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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Checked86: 11:30am On Jul 16, 2016
HALIX16:
Do you really want to hear the truth? Lol.
He is sure screwing your 'wife' and she ain't hiding it anymore cos you fell for the fake uncle story already...
Wake up and quit that shit bro.

You've been played for too long!
how could OP call a girl his fiancee without eve knowing who is her uncle or relatives. It seems that the so called uncle don't even know him and his fiancee does not want to introduce him to the man. May be OP does not care to know the 'helping' uncle. OP has mistaken girlfriend with fiancee. Her family does not even know him. OP is the one confusing things.

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by joery6(m): 11:31am On Jul 16, 2016
cool
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by emiye(m): 11:31am On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
thats what am afraid of bro..i am deeply inlove with her. All my family members and friends has taken a particular liking to her. Infact of about the over 32 ladies i have dated since teenage/adulthood , she is the first to pass a night in my family house and help in chores and stuff. I just cant loose her
You sef don rock ooo grin grin

Do you have a photo album of them all cheesy cheesy.

Whatever decision you make , do not confront her?

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by latinoKingdom(m): 11:31am On Jul 16, 2016
BlackMystery:
Investigate on ur own or hire someone to do it for you
how can he do the investigation pls
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by 4nobody4every1: 11:31am On Jul 16, 2016
unapapadeycraze:
He is an ARISTOcrat uncle.
Hahahaha, Nairaland, Una go kill person with laugh, Aristocrat Uncle, servicing and oiling her engine grin grin

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Charmarlegne: 11:32am On Jul 16, 2016
Op, more bad news coming through.... Wait for it... The so-called uncle will continue fucking her even after you marry her. Am not kidding.

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by dejavubobo1(m): 11:32am On Jul 16, 2016
Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


Quote me if u're interested lemme giv u d name
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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by coolhumble(m): 11:33am On Jul 16, 2016
Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


Quote me if u're interested lemme giv u d name

Am interested give me bro.
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by ivyy(f): 11:33am On Jul 16, 2016
I love you Miami ko I love you Texas ni undecided
Someone is conveniently taking you for a fool and you are there loving up foolishly too angry

Oh the wickedness in this world! grin

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Jfactor(m): 11:33am On Jul 16, 2016
A word is Enouf for d Wise. Bros, I no fit read all ds stories. But FOR REAL, dt UNCLE is BANGING ur Girl. Once had a friend who Uncle gets angry if any male visits ds my friend at her school. Ds Uncle even had a spy among her neighbours for updates. One day, she was telling me abt ds guys character and I said ds Ur Uncle na waoh. She even know the ATM of her Uncle. To cut story, ds my friend come get belle for ds Uncle. Unfortunately, she miscarriage. because she done already scatter her UNCLE normal family. Be wise. Run for your life

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:34am On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
thats what am afraid of bro..i am deeply inlove with her. All my family members and friends has taken a particular liking to her. Infact of about the over 32 ladies i have dated since teenage/adulthood, she is the first to pass a night in my family house and help in chores and stuff. I just cant loose her


@ bolded, if u claim to have dated 32 ladies and still single makes me doubt the credibility of your claim that you indeed confirmed that the said uncle is related to her by blood. I think it's a subtle attempt by you to shield yourself from obvious criticism and advice from intelligent minds. You are deeply in love with someone who doesn't deem it fit to show u off to her uncle despite you showing her to your family and friends as u claim angry Love is the weakness exploited by most nigerian girls to perputuate their promiscuity and unfortunately u are in love lust. I pity you. I can see your mind is made up and u keep trying all u can to defend her despite the glaring truth been highlighted by every matured mind here. My final advice is go ahead and marry her and get ready to face the consequences of your actions. I wish u a happy married life with your promiscuous wife to be. Smh grin

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:35am On Jul 16, 2016
iLegend:
She's a woman and any man who provides a woman with ESCOFi is who she'll fúck with. As nice guy, just be nice. Be a bad boy and you'll never suspect again.

