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|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by tranxo(m): 7:15pm On Jun 08, 2016|
Nixiepie:Yes I can, only if that wife is you.
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nixiepie(f): 7:33pm On Jun 08, 2016|
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by tranxo(m): 7:39pm On Jun 08, 2016|
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by tranxo(m): 7:11am On Jun 27, 2016|
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nixiepie(f): 8:47pm On Jun 30, 2016|
tranxo:how do u mean sir?
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Sese2(f): 8:33am On Jul 01, 2016|
In my humble op,i dn't see anything wrong with that as far as she is humble,God fearing and submissive in everything irrespective of her position
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by davidif: 11:48am On Nov 01, 2016|
But don't you think it's emasculating to the man? Men are driven by pride in their achievements and if he can't be the leader and the provider, that shatters his ego (depending on the guy of course) which is what drives a lot of man.
On the flip side of it, a lot of women are raised and comditioned to to see the man as the one who provides shelter so if the man can't and the woman steps into that role (uncharted territory). That might tip the dynamics of the relationship. The woman might look at him differently and even if she wants to respect him it might be very difficult for her to do so.
At the end of the day, what you have is a role reversal in a relationship which might tilt the balance of the relationship. Any way it's my suggestion, feel free to disagree.
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by davidif: 11:54am On Nov 01, 2016|
What's with the personal attack on her?
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by davidif: 12:02pm On Nov 01, 2016|
First of all, you made a wrong analogy. Learn to make suitable comparisons next time.
Secondly, it's a valid question depending on the kind of person you are married to. Some women might find it really hard to respect there husband's if they are the ones who provide shelter in the family cos it changes the dynamics of the relationship.
Since all woman are different from each other, that makes this question a tough one.
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by eyinjuege: 8:04pm On Nov 01, 2016|
You will sell your wife's house that she laboured to build? You seriously think anyone would watch you do that?
Why not just work towards building your own house while living in your wife's house?
If you insist on not moving to her house, and would rather your family continues to stay in a rented apartment, that's equally OK. If your wife is smart, she'll rent out her house, and gradually use the proceeds to build another house/flats to be rented out.
You can equally continue struggling to pay the rent of where you live and trying to build your own house at the same time.
Your wife, your family, your call...
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Memejem: 7:05am On Nov 02, 2016|
This discussion ended months ago.
Anyways, in response to your comment, I don't believe masculinity has anything to do with how others perceive you, but rather how you perceive yourself. It's a socially construed sentiment. If a man is emasculated because his wife has enough funds to build a house and he doesn't then in honesty I feel he isn't matured. This isn't the 1940s, this is 2016. The traditional role of a woman as a housewife is slowly becoming eradicated. Women are educated and make their own money now. The man is not the only provider. women are providers too.
Culture and traditions change and is created by the people. We create culture, not the other way around.
I can only speak for myself, I have a full time job so I don't see why I will not contribute to the family funds when I get married. It's not for my husband to carry the burden alone, marriage is a partnership.
At the end of the day everybody should marry someone who shares the same ideals as them. It's not by force.
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by doubleportion: 3:58pm On Dec 07, 2016|
I can only take married folks of 3 yearsl with children serious about this matter
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by modik(m): 12:16am On Dec 08, 2016|
Can Buhaari live in Aaishaa's other room?
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Funnyguy83: 5:42am On Dec 08, 2016|
Izen:my dear if i were you, i will make sure i didnt marry any man in this life. The reason is simple. No man will like to live with a woman that exhibits this pedegree of intelligent in his house. Believe me if many women should think like you, many marriages would have failed. Infact there wouldnt be any marriage atall.
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by GOFON(m): 9:35am On Dec 23, 2016|
I can leave in the house built by my wife comfortably. The house we were leaving before God blessed my family with our own house was actually rented by my wife and i was very happy to live there.
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nixiepie(f): 10:01am On Dec 23, 2016|
GOFON:nice one sir
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Izen: 8:00am On Dec 29, 2016|
Lol, so I should reduce my intelligence to sooth a man's ego? He'll have to take that up with God who created me o.
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Funnyguy83: 8:39am On Dec 29, 2016|
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Chrisbet1981: 8:53am On Dec 29, 2016|
Of course I can. What's wrong with that? Unless of course she becomes a nightmare.
|Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by nams77: 1:33pm On Jan 18, 2020|
grandlexuz:Hmm. This is serious
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