I met this lovely charming princess on 5th July 2014 we became frnds and we started dating thereafter things were so romantic between us its was like heaven on earth. Things started falling apart for us last year August she won't call nor text so I angrily called off the relationship then I realised I made a mistake I had to plead with her but she wouldn't listen I mobilised all my friends including hers to plead with her on my behalf. Well after two month of apologizing she accepted me back and things returned to normalcy but just recently arnd April she changed again she hardly call, text nor communicate with me effectively so I took the bull by the horn and ask her if she's still interested in the relationship could u believe it this girl went on WhatsApp and ended our relationship online she didn't hav the courage to confront me and tell me what on her mind she broke my heart without looking back what pained me so much is that she didn't tell me the reason why we are breaking up. I loved this girl I respected her I gave her my attention my time and resources I was faithful to her. we planned so many things concerning our future but she threw everything into the trash can. Am heartbroken, devastated i feel am a failure. Plz just advice me on what to do.

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Get out. Get busy. Meet other ladies. The world doesn't revolve around an ex. Grow some balls already!!!!!

Banjo take it easy. It's a bad thing for a woman to be the reason a man is devastated and depressed. Cmon. Take charge of your life.




#onwardtogether bro

banjo022:
I met this lovely charming princess on 5th July 2014 we became frnds and we started dating thereafter things were so romantic between us its was like heaven on earth. Things started falling apart for us last year August she won't call nor text so I angrily called off the relationship then I realised I made a mistake I had to plead with her but she wouldn't listen I mobilised all my friends including hers to plead with her on my behalf. Well after two month of apologizing she accepted me back and things returned to normalcy but just recently arnd April she changed again she hardly call, text nor communicate with me effectively so I took the bull by the horn and ask her if she's still interested in the relationship could u believe it this girl went on WhatsApp and ended our relationship online she didn't hav the courage to confront me and tell me what on her mind she broke my heart without looking back what pained me so much is that she didn't tell me the reason why we are breaking up. I loved this girl I respected her I gave her my attention my time and resources I was faithful to her. we planned so many things concerning our future but she threw everything into the trash can. Am heartbroken, devastated i feel am a failure. Plz just advice me on what to do.

there was a pic u uploaded with a girl some certain time in nairaland, is she the lady in question?

Hmmmm move on.

Cutehector:
there was a pic u uploaded with a girl some certain time in nairaland, is she the lady in question?

yes

Thank me later bro

diamondlizzy:
Hmmmm move on.

its very easy to say. but how

juz move on. Life is full of surprises anyway. U never know tats d reason why ull meet someone soon tat will love u forever .
Don't keep ppol in Ur circle if they don't deserved it even if u love them d most. Since she broke up with u, blocked her & delete her number( but never memorize it tho )... then u can move on even faster

banjo022:
yes

awwwwww.. she fine die I swear.. now I understand why u deeply hurt.



But why u go let dah kyn babe go just like dat na? Not cool bro. U fvcked up pretty bad mehn

TrapQueen77:
juz move on. Life is full of surprises anyway. U never know tats d other way ull meet someone soon tat will love u forever .
Don't keep ppol in Ur circle if they don't deserved it even if u love them d most. Since she broke up with u, blocked her & delete her number( but never memorize it tho )... then u can move on even faster

Thank you Trapqueen

Cutehector:
awwwwww.. she fine die I swear.. now I understand why u deeply hurt.



But why u go let dah kyn babe go just like dat na? Not cool bro. U fvcked up pretty bad mehn

wat would u hav me do? I didn't do anything wrong. d break up came frm her

Suicide is d way

Simple.... One tea spoonful of izal mixed with a glass of sniper. Drink it morning n night for 2days.

banjo022:
wat would u hav me do? I didn't do anything wrong. d break up came frm her

remember u broke up with her first.. havnt u thought of what it did to her psychologically?





All the relationships I threw away first because of my ego issues never lasted even after we got back after me apologizing. The feelings she would hav after that will be reduced to 50percent.


She only would just never trust you anymore. Infact, her presence will just be passive. Waiting for the relationship to die finally. I've been there and I knw watsup.


Now before I begin to judge blindly,


What were the reasons that made u flare up and broke up the relationship the first time?

