omonighoblessing:

ofcus I have. ..

So fast? If true, then he must be your side guy. You've been keeping him aside as back up.

permanentgrace:


So fast? If true, then he must be your side guy. You've been keeping him aside as back up.

no it took me 7 months..

omonighoblessing:
no it took me 7 months..

7months how? When was ur relationship with the guy over?

permanentgrace:

7months how? When was ur relationship with the guy over?

22/12/2015

BeastAmbition:



There are a thousand and one things the OP is not telling us, a guy of marriageable age won't just move on from a two years relationship like that to settle down with another lady. is either the OP is just his sexmate or sidebabe right from time, but she was too drunk in love to see.


I personally believe the man married the better well cultured fish.... karma my ass

Are you saying you are perfect yourself ?
If no, will you be happy if your girl engages
with another man without your knowledge/break-up ?

The fact that the man couldn't muster courage to tell her
about his wedding plans means that he didn't see her as a sidebabe to
begin with.

You forgot that the woman you will end up marrying
won't also be perfect so that is no excuse for playing
hide and seek, if you are tired communicate it to your
partner , simple.

As to karma been real or not , you are not yet in a position
to determine that, when you are above 50 years or so, you
will be able to confirm if karma is real or fake.

omonighoblessing:

well my dear that isn't the problem.
the thing is that he is a chronic womanizer. tho he tried hiding it but I could notice .I only hoped he changed.
but I am glad I didn't end up with him.
I met one of his colleague that knows me tho dosent know I dated him.so when I told him I dated the guy.he was so disappointed in me.he said that guy is a "STRIKER""
imagine!!!
so meaning he strikes every where.
my dear am glad he left.I don't deserve such a person that specializes in"STRIKING " women.

Abeg go and sit down make we hear word.why contradicting ursef?why didn't u dump his sorry arse when u saw signs that he was Christiano Ronaldo? Now u are happy u didn't settle down with him cos he is a top striker.Story for d gods.u don't even know what u want.All d same,i feel ur pains cos no lady should be used and dumped,its just so wrong.

jeffery251:


Abeg go and sit down make we hear word.why contradicting ursef?why didn't u dump his sorry arse when u saw signs that he was Christiano Ronaldo? Now u are happy u didn't settle down with him cos he is a top striker.Story for d gods.u don't even know what u want.All d same,i feel ur pains cos no lady should be used and dumped,its just so wrong.

uncle pls don't feel sorry for me ooh.
plus whatever happens to you love your man and u are willing to stick it out till he changes.
and if he dosent changes? ....well good radiance!!!
Thanks for your concern tho.

neocortex:

Are you saying you are perfect yourself ? If no, will you be happy if your girl engages with another man without your knowledge/break-up ?
The fact that the man couldn't muster courage to tell her about his wedding plans means that he didn't see her as a sidebabe to begin with.
You forgot that the woman you will end up marrying won't also be perfect so that is no excuse for playing hide and seek, if you are tired communicate it to your partner , simple.
As to karma been real or not , you are not yet in a position to determine that, when you are above 50 years or so, you will be able to confirm if karma is real or fake.

my brother God will so bless u for your wisdom. people like you are rare....

I need to hear both sides of d story to make a stance here.
But I think d guy left you for another lady whom he thinks is beta for him. I hope he dont regret it. All you hv to do is forgive & forget him, move on with ur life. Better days r ahead