davidylan:

Grow up dude . . . she's not a prostitute but your gf and thus you are responsible for her financially whether she lands on her back for you or not.

whitelexi:

Wrong, her parents are responsible for her financially!

Yumi:

I never ask a man for money.  I never want a man to walk up to me anywhere and tell anyone that he paid for anything in my life.   He can pay for outings on our dates and buy me the odd present if we are in a relationship, but I pay my own bills and for my own necessities. I never want to rely on a man financially it gives him too much power.  I never want to feel indebted to any man so any time they treat me like rubbish I can show them the door as I don't need them.  Unless I get engaged/married then it might change.  

Ujujoan:

Oh puh . . leee . . zee . .

whitelexi:

Uju, if there's no sex, where's the intimacy? You can't possibly say they're in a relationship which has no intimacy. . . So they're just friends, and "just friends" does not make a guy financially responsible for a woman!

Lord_Reed:

It is not only money dat gives someone power over u. Loving someone always puts u in a vulnerable position. So to think u'll b immune from heart break cos u don't ask is myopic IMHO.

whitelexi:

Wrong, her parents are responsible for her financially!

Ujujoan:

I think I'm falling for ya . .  sure you are not single      

whitelexi:

Uju, if there's no sex, where's the intimacy? You can't possibly say they're in a relationship which has no intimacy. . .  So they're just friends, and "just friends" does not make a guy financially responsible for a woman!

Yumi:

I never ask a man for money. I never want a man to walk up to me anywhere and tell anyone that he paid for anything in my life. He can pay for outings on our dates and buy me the odd present if we are in a relationship, but I pay my own bills and for my own necessities. I never want to rely on a man financially it gives him too much power. I never want to feel indebted to any man so any time they treat me like rubbish I can show them the door as I don't need them. Unless I get engaged/married then it might change.

davidylan:

hehe money no dey o.

davidylan:

hehe money no dey o.

whitelexi:

Hehehe, why is that comment so ironic

davidylan:

No its not, Uju doesnt want money to make her hair . . . she wants money to build a mansion, ride in a Lexus and pad a fat bank account. That type of money never show at all.

jay bee:

Relationship ain't trade by batter but then again i am so not kool with the word "expect".
Only a woman i'm married to deserves to expect something from moi

whitelexi:

Hehehe, why is that comment so ironic

davidylan:

No its not, Uju doesnt want money to make her hair . . . she wants money to build a mansion, ride in a Lexus and pad a fat bank account. That type of money never show at all.

izeek:

its not suppossed to be seen as a responsibility, rather his ways to appreciate her effort of looking good for him.

jay bee:

Relationship ain't trade by batter but then again i am so not kool with the word "expect".
Only a woman i'm married to deserves to expect something from moi

Lord_Reed:

Good so you should only expect sex from the woman you are married too.

Lord_Reed:

It is not only money dat gives someone power over u. Loving someone always puts u in a vulnerable position. So to think u'll b immune from heart break cos u don't ask is myopic IMHO.

Lord_Reed:

Good so you should only expect sex from the woman you are married too.

whitelexi:

But even that is not obligatory!

And u have to ask how she is also appreciating him

Is it by saying "Awwww, thank u darlinggggg"

davidylan:

Sorry the day you asked her to be your gf (and i'm assuming you are a man not a teenager now) she became partly your responsibility too. I find it hard to swallow that a 24yr old woman has to go ask her mother for money to make her hair when you are alive.

frank3.16:

dude are u for real? what makes u financially responsible? do you know what pre-marital relationshipis all about? its about two people sharing feelings and not money or sex.

since the ladies think its necessary for them ask us for financial assistance,why shouldnt we ask them for sex

ladies want to reap where they did not sow. How can you expect money when u have nothing to offer?

izeek:

look i just think its hardly out of place for her to ask.
my only problem wud be her asking you like its your responsiblilty to cater for her upkeep.
even if your wife earns 50 000$ a month, i still se it as a thing of pride to provide for some of her basic needs.

izeek:

look i just think its hardly out of place for her to ask.
my only problem wud be her asking you like its your responsiblilty to cater for her upkeep.
even if your wife earns 50 000$ a month, i still se it as a thing of pride to provide for some of her basic needs.

izeek:

look i just think its hardly out of place for her to ask.
my only problem wud be her asking you like its your responsiblilty to cater for her upkeep.
even if your wife earns 50 000$ a month, i still se it as a thing of pride to provide for some of her basic needs.