Estharfabian:
Relationships shouldn't be A do or die affair..
things change, feelings change and so do people...




Just Pick up your remains, dust off and start over! I'm sure you'd meet someone else who'd sweep You off your feet.

You're allowed to Cry, feel sad Buh don't wallow for long.

Thank u Esther

TrapQueen77:
juz move on. Life is full of surprises anyway. U never know tats d reason why ull meet someone soon tat will love u forever .
Don't keep ppol in Ur circle if they don't deserved it even if u love them d most. Since she broke up with u, blocked her & delete her number( but never memorize it tho )... then u can move on even faster

I wish u saw this lady the op is talkin abt, den u will understand why his depressed...



She make sense wella. Like really making sense.

Cutehector:
remember u broke up with her first.. havnt u thought of what it did to her psychologically?





All the relationships I threw away first because of my ego issues never lasted even after we got back after me apologizing. The feelings she would hav after that will be reduced to 50percent.


She only would just never trust you anymore. Infact, her presence will just be passive. Waiting for the relationship to die finally. I've been there and I knw watsup.


Now before I begin to judge blindly,


What were the reasons that made u flare up and broke up the relationship the first time?

she hardly call.. that feeling you don't care about someone any more. I had a feeling she was no longer interested. I had to take a decisive step in helping her even at that she didn't protest. d decision was OK wid her.

banjo022:
she hardly call.. that feeling you don't care about someone any more. I had a feeling she was no longer interested. I had to take a decisive step in helping her even at that she didn't protest. d decision was OK wid her.

Ok despite her lack in communicating through phone calls, did she also show this attitude in her physical meetings with u?

Like her visits, in general whenever u two used to be together

Kill urself already... Bla bla bla bla bla....


A girl left u wit no reason... isn't obvious she ws cheating on u like a hood rat?

Begging her to come bck? Dude u self spoil show nah... She go d feel important nah...



She gon' expect u to crawl back to her wit 'teary' eyes....

Abeg try upgrade ur levels small...

No one is worth dying for except the creator!

Cutehector:
Ok despite her lack in communicating through phone calls, did she also show this attitude in her physical meetings with u?

Like her visits, in general whenever u two used to be together

then she won't allow me to visit her n she won't come 2 my place

AndreSalvatore:
Kill urself already... Bla bla bla bla bla....


A girl left u wit no reason... isn't obvious she ws cheating on u like a hood rat?

Begging her to come bck? Dude u self spoil show nah... She go d feel important nah...



She gon' expect u to crawl back to her wit 'teary' eyes....

Abeg try upgrade ur levels small...

No one is worth dying for except the creator!

You are Right. I leave everything to fate. if she's truly mine she will come bk

Cutehector:
I wish u saw this lady the op is talkin abt, den u will understand why his depressed...



She make sense wella. Like really making sense.

Was it? Well boo...ppol shud learn tat love is ain't physical alone. If she was beautiful but she treated him like a door mat, then tats not nice. Each one of us deserved to be respected

banjo022:
then she won't allow me to visit her n she won't come 2 my place

cutehector thanks for those questions!!! GBAM!!!Brother banjo! You are just wasting your time o! I swear. "YOU ARE SIMPLY NOTHING TO HER"

banjo022:
You are Right. I leave everything to fate. if she's truly mine she will come bk

i hate seeing g's in pains... U welkum bro...


But grow up still...

Cutehector:
Ok despite her lack in communicating through phone calls, did she also show this attitude in her physical meetings with u?

Like her visits, in general whenever u two used to be together

Hahahhaha ! Look at this heart breaker of NL is doing such cross examination with the OP.

Trini45:
cutehector thanks for those questions!!! GBAM!!!Brother banjo! You are just wasting your time o! I swear. "YOU ARE SIMPLY NOTHING TO HER"

I like to ask questions before jumping into conclusions



So i"ll stand on my grounds to knw who to blame.

TrapQueen77:



Hahahhaha ! Look at this heart breaker of NL is doing such cross examination with the OP.

there's a lot abt me u don't knw

banjo022:
then she won't allow me to visit her n she won't come 2 my place

alright. She was never ur girlfrnd in the first place. I'm sorry to say this.


Cc: trapqueen77