MasterofNL:

What is the best way to show your wife that you are not happy with her?

I mean when you are so offended at her.

I am thinking:

1. Stop eating her food. Go out and buy your own food and refuse to eat whatever she cooks.

2. Turn your back to her on the bed and don't make love to her.

3. Don't reply her when she talks to you or asks any question; just ignore her.

What you guys think?

Evina:
When my husband is angry with me, he still eats food I cook, he still assists me with domestic shores. Replies when I speak to him but doesn't necessarily initiate conversation.

When I see his acts of kindness towards me inspite of being angry with me, I feel so sorry and sad and angry at myself for ever offending such a wonderful man.

Evina:
When my husband is angry with me, he still eats food I cook, he still assists me with domestic shores. Replies when I speak to him but doesn't necessarily initiate conversation.

When I see his acts of kindness towards me inspite of being angry with me, I feel so sorry and sad and angry at myself for ever offending such a wonderful man.

laprince:


you're not yet married.
very simple!

Evina:
When my husband is angry with me, he still eats food I cook, he still assists me with domestic shores. Replies when I speak to him but doesn't necessarily initiate conversation.

When I see his acts of kindness towards me inspite of being angry with me, I feel so sorry and sad and angry at myself for ever offending such a wonderful man.

Chicent:
You should understand ur wife and know how best to treat her....
1. Yes u might not eat her food(if she didnt offer u, but if she offers u eat)
2. Dont starve ur wife of sex cuz u are angry with her. I for one bleeps her wen i am angry with her.... Maybe we can make up after it. (but i told her bluntly dont starve me of sex for any reason)
it might not work for another though.



All i said was about my gf. She is my prospective wife though. #Godhelpingus

Omotayor123:

Don't try None of those, it will only create more Crack in the wall. What happened to just telling her that you are not happy with whatever she has done.


Like I often say, Communication is very vital in a relationship. If you have a problem with your spouse Discuss it.
Sulking shorten the Life span

phintohlar:
my guy am 100 % in support of wat u said oh cos most of we ladies no dey hear world,like me now if my guy wanna punish me let him just ignore my food,chai dat thing dey pain me like crazy even more dan S**x

nmreports:


I'm sorry but are you married.

Eagul:


Omo you bad o.

You don fuc.k that guy tire sote he weak for bed.. Nice dp

onosprince:
Strangle her, while she is choking force ur dik in her mouth and make sure u cum inside her mouth... she will get the message, thank me after you return from jail.

ladyF:
If you are a married man and you do any of these things, then sorry, you are not mature enough for marriage.

What happened to your mouth? Have you lost your speech organs? Communication is key!!!

phintohlar:
lmao abeg no kill me oh. Meanwhile take a very close look at the pic den u'll notice d person there is a lady and not man.

MasterofNL:


I am sure you are not married because if you were you would understand better.

Let married ones speak please.

Ray360:

unless you don't love him heartily. A woman whose husband refuses to eat her food is not a happy woman. she slyly seeks to how where and where her husband is feeding from.

Evina:
When my husband is angry with me, he still eats food I cook, he still assists me with domestic shores. Replies when I speak to him but doesn't necessarily initiate conversation.

When I see his acts of kindness towards me inspite of being angry with me, I feel so sorry and sad and angry at myself for ever offending such a wonderful man.

ladyF:

Lol. No sane lady ever wants to get married to a man who will go and eat out or not have se-x with her because of a misunderstanding. Conflict is inevitable in EVERY relationship.

You better fix your marriage with communication. Silence has never gotten anybody anywhere.

Ray360:

unless you don't love him heartily. A woman whose husband refuses to eat her food is not a happy woman. she slyly seeks to how where and where her husband is feeding from.

repogirl:
It will shock you that that's how it is in many marriages.

There was a time in my marriage (early stages) that my husband and I were forming for each other. Giving each other the silent treatment. We just kept creating a vaccum in the marriage and his friends were taking advantage of it.

It got to a head at some point and my mom had to intervene, knocking our childish heads back together.

Now, it doesn't matter who offends the other, we find a way to make up (although he does mainly anyway, I'm still working on my stubborn spirit).

He doesn't hide his mind. If he's not happy with something, he is plain about it. I might be upset for a few days but he doesn't send my 'silent treatment' and his goodness during that period wins me over. Vise versa.

MasterofNL:

What is the best way to show your wife that you are not happy with her?

I mean when you are so offended at her.

I am thinking:

1. Stop eating her food. Go out and buy your own food and refuse to eat whatever she cooks.

2. Turn your back to her on the bed and don't make love to her.

3. Don't reply her when she talks to you or asks any question; just ignore her.

What you guys think?

MasterofNL:


You're not married either so you can't really understand.

basingstoke:
In all sincerity, This has nothing to do with being married or not. all cases are not the same. Do you know if the offence the woman committed is that she no longer talk to her husband ? a woman can offend her husband and you try to talk things over, and she tells you she is not interested. concerning the Oga that started this thread, it is only a woman that want peace that will notice you if you stop doing those things you talked about, there are some women if you stop eating her food, good she is happy, she washes all the pots and lock them up. If you back her in the bad, the following night she goes straight to the next room, and you will start backing yourself. My brother all cases are not same , you have to know what music your wife dances to