virginboy1:


He called you and explained to you on the reasons he can't meet up and yet you pegged him a womaniser simply because you think all men are womanizers and you don't have a little atom of trust for him.
More reason you shouldn't be judging issues blindly, what if he truly went for an urgent appointment?.

You mentioned that other guys do ask you out for marriage and so? Shey na new thing ni

My dear please reorient your perception about men and don't conclude on a matter like this without going through it tentatively.

I wish you well

virginboy1:
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, we all know that a lot of women are coded Runs girls/Oloshos. Not all of them but most of them are bleeping five different man at different intervals.. Our manly instinct is mostly correct. But we just dont follow it,we evaluate it tentatively.

No offense

tushgirl:
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.

Nb:This guy don't have much,but I still don't c care.

Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him totally.



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firstolalekan:

Why are you begging him
I think he is not just into you
Maybe you're not up to his standard.
MOVE ON.

tushgirl:
Good day all,
Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him.

I was in a similar situation once, this girl liked me very well much and I knew it. Very pretty girl, my bro always said she was wife material but I always ignored him. Whenever she called or texted,I would ignore or sluggishly talk to her once in a while. Until she just moved on and was seeing other guys, it hit me. My point being some guys are like that(including myself) probably you have(show) more feelings for him than he has towards you and he knows it, just move on if not the guy might just use and abuse you it I might be completely wrong altogether.

Hope my little input helps



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tushgirl:


Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him totally.

BrideOfDracula:
He could still be angry, so fall back & give him a bit of space. The ball is now on his court. You sound like the impulsive type that reacts based on feelings rather than facts. Always remember that feelings (your suspicions) aren't facts. So don't be surprised when people take offence at being accused of things that you've made up in your mind & decided they were true, when in fact they're a figment of your tortured mind. You're in the wrong here, so take a nibble at humble pie & wait it out.

Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt as proof.

BrideOfDracula:
He could still be angry, so fall back & give him a bit of space. The ball is now on his court. You sound like the impulsive type that reacts based on feelings rather than facts. Always remember that feelings (your suspicions) aren't facts. So don't be surprised when people take offence at being accused of things that you've made up in your mind & decided they were true, when in fact they're a figment of your tortured mind. You're in the wrong here, so take a nibble at humble pie & wait it out.

Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt as proof.

andromida:


Did you feel he was a womanizer just because he said he has another meeting to attend or had you noticed certain things about him that made you feel he is a womanizer. If you truly believe he was with another woman why are you begging him to forgive you for knowing the truth?

If this guy is a womanizer as you said what in the world do you want with him. I am happy the bad wolf has left you I hope he never comes back so you get over him quickly.

I hope you start dating the nice comfortable man that wants you.

tushgirl:
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.

Nb:This guy don't have much,but I still don't c care.

Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him totally.



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DeeTus:
Just move on with your life. I hate men who can't keep to one.

adewumiopeyemi:
the girl is at fault whymust he call the guy a womanaizer... that very bad.. seriously

HaneefahRN:
Ok, let him be. When he is ready to talk if ever then you'll know what to do. Don't waste your time waiting for him if he continues the silent treatment though. And why were you questioning his whereabout? Has he ever done anything to make you suspicious of him?

sweetcocoa:
I'm sorry but I dislike dumb girls, like they really annoy me.

Someone said he had a meeting and all you could think to do was accuse him and say a lot of things, yet somehow you think you didn't insult him? If I were to see that guy, I'd advice him to stay away from you, rubbish.

tushgirl:
He has womanising trait in him

BrideOfDracula:
He could still be angry, so fall back & give him a bit of space. The ball is now on his court. You sound like the impulsive type that reacts based on feelings rather than facts. Always remember that feelings (your suspicions) aren't facts. So don't be surprised when people take offence at being accused of things that you've made up in your mind & decided they were true, when in fact they're a figment of your tortured mind. You're in the wrong here, so take a nibble at humble pie & wait it out.

Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt as proof.

BrideOfDracula:
He could still be angry, so fall back & give him a bit of space. The ball is now on his court. You sound like the impulsive type that reacts based on feelings rather than facts. Always remember that feelings (your suspicions) aren't facts. So don't be surprised when people take offence at being accused of things that you've made up in your mind & decided they were true, when in fact they're a figment of your tortured mind. You're in the wrong here, so take a nibble at humble pie & wait it out.

Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt as proof.

megrimor:
Someone gave him your bbm pin, then you started feeling something for him in April, someone you haven't seen yet. Why not tell us that "You started feeling something for him when he started patronizing your bank accounts and your phones with recharge cards". E-love comes from bank alerts and recharge cards. That's what you fell in love with. Next post please(NOTE: make it a sensible one)

BrideOfDracula:
He could still be angry, so fall back & give him a bit of space. The ball is now on his court. You sound like the impulsive type that reacts based on feelings rather than facts. Always remember that feelings (your suspicions) aren't facts. So don't be surprised when people take offence at being accused of things that you've made up in your mind & decided they were true, when in fact they're a figment of your tortured mind. You're in the wrong here, so take a nibble at humble pie & wait it out.

Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt as proof.

BrideOfDracula:
He could still be angry, so fall back & give him a bit of space. The ball is now on his court. You sound like the impulsive type that reacts based on feelings rather than facts. Always remember that feelings (your suspicions) aren't facts. So don't be surprised when people take offence at being accused of things that you've made up in your mind & decided they were true, when in fact they're a figment of your tortured mind. You're in the wrong here, so take a nibble at humble pie & wait it out.

Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt as proof.

ForeverYoung197:
Sister, we all know that a lot of men are Playa. Not all of them but most of them are toasting five different women at the same time. Your womanly instinct mostly is correct. So follow it. When a guy declined to call you back or text you back simply because he still have a handful of women on his list. Move on and find a man who deserved u the most.

tushgirl:
I haven't slept with him

megrimor:
Someone gave him your bbm pin, then you started feeling something for him in April, someone you haven't seen yet. Why not tell us that "You started feeling something for him when he started patronizing your bank accounts and your phones with recharge cards". E-love comes from bank alerts and recharge cards. That's what you fell in love with. Next post please(NOTE: make it a sensible one)

BrideOfDracula:
He could still be angry, so fall back & give him a bit of space. The ball is now on his court. You sound like the impulsive type that reacts based on feelings rather than facts. Always remember that feelings (your suspicions) aren't facts. So don't be surprised when people take offence at being accused of things that you've made up in your mind & decided they were true, when in fact they're a figment of your tortured mind. You're in the wrong here, so take a nibble at humble pie & wait it out.

Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt as proof.

anyicash:
I advice you prioritize your wants according to your needs..someone is asking your hand in marriage, and he is comfortable but your heart is on the other guy who cares less..marriage is good but it is not a bed of roses, but in this situation i suggest you give a space, pause a little bit, study your suitors and consider ur needs. engage in some social activities, pray always and watch how things go.