As i write this i'm totally broken, never been this sad and betrayed in my entire life, i don't know what to do anymore.
Yesterday my sis called me after work and told me she wanted to tell me something, that she can't tell me over the phone, i was with my fiance during the phonecall, lately i've been staying with him, nd we have been planing a wedding in the next few months, my sister said i don't know the kind of person i'm staying with nd she still insisted on not saying anything till wen we meet on sunday (my free day).
At that statement, i became curious nd comfronted my fiance if he had any disagreement with my sister, he said no, so i told him what she said, immediately, his countenance changed nd i knew that something was definitely wrong, he said he has a confession to make but don't know how to tell me, i became angry nd said i was goin to my parent house to ask my sister since he was'nt saying anything.
He started begging me, telling me to remember all we have been through together, and seriously we both started as family frnds for a long time before it led to a relationship, we started a business together when we had nothing, not even a house, now we have achieved so many things together and started living comfortably to some extent, my school fee, everything comes from the business, my parent don't assist me in anyway, although he brought like 80% of capital into the business.we have been dating for almost 4 years.
Now he confessed that he slept with my sister once while we were like 3 months together, that she was all over him, that he never knew we will come this far, i actually came to visit him that day with my younger sister, when i left them to get something from the market was when it happend, this is someone i've given everything to and totally trust, he has kept this as secret for over 3 years and nw he's begging me to forgive him, i'm lost at what to do, i know my sister to be wayward but i never imagined she could do this to me i'm just 24 yrs, pls advise me people and forgive my typo errors

Interesting

3months into ur relationship......I'm sure by den u avnt really considered taking him serious talk more of settling down with him
Babe ur sis is jst a one night stand/side chic nothing more
Goan bleep ur man n pretend to forget he has erred
FINISH

Forgive him but don't marry him because he will do it again with your sister, when you guys get married. Guys never change

TeflonMe:
As i write this i'm totally broken, never been this sad and betrayed in my entire life, i don't know what to do anymore.
Yesterday my sis called me after work and told me she wanted to tell me something, that she can't tell me over the phone, i was with my fiance during the phonecall, lately i've been staying with him, nd we have been planing a wedding in the next few months, my sister said i don't know the kind of person i'm staying with nd she still insisted on not saying anything till wen we meet on sunday (my free day).
At that statement, i became curious nd comfronted my fiance if he had any disagreement with my sister, he said no, so i told him what she said, immediately, his countenance changed nd i knew that something was definitely wrong, he said he has a confession to make but don't know how to tell me, i became angry nd said i was goin to my parent house to ask my sister since he was'nt saying anything.
He started begging me, telling me to remember all we have been through together, and seriously we both started as family frnds for a long time before it led to a relationship, we started a business together when we had nothing, not even a house, now we have achieved so many things together and started living comfortably to some extent, my school fee, everything comes from the business, my parent don't assist me in anyway, although he brought like 80% of capital into the business.we have been dating for almost 4 years.
Now he confessed that he slept with my sister once while we were like 3 months together, that she was all over him, that he never knew we will come this far, i actually came to visit him that day with my younger sister, when i left them to get something from the market was when it happend, this is someone i've given everything to and totally trust, he has kept this as secret for over 3 years and nw he's begging me to forgive him, i'm lost at what to do, i know my sister to be wayward but i never imagined she could do this to me i'm just 24 yrs, pls advise me people and forgive my typo errors

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Break up with him, I believe he wouldn't have forgiven you if you make same mistake.

It's not her fault, she's 24 not 34... I have no advice for women who feel "age is on their side"

Hmm... she should forgive him... ah mean, it's just a one time thing..

And why does your sister want to soil ur relationship.. Must it always be the man the blame falls on..since u said she is wayward ..she might have seduced him and all..

One error doesn't make him a villain

boo forgivd him but find out who else he slept with.
u might need to see a counselor cause they might help with getting over it

Shit happens. Get over it. But I think your man is not sincere. He was ready to die with this secret or probably continue if ur jr sis didn't act. your sis is the one you should be thanking for exposing this. Think really hard b4 you say i do

even tho ur guy wuz in a position to turn d offer, I bliv ur wayward sis left d door unlocked........put d past b4 u & make sure ur both focused 4 d future ahead of u but do make sure it wuz a 1nite stand & not a habit on hiz part sha

What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Whatever your action to your guy should equally be meted out to your sister because what i understood now is that your sister wants to play the saint here when she should have turn the guy down and report him to you when you came back from the market, but instead she enjoyed it with him and is now trying to play the angel here.

Just don't take a one sided action.

Thank You.

U av to forgive d both of dem, d deed has been done already.