are a guyundecided
Re: I Masturbate. Help by Nobody: 10:30pm On Mar 23, 2016
[quote author=Sunkyphil post=44040378][/quote]
You see the more reason nigerian Forums can never help you ... In any way ... If you made this post in a foriegn website

You would have seen comment's like

i used to do it but i used this method to stop it and more helpfull comments but here see wetin una dae comment naaa

Mtcheeew

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