Oliviaarims:


It wouldn't.

So you like being corrected? That's cool. I know few girls who don't. They pick offense when you point out their flaws.

Caravan:


So you like being corrected? That's cool. I know few girls who don't. They pick offense when you point out their flaws.

We always want to be better, so a lil shove in the right direction shouldn't hurt. The manner in which it is done matters, though.

Oliviaarims:


We always want to be better, so a lil shove in the right direction shouldn't hurt. The manner in which it is done matters, though.

How about the frequency at which it's done? Let's exclude frequency from mannerism. Let's say the mannerism just involves your method of approach, the tone of voice you use and the way you explain those faults to her.

Even though you are making her better, as she wants to, how often should you point her flaws to her? What if she has many flaws and she is in the habit of repeating those mistakes? Are their times when you wouldn't bother to remind her of those flaws?

Caravan:


How about the frequency at which it's done? Let's exclude frequency from mannerism. Let's say the mannerism just involves your method of approach, the tone of voice you use and the way you explain those faults to her.

Even though you are making her better, as she wants to, how often should you point her flaws to her? What if she has many flaws and she is in the habit of repeating those mistakes? Are their times when you wouldn't bother to remind her of those flaws?

This is where discretion (on the part of the one correcting)comes to play.

Richiy:
I even get scared of referring people to Nairaland, unlike before, most especially romance section. I hide it like it is porn.

yea true talk bcs d romance section is full of inexperience talkers and if u listen to their advice u are doomed.

Kog45:
yea true talk bcs d romance section is full of inexperience talkers and if u listen to their advice u are doomed.

Not all...some advices are worthy of adhering.