tosyne2much:
Oga Rapmoney, you have finally disgraced me with this.. I just hope my crush will not see this

Lol! Don't tell me those account statements resemble your own!

I could marry a guy with little, why not? We both have our hands and as long as we have somewhere safe to sleep and food, then we both have the means to keep working towards a better future.
Mind you, attitude goes a long way so sharing the same values is crucial.
However I CANNOT bring a child into such a union. Not fair to the child when we both are struggling and cannot provide adequately for ourselves. This stance is something I cannot compromise regardless of how great a person the guy is.
Other than that, yeah..i'll be the Bonnie to your broke Clyde.

God will continue to bless our men and give me my own husband too.Amen

Op I think your reason for most ladies wanting a man with a ride is rather simplistic. I won't marry a man without a car because I don't want to hop bikes with my baby on my back when the kids start coming. I can contribute money for the car o but there sha must be car unless we don't plan to start having kids immediately after marriage. I pity mothers I see struggling with 2 or more toddlers without a personal means transportation.Women have suffered enough haba.

Naija husband starter pack

True. After acquiring these things, you now acquire the lady of your choice.

KingCheezyPuff:
❤The average man is not mild class either .
... ...he is average.
Not dirt poor but not owner of anything or making large sums of money
.....
❤And most women date/marry these men.
.... I have dated these men most ladies on this form have dated these men

.....so, how come you didn't marry "these men"?

I've got none of those things now but oloshos like my ponron wella.

Rapmoney:
Ladies love flashy cars even if you as the owner, is looking like this

funny enough I just finished watching this guy's dance video,I mean this particular one,the guy is funny and good. Got great dance moves too

shaybebaby:
I could marry a guy with little, why not? We both have our hands and as long as we have somewhere safe to sleep and food, then we both have the means to keep working towards a better future.
Mind you, attitude goes a long way so sharing the same values is crucial.
However I CANNOT bring a child into such a union. Not fair to the child when we both are struggling and cannot provide adequately for ourselves. This stance is something I cannot compromise regardless of how great a person the guy is.
Other than that, yeah..i'll be the Bonnie to your broke Clyde.

You're so right. This is what most guys don't get. A woman suffers more when there's poverty in a marriage especially when there are kids involved. A man can easily shut his mind out when things are not going well at home but a mother can't do the same. It's really not fair to the woman and the kids. And the average man won't agree to wait till the family can actually afford to start having kids.

shaybebaby:
I could marry a guy with little, why not? We both have our hands and as long as we have somewhere safe to sleep and food, then we both have the means to keep working towards a better future.
Mind you, attitude goes a long way so sharing the same values is crucial.
However I CANNOT bring a child into such a union. Not fair to the child when we both are struggling and cannot provide adequately for ourselves. This stance is something I cannot compromise regardless of how great a person the guy is.
Other than that, yeah..i'll be the Bonnie to your broke Clyde.

For ur mind

Izen:


You're so right. This is what most guys don't get. A woman suffers more when there's poverty in a marriage especially when there are kids involved. A man can easily shut his mind out when things are not going well at home but a mother can't do the same. It's really not fair to the woman and the kids. And the average man won't agree to wait till the family can actually afford to start having kids.

It really is common sense, kids are pretty helpless as they are entirely reliant on you. But for two grown ass people, you can combine the resources you have however little. There is also time to consider, there are only 24 hours in a day, you both still need to hustle, look after kids, sleep all within that time frame.
Adding extra wahala is dumb and stressful but peeps always allow sentiment to rule reason.
You can have a relationship without money, you cannot raise kids without it.

Rapmoney:
For ur mind

Hehehehe, been there, done that. My first love was so skint and it didn't put me off. We broke up because of his attitude, his frustration at being poor coupled with infidelity.
Even at that, I put up with it for two years but walked away eventually because I realised rich or poor, his attitude would always stink.

oluwafreshkid:
Even better if he doesn't have a mother...
These new girls now will say they prefer to not have a mother-in-law!!!

Tufia

so true of some of these ladies atleast I know of a lady who the friend is been praying not marry a guy that the mom is still alive and I ask myself u also want to become mother inlaw one day?

OP, you are right.

Ahh auntie, u forget to collect change...

Zehner:
Let me alight here.....

Izen:
Op I think your reason for most ladies wanting a man with a ride is rather simplistic. I won't marry a man without a car because I don't want to hop bikes with my baby on my back when the kids start coming. I can contribute money for the car o but there sha must be car unless we don't plan to start having kids immediately after marriage. I pity mothers I see struggling with 2 or more toddlers without a personal means transportation.Women have suffered enough haba.

clap for ur self

He must respect me as an partner and be willing to listen and discuss key issues privately because it's important

Money will be made by us if we don't have its not paramount i have even been learning its better to be with the one you know will hear you even when you don't speak

Life is short

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The best thread for today, at least for we bachelors. It is indeed a food for thought. Thanks op.

KingCheezyPuff:
Now this is simply no t true . Most women date /marry the average man and the average man is not rich.

Define 'the average man' ?

God bless ma hustle

Thank you OP, now this is the true meaning to the saying "size does not matter"...

bitchcrafts:
You're cruelly depriving a village somewhere of an eediot. Now, pass... Not there, the way u came in


I like how that even sound in my ears

That's so mean....

shaybebaby:

Hehehehe, been there, done that. My first love was so skint and it didn't put me off. We broke up because of his attitude, his frustration at being poor coupled with infidelity.
Even at that, I put up with it for two years but walked away eventually because I realised rich or poor, his attitude would always stink.

Hmmmm. I'm feeling you. Our attitude determine our altitude in life.

KingCheezyPuff:
Now this is simply no t true . Most women date /marry the average man and the average man is not rich.

No an average man is middle class. He's not poor nor rich but can afford basic needs and a little more easily. That's an average man.

Op is being realistic and that's the truth.

An average Nigerian lady wants comfort they only marry a poor lad when she's getting old or probably most of her mates have all settled down. The only way most of them escape from poverty is marrying a rich dude.

Starter pack ke? Lolllllllll

Op you said starter pack

If this is starter pack, it boggles the mind what the full package must require.

Starter pack is an average paying job + furnished apartment+ ambition and powerful hustling side business /income + N300,000 + List of eligible village maidens in your locality.

This not true.Lots of men living in one room are getting married every day. Check around you and see married couple,how many of them have what you stated. All Nigerian Ladies are not like that .