run ke? ... I aint seen any punch or deadly kicks yet

Anyway, back to the topic. If you babes really want me, you have to promise to take care of my tommy first. That means PLENTY PLENTY COOOKING...

Bibi dear it think i can take kare of ya tummy


which dishes do u prefer?

haha

when u say cook doesn't he allow u to do other things? and to go to school and do ur private things?
otherwise i wonder what u r doing with him... or is it only sex that u want from him. well i think he is training u on becoming a good wife

Maclee,

Welcome to Nairaland.

Maclee, u r right; u know! Yes! He's training 2 bcome a wife material and not just a babe material.

So, Tayotina, u owe ur "boyfriend[b]s[/b]", oh sorry typogragra "boyfriend" "tnx"

wat!..u guyz!
he wants u to be a gud wife dat doesnt mean he should turn her into a cook, gosh..a woman cooks at her will and de fact she loves her bf not de boyfriends telling her to

Regarding this topic, I will mary a Calabar lady because they will take very good care of ur stomach and also give u 100% efficient pouncing.

Geddit?

Tayotina; u said its ur friend, as far as i'm concern, u are the person involved. My opinion will be channelled to u. You guys are not married not even living together. Now, how is it possible that this man demand breakfast, lunch and dinner from u all day? If he gets the knowledge that u are not happy over his demand and decide not to eat whatever u prepared with ur hands, how will u feel? U may probably feel better.
When men says ''she is not homely'' do u know what they really meant? U may not know because u don't want to be homely.
My dear, u should be happy that ur guy likes ur food. Maybe because I like good food too.

well i will be happy to cook for my guy.
But he does'nt have to see it as my responsibility cos am not his wife.

Well, i guess mine is different cos i enjoy cooking alot . So, i sometimes find myself cuttin onions with tears in my eyes while my girl picks the veg. Its really fun and u knw d truth.....we sometimes end up doing it there

heheh people sha. In the kicthen. Dem

abeggooooooooooooooooooo this is real using. i no gree ooooh Ladies don't let this happen to u. Let's get the point clear. Just the mere fact that the girl is omplaining or confused crystal clear obviously no LUV ya... u can tell if a boy loves u or not going head over hills for u . U know deep in ur heart, just that some girls just don't want to see the truth. They want to force it and that's not right. Let go another will come ur way.

The things he does to u, i mean little things not necessarily material things, the way he talks to u, his conserns abt u, the way he treats u abi u go know ooooooooh

Looks like this situation is one sided, Not reciprocal Ladies watch out for men take u for granted and take adv of ur vulnerabilty.

A woman's place is in the kitchen.

What do you expect him to eat? Is making love the only way of expressing love? This is not very serious.

you must cook.

MUST?

Hot-angel i guess u love spicy meals wit lots of 'pilly pilly' :oi cld prepare dat just for u ALONE..

i think if a girl works, she shouldn't carry all the  resposibility of a housewife.
why shoud a girl go to work, the husband also goes to work and when they both come back, the wife has to do everything in the house including taking care of the kids. i think that responsibility should be shared 50-50 between the wife and the husband.

husbands, if you know your wife works, you should be able to at least take the vaccum cleaner and sweep once in a while . + do the dishes too sometimes.if your wife doesn't have a job, then you can hold her respnsible as a full time housewife.

Yes MUST!

If you say 50/50 then you are mistaken. God make man and woman 75/25 since only the rib was extracted from the man to make woman. But out of that, the man still carry more of the house responsibility than the woman.

Tali-Tali:


Yes MUST!

If you say 50/50 then you are mistaken. God make man and woman 75/25 since only the rib was extracted from the man to make woman. But out of that, the man still carry more of the house responsibility than the woman.

are you trying to say men have 75 percent rights and women only 25 percent rights? oh please were not in the olden days of the old ruled by misogyny. it's 50-50 okay!!! it used to be 100-0 back then when there was the bible when there was sexism when the woman was the devil and the men were God's favorites. were not talking religion here okay?... now the condition is improving and women are gaining more rights. remember the time women weren't allowed to vote. yeah..sooner or later there will be female presidents and we'll see what you'll do about it. it's 50-50 okay?get over  it..

are you muslim? some muslims make their wives cover their faces in public and treat them like their property/slaves.


and by the way, no rib was taken out of nowhere to create women. the bible is just plains sexist because it was written by those authors who wrote the book based on what they believed. sexism existed largely then so they had to write the book based on that....

That's not love if he turns u to cook baby girl.

It's as easy as 'A' Quit if she's tired of it all but like the saying goes think before you leap but if i were to be ur friend then i would have to sit the guy down n ask him what he thinks of the relationship,with his answers you can tell if he's for real or not.......

A cok is a cook and a woman is a woman. We should try to undertand that!

To be cooking all the time in the relationship-he has turned her to a housewife role,whatever i want to eat,just cook it for me.

the gu-y aint boyfriend material, he's just a foodian

Me i would not have time for that rubbish.
My daughters Boyfriend wants her to cook for him but once in a rare while .
He will phone and ask her if she has time and even buy the things needed.
he will sit in the kitchen with her while she is cooking.
Sometimes his mum will ask her to come and show her how she cooked a dish because he is always talking about it.
But apart from that , we treat him like every other person if he comes when we are eating he eats with us.
I don't entertain men in my place. I go to their place.

Could it be love?Yes!!Love for your culinary expertise.Could it be love for you?Well i'm not so sure about that.If he loves he would not DEMAND for food the way he does even when its obviously inconvenient.My idea of cooking for a guy is a once in a while lovely delicacy.When he starts DEMANDING,then we would have some issues to iron out.

hmmmmm

no it cant be love

It is 100% not love.

Can you give me your friends boyfriends e-mail address so that i can advice him not to eat her food again so as to make her happy and stop complaining. It is you that did not understand her, she is actually bluffing telling you that her boyfriend only eat her food and not from mama put outside, maybe your own boyfriend do not eat your food.

geeeeeeeeeeee. I think your friend has become a door mat to his boo. The best thing she can do is first of all ask herself why she is putting up with that, then choose wether she wants to keep on being a cook, after she has made up her mind she can now go ahead and tell her man the way she feels about it and if he is ready to change well that says a lot about him, if not well he knows where the door is.lol

@tayotina

wetin be your own for their relationship?i know say u no go get boyfriend and thats why u're into their relationship, se u no dey chop the food wey she dey cook?why dont u call the boyfriend and tell him to stop using ur gurl amebo,

go and look for your own man and cook something nice too so he can take good care of you,

the only thing ur friend can do is cook and cook and thats why her man is making use of that advantage, so talk abt sumtin else and not abt their love life.