Good luck all :)

Tanx buddy

Their is no big problem abt this.constant communication and having trust in one's partner is what can make it work out.i'm presently in a such relationship.

Personally for me, I see it as good.

it is very good

as a matter of fact

i think it should be addopted

as a way of fighting pre-marital sex

hopefully we can stand through this , just about to enter one ,

good luck o carry go

khaira one thing I know that breaks relationship you've keeping for long
most often is the old enemy called "distance".

but never mind of what might have happened, see it as a TV movie and a
seasonal thing. It comes and goes. do not blame anybody, but here is the
question I personally have to ask you. Have you ever found out if you are compatible
or not? If not try to find that out,

Pray and visualize it that you are having him back in your life,
with God Almighty all things are possible. Yes!

Try it out, if it doesn't work just mail me.

imran0508@yahoo.com

imrandbest:

khaira one thing I know that breaks relationship you've keeping for long
most often is the old enemy called "distance".

but never mind of what might have happened, see it as a TV movie and a
seasonal thing. It comes and goes. do not blame anybody, but here is the
question I personally have to ask you. Have you ever found out if you are compatible
or not? If not try to find that out,

Pray and visualize it that you are having him back in your life,
with God Almighty all things are possible. Yes!

Try it out, if it doesn't work just mail me.

imran0508@yahoo.com

Tanx so much i am so greatful 4 wat u hv written. 2 answer ur question, YES we re compatible.

its just dat he is always a very busy person and it has made him so uncaring. But every other tin

is fine. it wld hv been easier if we were in d same city lol.

:-x

Vuitton:

^^^^^^^ Why the stark change in demeanor Hairat007

Guy i dnt understand "change in demeanor" wat were u expectin? dat despite d wonderful advice i got

from my beloved nairalanders, i shld wake up one day and tel dem all, dat i cld not hold onto

d relationship and i am letting go? pls make me understand Mr Vuitton

Whilst I love the dream that love can overcome anything we have to be realistic. You have to try and see each other very couple of months for it to really work out. Longer than that and it becomes a bit unrealistic as we are all human and prone to weakness. I would say that on occasion you may go for longer like four months however that should be a one off situation. Otherwise let each other go and don't bother as you are only going to be lied to and cheated on especially if he is not a good guy. I also think if you want to really do it you should plan to be together physically as soon as possible. Within a couple of years you should tie the knot and move in together otherwise you end up in a abnormal situation and it becomes the norm when it shouldn't.

You have to be really committed and really love the person. If its difficult to visit if finances are too tight to visit often, it may be in your interests to get a part time job on weekends maybe and help pay towards a ticket and trip so that you use your time constructively and in a way that builds your relationship even when you are separated.

The reality is most men and women are not strong enough to handle this situation in the long term. Unless maybe they live with their parents or are restricted in some way shape or form that helps stabilise them and they perhaps have a good support system and companionship from family members or something that all know about you. A lot of people cheat then pretend they love their partners and that everything is normal. Instead of cheating they should be planning to spend more time together planning ways of spoiling their lover etc. putting the energy into the right places. Anyway I hope it works out and you have a good guy, if he is good it can work out.

I am presently in the United States and my man is in Nigeria. its difficult to have a long distance relationship, yes, but it is not impossible. we communicate by phone and email. we love ourselves enough to wait till we see each other. the only factor that can withstand a long distance relationship is love. its good if the man or woman is worth it, if they are not, what are you waiting for?

Love makes the difference

AFTER TWO MONTHS, D STORY HAS CHANGED.

TANX 2 U GUYS. I AM GLAD I POPPED UP DIS TOPIC WEN I DID,

LITTLE DID I KNOW UR RESPONSES WLD HELP ME IN FORGETTING DIS HEARTLESS

CREATURE I FELL IN LOVE WITH. WE'VE GONE OUR SEPARATE WAYS AND I DID NOT GRIEVE OVER HIM

COS HE IS ACTUALLY NOT WORTH IT. NOW I HAVE JOINED D CLUB OF THOSE WHO TINKS LOVE IS JUST

A MERE FANTASY. IT'S NOT WORTH D PAIN lol

The transition to not believing in love was very quick. Are you sure you were in love to begin with?

