Hmmm....
Meanwhile...

Humnnnnn

Serious talk.

We don see people who dated for more than five years still, they got tired and ended up not married.

Sex is just one of the reason NOT the main reason.

Character and attitude goes a long way.

Op are you telling me adopt no sex relationship


Taaaaaaaaa I no fit try am.

henryhemon:


You 're so local. We're are you from ?

Ibadan I guess

Fmartin:
Op i dnt tink so.

As fr me, am contemplating abt her illitracy level. If nt, i woul lov to marry her.

Hahaha. You didn't see her illiteracy level before hitting on her?

To a large extend, this is very true. When a man has everything from a woman. He is no longer curious and thrill to know more because there is nothing to know actually.

The girl has to be really perfect to hook such a guy. That is why men are always complaining about women. It is called "see finish"

In the past, our father's will do everything to marry. Then marriage makes u a man because you get to reap what young unmarried peeps don't hv access to

True

marvelck:
When a girl keep givin a guy sex all the time, and also render som services to him, when she is not yet his wife, he wil either be reluctant to marry her or keep delaying it. Since he is already enjoying the benefits of a wife frm her...especially the regular sex. Girls shd wise up.

Shut da Bleep up

marvelck:
When a girl keep givin a guy sex all the time, and also render som services to him, when she is not yet his wife, he wil either be reluctant to marry her or keep delaying it. Since he is already enjoying the benefits of a wife frm her...especially the regular sex. Girls shd wise up.

it's you I actually feel pity for..

one man's trash is another man's treasure..

you know wetin dem dey drink lash ur future wife at d moment?

my broda.. sha leave them dey watch.. abi?

because some of the guys want to sample every pant....

Women can pretend,its our culture. The heart or mind of a female is a foreign territory. You think you know em but it'll shock you.

dulux07:
Nawa. O. At d end Who is he now going to marry. A stranger
He is still going to marry his gf na

D koko is, If all ladies were virgins, definitely all guys will b virgins too.
Ladies should try as much as possible to avoid sex till marriage.

......WORD!!!!

Op wats d morale lesson

Hattchett:

serious talk!!!

its no rocket science. sex or no sex some ppl are marriageable others are absolute contraindication.

Sex or no sex, the simple reason why most guys keep delaying it is basically because of the situation of this country. Boiz gat no job so don't expect early marriage.

marvelck:
When a girl keep givin a guy sex all the time, and also render som services to him, when she is not yet his wife, he wil either be reluctant to marry her or keep delaying it. Since he is already enjoying the benefits of a wife frm her...especially the regular sex. Girls shd wise up.

What benefit of a wife are you talking about? How many children has he bore him? Or do you think we get married just to have sex?

The poster is a COW for saying this....









COW!

I thought girlfriend eventually becomes wife? Or is it womanfriend that becomes wife?
The reason is simply that, he is ready to settle, but not with her and is enjoying the free ride(s), till the right one comes parking!!!!!

Hattchett:
We marry only the homely and cultured ones. We discard the høes like the slutty bitches_ .

GBAAM!!! you are a true son of your father!! I owe you a bottle of Andre Rose

Wrong relationship analysis, Mr. Op. Sex is a bond in my opinion and never has a limited satisfaction if you love your partner. Love is the only thing that will motivate you to marry her.

Always ask the married people before you conclude.

waw some guys sha

Women give sex before marriage because they want it to and also love sex. People still marry girls that they have bleeped very well. If you dump her and marry another girl;obviously that other girl was dumped by someone,unless she is a virgin.

Op is a boy.
Real men don't leave women simply because they have had sex with them, real men strive to marry women whom they feel they are sexually compatible with and whom they feel they can leave a happy life with.
Don't forget, women still refuse to marry me if they think the men are not their type when it comes to sex.
If ur assertions where to be true, there there will be no need getting married because u will get tired of the sex since it becomes more frequent in marriage.

Hattchett:

Such contradiction cannot exist in reality.

Nothing like mood there.

A cultured girl will at all times exhibit that mark of responsible behaviour irrespective of her state of mind.

If you demand of her of something and she is not inclined to, she would object respecfully and calmly.

While the bad girl will always be spotted no matter her hard she tries to mask her true self.

ever heard about mood swings Or alter ego

ChristStriker:


Very trur, please tell them.

If she no cook wahala
She don cook problem
If she didn't do any of these na una go still complain
I rest my case

drmikeadams:
..after some guys doN turn the thing to borehole,,,them gurls go carry the borehole go give one innocent guy in the name of marriage....but y are guys dis wicked?? : ..make UNa change o

Guy nawaooo u just called it borehole just like but remember it is ladies pride ooo and sometimes ago u have also beg a ladies just for a dip into d borehore.#boreholeoflife

marvelck:
When a girl keep givin a guy sex all the time, and also render som services to him, when she is not yet his wife, he wil either be reluctant to marry her or keep delaying it. Since he is already enjoying the benefits of a wife frm her...especially the regular sex. Girls shd wise up.

sex has nothing to do with it, a guy is either going to marry you or he won't. When a man gets to know a woman he forms a mental picture of whether you are wife material to him or you are not, whether you give him sex or not is immaterial. If from the start he sees you as not being wife material nothing you can do will make a difference, he will continue chopping the thing until you walk. If he sees you as wife material, then he is looking for reasons not to marry you because he has already made up his mind that you are a potential wife and wants to be sure he is marrying the right woman. So if you give him an excuse (nagging, money hungry, a dodgy past, withholding sex......basically any character issues that may lead to a stressful marraige) he will walk. At this stage even the circle of friends you have matter, because you are a potential mother of his children and a man doesn't want his children around dodgy aunties and he also doesn't want the wrong kind of women around his wife. As an example if your boyfriend knows that all your friends are side chicks or sleeping with married men, you can kiss marriage with him goodbye because he will always be worried that they will be a bad influence on you.


A common mistake women make is to think men marry women for sex. Men marry for character,companionship loyalty, compatibility etc etc, sex can always be gotten outside, you cannot import good character into your marraige if a man already sees you as wife material then witholding sex could actually backfire on you...because it could just push him into the arms of an outsider. Men don't hesitate to find it outside if they aren't getting it in their relationship. A smart woman would not give a man an excuse to look outside.


The key is to know how he sees you, as wife potential or as time filler. one way to know is this, it doesn't matter how much money or time he spends with you, or how much fun you guys have together, if he doesn't take you around his family, to social events especially family functions, or functions where wives of his friends will be present, you are likely just a good time to him and not a potential wife.

The topic is somwhat misleading . fact is you can't just pick a random stranger from the streets and put a ring on their finger. whomsoever u choose to get married to is someone you must have dated for some time and are comfortable with. on the issues of not getting married to a lady you're already intimate with, there are no hard and fast rules applicable here,nor is it coloured in black and white. A man will marry a woman he feels he can build a life with, who supports him and excites him too, and if he is lucky to be dating a woman who knows her onions in the bedroom, chances are he'll want her for keeps.Sex doesn't a relationship keep, but awesome sex can also be a criterion for choosing a soul mate. I definitely don't want a slob in bed as wife though we can work it out in our union.

Rutycool:
because some of the guys want to sample every pant....

If its neat tho

Rutycool:
because some of the guys want to sample every pant....

If its neat tho

Op u suffering from lack of proper sex..... That's just the only explanation I have for you now

op ur very very very wrong