Keep safe

iLegend
here u go again wit this ESCOFI things........ilegend reason ur man
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by coolmc99: 11:36am On Jul 16, 2016
very much on point. smileyvery much on point.
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by ivyy(f): 11:36am On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
thats what am afraid of bro..i am deeply inlove with her. All my family members and friends has taken a particular liking to her. Infact of about the over 32 ladies i have dated since teenage/adulthood, she is the first to pass a night in my family house and help in chores and stuff. just cant loose her

@bolded, you're finished sad

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:36am On Jul 16, 2016
Why are you deceiving yourself. This is how you caused problem in marriages. You know that cannot be not right, for her to go and be sleeping in one uncles house in the name of cleaning. Please wait for your own woman, this one is not a wife material.
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by usquare250(m): 11:37am On Jul 16, 2016
Beloved My boss on frnd had same xpensive and wen I started reading I tort it's him until I saw ur name..... same exact story. Her suger daddy dou from the same village but she claimed it's her uncle and each time he comes to town, it's only her dats his favourite nice even wen other cousin of hers are in de same town. She go to spend notes dir in de name of helping him out and would nt even go for lectures. Nd he has never come down with his wife alway visiting alone...... my beloved the truth came out the day I mistaking saw a text came in her gone frm uncle as it's stored and I decide to open...... It was hope de abortion was successful? Just be careful and open ur eyes wild to see to yourself. Never assume pls,

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by igidaduro: 11:37am On Jul 16, 2016
Your is better she lied that the man in question is her uncle, mine told me to my face that the man is her sugar daddy,
I let it go (we all have our past) you dont know know what you come across with your next.
I have the following questions for you.
If you finds out they flung will you stay or leave? If you get married and then finds out what will you do? Can you live with it for the rest of your life?
I think that gives you what you needed you can avoid the inevitable because we are different.
Mine i was willing to live with but she won't stop, she decided to play me but guess what? She played herself.

In khaled voice :- is she smart, is she loyal? Is she grateful? #downinthedm

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:38am On Jul 16, 2016
ivyy:

@bolded, you're finished sad
Take it easy on the guy na .
He's in love. grin
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by BekeeBuAgbara: 11:38am On Jul 16, 2016
If you marry her how would you be sure your kids are truly yours not ''uncle'' kids. Bros u are an assistant boyfriend, na money cause am.

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Rexology: 11:39am On Jul 16, 2016
If the man is actually her Uncle and you are her husband to be (his inlaw to be), why not pay him a visit with your wife to be for a proper introduction (familarisation visit ), from there it's either your suspicion is confirmed or varnish.
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Olufemiolaolu(m): 11:39am On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
I have this issue that i have been pondering on for sometime now, and the more i think about it, the more i get confused.

Its about this man my fiancee always call's her uncle, she said that this man is a relation to her grandma and honestly, this particular man is the one sponsoring her education since both parents are divorced.

My problem is this, everytime this man is in town, she goes over to his house to clean up, and will spend the night over there as well, and this man has never for once visited with his wife. Secondly whenever this man calls her on phone, and she happens to be anywhere expect her house or in school, he will start accusing her of sleeping around, something i am suspecting might be a 'lover's jelousy' than a mere concern for her well being. I might be wrong in my suspecions but i cant just bring my mind to rest when he stoped paying her school fees for a while when it was reported to him that she was caught coming from a guys house by a friend. I knew that day in particular , cause i was escorting her when she bumped into someone she remarked as her uncle's bossom friend, it took the intervention of her mother and sister to placate him.
I was shoked one day when she remarked that if you dont know well, you might think that they where dating, and futher said that his wife might be suspecting them atimes. I was thinking, what must be running through her mind for saying all these? I have seen her selfies in this uncles apartment and most of the pictures are not so "funny" as what she wears around the house.

Now today, the man is around and as usual she will be up there cleaning and stuff, but what is worrying me this night is the " swtheart,my husband good nite" sms i got from her after all the missed call i gave her earlier tonight. Its unlike her, cause we never fail to call eachother and say our goodnights every night.
I replied her asking if shes spending the night in her uncle's house which she did not reply.
I dont know how to confront her on this, about my fears and suspicions.
Your advice is kindly needed, as the imaginations alone is giving me sleeples night.
She is messing around because d man can pay her bills. Dont kill urself with worry ok. Ur gf is anoda man's property. Its sad though, but dat is d reality on ground.

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:39am On Jul 16, 2016
mrkayusfit:



@ bolded, if u claim to have dated 32 ladies and still single makes me doubt the credibility of your claim that you indeed confirmed that the said uncle is related to her by blood. I think it's a subtle attempt by you to shield yourself from obvious criticism and advice from intelligent minds. You are deeply in love with someone who doesn't deem it fit to show u off to her uncle despite you showing her to your family and friends as u claim angry Love is the weakness exploited by most nigerian girls to perputuate their promiscuity and unfortunately u are in love lust. I pity you. I can see your mind is made up and u keep trying all u can to defend her despite the glaring truth been highlighted by every matured mind here. My final advice is go ahead and marry her and get ready to face the consequences of your actions. I wish u a happy married life with your promiscuous wife to be. Smh grin

thanks a lot for your advice. This is how many people put themselves into problem in their marriages. He knows the problem and still going ahead to marry her. His mind is made up already before coming to Nairaland

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by lordbish(m): 11:40am On Jul 16, 2016
it is simply, it is a family packaged business
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Dajugba: 11:40am On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
I have this issue that i have been pondering on for sometime now, and the more i think about it, the more i get confused.

