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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by JerryJJZ(m): 7:52pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
tushgirl: I really appreciate your effort sis, u are doing this out of love. Now, you love this guy with all your heart, yet, your heart is still doubting him. The fact remains that "Nobody wants his/her love to be shared amongst others". Since your instinct is not free with him on the basis on infidelity, sis you can as well move on your life; coz, even if he eventually comes back to you (1) The feelings wont be that strong again (2) If he surely has one side chick before, he MIGHT increase it to 3. The Mistake You Probably Made: There is a way you talk to men, and you succeed in bringing their head down. Of course, you should have known his strength and weak points. When you are doubting him, there is a way you sit him down and you successfully milk the truth out of him (Ladies Magic though). There is this feeling running through OUR blood (both male and female); when you realize your spouse (permit me to use that word) is totally or madly in luv with you, and he/she mistakenly commit any mistake, we tend to hold the person ransom. This is because (1) You know he/she will surely come back to beg (2) He/she will succumb to anything just to have you back (3) You will cease the opportunity to grow your self-esteem Solution: You should observe him for now (maybe week(s) as the case may be). Just check his steps towards you (since he already said he has forgiven you). The aftermath should dictate to you what you should do next. I really hope this piece helps you a little... (You can message me on joshuadiran@gmail.com in case of personal issues) |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by slapacha: 7:56pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
philybuck: Love forgives, since he got your pin from some1 it looks like you were just a bet and he had his way with you when you met up with him, don't flog the issue, just forget about him and move on, if you are sincere with yourself you would noticed a behavioral change after the time you guys met in person, if you really need to forget him delete his contacts and all his social media contact and avoid the temptation of checking him out on social media. you should be better over time. Enjoy tushgirl: But he slept with u! |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by jonath0012(m): 8:23pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
@Op, that guy is a PUA. He is only making himself irresistible and attractive to you. I tell you he canceled that date on purpose, and he achived that purpose. He is coming back to strike and after he finishes, he will move to the next girl. Your world has been conquered; nothing interesting anymore about it. Now what is the antidote? Listen to me very well: to get the guy crawling and begging to put the ring in your finger, to conquer his world completely, there is only ONE thing you can do, I repeat, there is only ONE thing you can do: DON'T GIVE A F**K ABOUT HIM. Come back and give testimony! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by petkoffdrake2(m): 9:12pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Op check my signature nd add me... U'll get lots of advice there |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by hardon1(m): 9:13pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
the poster is just giving herself unnecessary hypertension how does cancelling a date relates to cheating? What if he actually had an emergency meeting. See, the reason He isnt picking ur calls or replying ur text is because u hv wrongly accused. If he were ur husband, would u accuse him of infidelity or file for a divorce just because of a cancelled date? Go to his place jor and make amends so u guys can build ur relationship. mbok! |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Kai!
