Most women I know tend to look better after breaking up with a boyfriend. For them it is an excuse to hit the gym, to finally start that healthy eating plan, to drink more water, to have surgery, to go out more. I'll be damned if any ex I bump into has a reason to feel smug about themselves .

So it seems to me, that breakups mean a lot more to women, and women appear to be more affected by break ups and so it can work in their favour if the result affect is 'to take control of life' or 'do something extra'.

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When you've met or run into your exs again have they looked better than they did when you left them/broke up? If we more men say yes, that must mean that my theory's correct, if we have more men saying no, that must mean that my theory's incorrect and that breakups have no effect on a woman's desire to 'up her game' and become 'sexier', if anything it might prove that the breakup had a negative effect on her which is the opposite of my theory.

It doesnt matter how one looks/


Breaking up with someone nicely is the best way to go.

If a man/woman experiences a good break up, they don't have to worry about much, its people who experience bad break ups that fight to accomplish this goal. No matter how bad or good I look, if I saw my ex today, all HELL WILL BREAK LOSE.

Women seem to suffer the most in a break-up so this is no issue at all. . . . . .
Men bounce back quickly(that is if he does not have someone by the side before the so-called break-up)
The exes i have met after the break-up all looked like Ms. Jackson.

~Sauron~:

Women seem to suffer the most in a break-up so this is no issue at all. . . . . .
Men bounce back quickly(that is if he does not have someone by the side before the so-called break-up)
The exes i have met after the break-up all looked like Ms. Jackson.

hahahaha! Most of the time, this is quite true.

~Sauron~:

Women seem to suffer the most in a break-up so this is no issue at all. . . . . .
Men bounce back quickly(that is if he does not have someone by the side before the so-called break-up)
The exes i have met after the break-up all looked like Ms. Jackson.

u r crazy

Wel, in most cases i blive d guyz get ova breakups faster dan d girlz.
But I've seen girlz look more gorgous aft breakup's, nw d question is waz d guy kinda bad 2 her?

Kelvinj:

Wel, in most cases i blive d guyz get ova breakups faster dan d girlz.
But I've seen girlz look more gorgous aft breakup's, nw d question is waz d guy kinda bad 2 her?

Not necessarily
For a girl the biggest revenge u can ever have on ur EX is to date someone better that way u wud look more gorgeous even to urself

Tope2000, but it's true; women are prone to suffer after breakups; that is the more reason why I advise some of them to try to make up but not desperately. I could not believe that my last Ex I never wanted to think of again in my life called to tell me that she is still alone, I had to hang up on her and put off my phone through out the hole day, wasn't I stupid?

mecussey:

Tope2000, but it's true; women are prone to suffer after breakups; that is the more reason why I advise some of them to try to make up but not desperately. I could not believe that my last Ex I never wanted to think of again in my life called to tell me that she is still alone, I had to hang up on her and put off my phone through out the hole day, wasn't I stupid?

Yes you are. . . .U passed up a good opportunity to get jiggy with an old flame. . . .

TOPE2000!:

u r crazy

It's the gospel truth!!!

mecussey:

Tope2000, but it's true; women are prone to suffer after breakups; that is the more reason why I advise some of them to try to make up but not desperately. I could not believe that my last Ex I never wanted to think of again in my life called to tell me that she is still alone, I had to hang up on her and put off my phone through out the hole day, wasn't I stupid?

Lol, wow, that was a bit harsh, but if she was always trouble, chances are she still will be, people change, but when they call to update you about their loneliness, it can just be gameplay for them. . The next question could have been; "Are you single?" and then "Wanna meet up." lol. .

TOPE2000!:

Not necessarily
For a girl the biggest revenge u can ever have on ur EX is to date someone better that way u wud look more gorgeous even to urself

That's what I believe too, and most if not all my female friends say; "you need to put some pictures up on facebook, and when that ex sees you he'll be jealous and wish he never. . ."

Most guys when they breakup want nothing to do with the girl again, whilst most girls tend to feel a little pain rather quickly and can do things to get back at the ex.

I think passive revenge is the sweetest, it appears unintentional

My exes all look crappy when I see 'em. Old things 'pass away, '

Czarskit:

My exes all look crappy when I see 'em. Old things 'pass away, '

Not nice!

who cares ow she looks

then i think more guys shld break up wiv their gf since it helpe them stay in shape. abi?

but d girls would punish d guys who later come along

the last two did't look too good