iceberylin:
Is she Broke

vchykp:


if she's broke I won't be complaining bro

iceberylin:


Are you really her Boyfriend

tayadof9ja:
who gift don epp? But the big question is, does she give you her punnanni?

Ifakiland:
won't call u a maga yet till u ans ds....dos she give pussyicational comforts?

nonjebose:
See your mouth ' she is the one I am willing to take to mama'. May your 'will' come to pass, since you don't know how to or you are afraid to express your displeasure over her attitude. She loves you for being her ATM nah. Abeg, keep up the good work joor. Happy married life in advance.

vchykp:






guy get sense nah

AlexCk:

Well, im no expert on love/relationship ish tho, i guess that shouldn't be a problem kinda(some ladies just like being taken care of i presume, & if u hv no ish with that, carry on ).
wat im saying is, if she has all d virtues of a good woman, n she loves thee, then thoz flaws, that she has shouldn't be an issue. sooner or later, she fit change tho.
People change for d ones they love, those that understand the concept of sacrifice o

U fit yab am one day say, "nawa u o, u no dey buy ur bobo gift ni", jokingly o, she fit just smile con gist u werrin dey.

Aal the best, mate.
Remember no1 is perfect. We all striving to be that.

TuneChi369:
@Op...My ex had this kinda similar flaws yet I showered her with love,talk to her abt it but if she refused to change then love her for who she is...We all have flaws....No man is perfect.

tee59:
Som ladies believe only d guys are saddle with d relationship responsibilities without contributing anything. Such ladies, whn married wil always want their husbands to pay for as little as matches in d home. Dose ladies hardly change after getting married. So shine your eyes and brain.

vchykp:


Without wasting much time,lemme go straight to the point, I've been in this relationship for close to a year nd we are doing just great and happy in the relationship,but the little I know about relationship,relationship is a give and take thing in all aspects,well I'm sorry to let you know that mine is different.

This lady in question has never done anything for me, I'm always the one doing, even on my birthday, no gift from her,I was the one that took her out instead of the other way round,I take care of her bills ranging from her phone bill,making her hair,buying wears. Cosmetics & perfumery etc, just name anything,I'm feeling things are not going the right way cos she has never thought of buying or doing nothing for me, this has been eating me up but I can't confront her because I don't even know the right word to use

Please my fellow romancelanders help a confused brother because your comment can go a long way in my life, SHE IS THE ONE I'M WILLING TO TAKE TO MAMA

sirusX:


You suppose take her to mama sharpaly so she fit chop the kain slap wey dey reset brain to factory settings.

On a lighter mood...i'd say keeping thoughts bottled up inside is a recipe for disaster in any relationship.
Relationships are built on the foundation of communication, that is, finding every opportunity to discuss and get to know much about each other.
There is no hard and fast rule and neither does life have a defined template...but we all keep learning about each other everyday and almost through our lives because people change.

You are the man in the relationship, and you need to take charge and be bold in handling things.
You talk about she being the one...well, I dunno about love being a give and take issue...because that means for everything you do you have expectations from her to reciprocate.
Love entails more of giving without expectation of receiving...because what you do for her, is done because you are willing to do it over and over again out of love.

but...

I don't expect her to be unresponsive, because if she truly loves you, maybe there are other ways she shows it and you aren't taking notice of it.
I'm not talking about nackson oo
It goes beyond physical gifts...although it's the thought behind the gifts that counts.

So, like others have said... i'd still advice you both find a quiet time in between your busy schedule to sit down and talk, cz that's the only way you can grow your relationship to what it needs to be.