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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by smith2bj(m): 10:10pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Change change change |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by melvine1: 10:42pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by olac21(m): 11:18pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
Randy91: Lol-i remember that thread too and I felt for that giy!Anyway-do you really believe in Karma? |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Iamthoney(m): 12:01am On Jun 16, 2016 |
ForeverYoung197:which woman instinct are u talking about? What happened to her working with fact rather than her feelings(suspicions)? make una no dey mislead pipu abeg with una dishonest advice jare |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Iamthoney(m): 12:03am On Jun 16, 2016 |
BrideOfDracula:*pecks her on her forehead* na honest and sincere advice be this no be one yeye advice wey one person give Op |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Bibby25(m): 12:05am On Jun 16, 2016 |
@ Virginboy1,LWKMD u r something else mehn.... [quote author=virginboy1 post=46585943]Well if you truly really willingly loves him, go to his house, apologise like a good woman, if he still frowns face,hug him,if he still frowns face ,kiss him,but he if remans stubborn and still remains adamant in the frowning of face.Go down and Give him a head, I swear him brain go wake up with laughter. "Runs out of thread"[/quot 1 Like |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Iamthoney(m): 12:09am On Jun 16, 2016 |
virginboy1:Oga Seun abeg grant this guy immunity from any sorta ban from ur mods. Guy God bless you for this comment for e sweet my belle oooo |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Iamthoney(m): 12:12am On Jun 16, 2016 |
virginboy1: |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by NEROSKY(m): 1:06am On Jun 16, 2016 |
BrideOfDracula:Infact marry me now.. i like you no one would av said it better.. |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by NEROSKY(m): 1:08am On Jun 16, 2016 |
tushgirl: See advice to take here, don't assume, work with fact, because girls like you tend to think with their feelings than reality BrideOfDracula: |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Nobody: 3:58am On Jun 16, 2016 |
ForeverYoung197:yuck! a purely Nigerian women's mentality. You clearly ignored what led to the sudden coldness from the guy and accuse the guy of womanizing, the same reason the guy withdrew from her. some ladies and fishbrains are 5&6 1 Like |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by virginboy1(m): 5:57am On Jun 16, 2016 |
Iamthoney:Thank you Oga,I appreciate. |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by princy80(m): 6:45am On Jun 16, 2016 |
you suspect just too very very much. you are already calling him a womaniser hmmmm. my best bet is that he's done with you cos datz exactly how I would react. no much talking. |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Iamthoney(m): 9:20am On Jun 16, 2016 |
virginboy1:It is well received |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by lobiologs(m): 1:53pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
tushgirl:Then I guess he is angry with you. You can't just up and blame him for something he is yet to do and expect him to be cool with it. |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by G8Arthur(m): 7:31am On Jun 17, 2016 |
tushgirl: U r still calling him That is why he is waiting to knw how long u keep calling. U fell in love with him probably bcus of his character and he is handsome. But he has a handful of gals and he is still busy catching fun. If u can't forget him easily u jus have to send him a last msg. Tell him how u really lov him but dat u want to be realistic. He shuld come and get u if he still cares. If he doesn't call in two weeks forget him and move on. Anytime he comes ever again, dnt gv him much attention |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Etranshub(m): 8:29pm On Jun 17, 2016 |
Mz_Kt |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by myssmee: 11:24pm On Jun 17, 2016 |
tushgirl: |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Sweetie25(f): 4:57pm On Jun 18, 2016 |
philybuck: love ur advise, u must be a nice person |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by philybuck(m): 5:49am On Jun 19, 2016 |
Awwwww. Thank u so much Sweetie25: |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by tushgirl(f): 7:04am On Jul 17, 2016 |
Nairalanders thanks for your advices....so he contacted me a week after I ignored him and we came back together but after sometimes he started acting up again so I broke up with him but he is back now begging but I aren't going back Cc:brideofdracula,,phillybuck,sweetie25, G8authur,foreveryoung197,nerosky and others I couldn't tag |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Sleek222: 12:09pm On Apr 03, 2019 |
Hydra1: |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by marklele(m): 12:44pm On Apr 03, 2019 |
You said those things because you love him and cared for him but watch your choice of words next time. Just be calm, don't jump into another relationship because of this issue, couples quarrel and sometimes stay long before getting back. if you guys are meant to be, he will surely come back.. cheers |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by victorian(f): 12:48pm On Apr 03, 2019 |
Babe forget the guy. How can u just fall in love like that? Without him even doing nothing to you, he hasn't even touched u or had sex with u, u are already helpless in love.. Better forget the guy. He's the type u will be begging forever if slight issues comes up. Focus on the other guy asking for your hand in marriage and see if u can grow your feelings with this one. |
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by victorian(f): 12:50pm On Apr 03, 2019 |
tushgirl: I didn't even see this one before I typed the above advice. I know he will be acting up again. He's unstable. His eyes still dey up! Enough women is around him for him to drill and satisfy and he's just getting started . Just forget about him and move on to a better guy. He's not the only guy on earth. Free yourself babe! |
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