Its about this man my fiancee always call's her uncle, she said that this man is a relation to her grandma and honestly, this particular man is the one sponsoring her education since both parents are divorced.

My problem is this, everytime this man is in town, she goes over to his house to clean up, and will spend the night over there as well, and this man has never for once visited with his wife. Secondly whenever this man calls her on phone, and she happens to be anywhere expect her house or in school, he will start accusing her of sleeping around, something i am suspecting might be a 'lover's jelousy' than a mere concern for her well being. I might be wrong in my suspecions but i cant just bring my mind to rest when he stoped paying her school fees for a while when it was reported to him that she was caught coming from a guys house by a friend. I knew that day in particular , cause i was escorting her when she bumped into someone she remarked as her uncle's bossom friend, it took the intervention of her mother and sister to placate him.
I was shoked one day when she remarked that if you dont know well, you might think that they where dating, and futher said that his wife might be suspecting them atimes. I was thinking, what must be running through her mind for saying all these? I have seen her selfies in this uncles apartment and most of the pictures are not so "funny" as what she wears around the house.

Now today, the man is around and as usual she will be up there cleaning and stuff, but what is worrying me this night is the " swtheart,my husband good nite" sms i got from her after all the missed call i gave her earlier tonight. Its unlike her, cause we never fail to call eachother and say our goodnights every night.
I replied her asking if shes spending the night in her uncle's house which she did not reply.
I dont know how to confront her on this, about my fears and suspicions.
Your advice is kindly needed, as the imaginations alone is giving me sleeples night.

Have you ever seen any young lady who date her father's age mate that will boldly say to you he's my boyfriend? They're always classified as uncles, family friends or sponsorer. Dude wake up! Your article simply express pity, because you're much devoted than her in the relationship. It's not about marrying, but having a balance relationship that have and share same value interest. Don't settle your self for less, and what would lead you into temptations in the future, if you still go ahead to marry her. Forget about whither you love her or not, she is cheating. And if you claim to have responsibility over her as a real fiance, then what should stop you as a man to see her uncle, you could initiate with her that you love to know this her generous uncle? As having good relationship with him aswell. Cos I don't see what stop you from such, except you plan to marry her without due process. And secondly, which lady can't answer a call from her fiance at the time of the night when she is not with another man. Pardon me to say: What I learnt from your writtings is that your girl friend is not only a runs babe, but a cronic liar. Run from her, I don't mind adding my legs to yours if you need extra leg. Have a great weekend!.

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by omoleyeib(m): 11:41am On Jul 16, 2016
Simple advice, ask her to introduce you to that so call uncle as her fiance then both of you can go together to his house whenever he comes,
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:41am On Jul 16, 2016
emiye:
You sef don rock ooo grin grin

Do you have a photo album of them all cheesy cheesy.

Whatever decision you make , do not confront her?
wise guy..exactly my thought, she will deny and fight me for accusing her of sleeping with her blood relation, the situation is dicey.
Lol i dnt keep a photo, but a man can never forget some ladies he had hit while still 'prowling'. U get wat i mean? Although i dnt know most of there names now, but the memories of them all is still fresh.
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Charmarlegne: 11:41am On Jul 16, 2016
hollyayo:
I'm interested o
why are you playing with hypertension? undecided
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by NLban: 11:42am On Jul 16, 2016
Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


Quote me if u're interested lemme giv u d name
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by chimaaba22(m): 11:44am On Jul 16, 2016
You already have the answer to your suspicion.

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by michakev: 11:45am On Jul 16, 2016
guy if I were u. I will grab my vaseline cream and go sraight to dat so-called uncle of hers and give dat his uncle de vaseline cream which I brought for both of Dem to use coz is very obvious dat both of Dem are fucking each oda no lie about it Bro

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:45am On Jul 16, 2016
If u are nt ok, u just walk away.
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by emiye(m): 11:46am On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
wise guy..exactly my thought, she will deny and fight me for accusing her of sleeping with her blood relation, the situation is dicey.
Lol i dnt keep a photo, but a man can never forget some ladies he had hit while still 'prowling'. U get wat i mean? Although i dnt know most of there names now, but the memories of them all is still fresh.
Cool, you will weather the storm, and emerge better. wink I wish you the very best.

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