For thoz of u that are stiil not convinced,jst stuck it in ur head 90% of distant relationships dnt wrk,so jst save ur slf the strees!!!!

chika98:

The transition to not believing in love was very quick. Are you sure you were in love to begin with?

Thank you.
Infatuation, I think

FL Gators:

Thank you.
Infatuation, I think

Heya the little baby girl is growing up fast . . .

Pele . . . teenage years can be bitch at times . . . you then tend to ask yourself why and how the heck was I infatutated in the first place.

Yes, teenager years were bitches but I didnt know what love is back then

FL Gators:

Thank you.
Infatuation, I think

u guys can say wat u wnt or tink all u wnt.

d truth is infatuation or not, transition 2 not believing in luv or not, LOVE is not worth all d pain.

Dis is not d 1st, second or third tym but i knw dis is abt d last tym i wld be hurt by any fellow.

lyk i said, tink all u wnt or say all u must but it wnt change a thing. lol

@ Topic.

Am in the States and my girlfriend is in Afghanistan! . . . . . . .Distance is becoming a problem unless I join the military and get shipped to Afghanistan. But what if I were shipped to Iraq?

sillyboy:

@ Topic.

Am in the States and my girlfriend is in Afghanistan! . . . . . . .Distance is becoming a problem unless I join the military and get shipped to Afghanistan. But what if I were shipped to Iraq?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH   

U really are a silly boy. its been so long a tym dat i laughed dis loud well if u re shipped 2

Iraq, God, i wld be soooooo glad cos den i can shout serves u right.

u really re a funny fellow lol.   

Well all i can say is that distance relationships require the Grace of God to succeed. I have had to deal with this situation twice and they both failed despite all the efforts i put in. That is not to say that there are no successful cases.

I really don't think that a relationship that is leading to marriage can be managed or run on the telephone or on Face book.

Good for some, not good for others. . . .

Know how much you can eat before asking for a plate

Hairat007:

u guys can say wat u wnt or tink all u wnt.

d truth is infatuation or not, transition 2 not believing in luv or not, LOVE is not worth all d pain.

Dis is not d 1st, second or third tym but i knw dis is abt d last tym i wld be hurt by any fellow.

lyk i said, tink all u wnt or say all u must but it wnt change a thing. lol

You believe love does not exist because one one or two people?

My dear, why do you want to lose?

sillyboy:

@ Topic.

Am in the States and my girlfriend is in Afghanistan! . . . . . . .Distance is becoming a problem unless I join the military and get shipped to Afghanistan. But what if I were shipped to Iraq?

LOL
I'll save this

FL Gators:



You believe love does not exist because one one or two people?

My dear, why do you want to lose?

Pls dnt just conclude dis way. U hv no idea wat i've been thru in d name

of lovin some ingrates u dnt just knw. u cld tink i choosed d wrong ones

but beliv me dats not d case but wat ever, i dnt tink its worth d pain cos

as it is, i aint gonna hate no 1 but i cant luv either cos d feelin is GONE. Not my

makin any way it jst happened. Now its as if i no longer hv feelings and beliv

me i used 2 be a very carin person but wolves took it all away. Tanx 4 your concern

all d same. lol   

is not an easy stuff to handle especially when ur not with what it takes to keep it going like making calls everyday, dispatch gifts and so on

iyke4iwu:

is not an easy stuff to handle especially when your not with what it takes to keep it going like making calls everyday, dispatch gifts and so on

Dats 1 problem my dear while u re busy tinkin of keepin it goin,

ur partner might not be in any way bothered. Dats wat happened 2

me. I did all d efforts, he came visitin yes, but dats about all he did. D

minute he returns, d story changes. Its a dead end.

Hairat007:



Dats 1 problem my dear while u re busy tinkin of keepin it goin,

your partner might not be in any way bothered. Dats wat happened 2

me. I did all d efforts, he came visitin yes, but dats about all he did. D

minute he returns, d story changes. Its a dead end.

Ok, my bad

well it actually depends on the parties involved cos some long distance relationships do work out but personally i dont realy like it cos usually it doesnt work out