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Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Dexema(m): 3:29pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
cherry007: Cherry, the lady is tired of it (dunno if its for the wrong or right reasons) she's just looking for a rock to cling on to to make the decision. Reminds me of R.kelly's " when a woman's fed up " 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Dexema(m): 3:29pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
cherry007: Cherry, the lady is tired of it (dunno if its for the wrong or right reasons) she's just looking for a rock to cling on to make the decision. Reminds me of R.kelly's " when a woman's fed up " |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Odunharry(m): 3:30pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Ibidun07 go to work.... wetin u dey read |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Cchuks27(m): 3:30pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Just do it dear. No perfect time. Be sure of what you want and not what others want for you. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Nobody: 3:30pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
iamNotAlone: In the voice of Barry White: walk right into my open arms... Okay like r u just noticing these traits in him? Like didnt u kno him b4 introducing him to d fam? Hw long u guys been dating? I could tell u to up n lv him or relax swallow d bs n be patient but if only u can answer those questions sincerely,babe u wld kno what to do or @least hv an idea.. Gluck tho |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Tuktuk: 3:30pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Evacroft:my sister, you have said it all. seems you have a whole lot of experience with such type of men. possessive, annoyingly jealous,overly manipulative, control freaks. Although loving and caring but ahhh. just as op puts it, choking. @op, run as fast as your 2 legs can carry you ooo. Another one will come,just be patient and prayerful. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Nobody: 3:31pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Vikings007: THANKS |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Nobody: 3:31pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
jidxin: Thanks a lot. lolz, you are funny |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by neocortex: 3:31pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
ULSHERLAN: Will you prefer she goes ahead with the marriage and then starts seeing the "other dude" after marriage ? I think she will be saving herself and the fiance a lifetime of headache by walking away. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Nobody: 3:32pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
I ddnt say u shld not go because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. But be sincere, u hv gotten another man. If u hv not, u wldnt hv seen all these error. U wld hv manage it without complaint. B4 u go, try to compasect him for some expenses on u for him not to do midnight prayer for u out of hrt break because God still ans prayers |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by uqueenette: 3:33pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by 5minsmadness: 3:34pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
terungwamzer: |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by FuddiesandAce: 3:35pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
What are you doing wrong that is making him so hyper freaked out There's usually no smoke without fire Think carefully then if you try to make things right and it's not working out.... Leave.. I for one don't like a nagging partner 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by TamedWolf90: 3:37pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
iamNotAlone: [color=#990000]OP, I need to ask you something before I give you advice, .. Apart from having trust issues, is there anything bad he doesn't?? That is apart from suspecting or having trust related issues?/color] |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Odunharry(m): 3:38pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
KevinDein:Your first sentence is very true.. If u want to know how heartless some of them are, just listen to lies n pretend u believe them anytime they break up with their guy. They won't tell you what actually cause the break up but will tell you aw ungrateful, wicked the guy is The earlier ladies understand a right thinking man will never leave a girl who's good, the Better. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Nobody: 3:39pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Some men are naturally possessive and insecure, you don't need to do anything. They don't need to see any smoke as well. Sometimes people take the experiences of their past into a new relationship. If he is choking you, tell him to allow you breath. Sometimes everyone need a little bit of space, you know. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by ocheejemb: 3:41pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
iamNotAlone: This sounds serious. Are his fears unfounded? Is there anyone else in the picture that makes him insecure? Maybe you should tell him how this makes you feel first. It is worrying that you feel this way before marriage. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Tuktuk: 3:42pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
mimzy: |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Nobody: 3:44pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Fellas, see why you need to always put your balls on the table? See how this small girl is disrespecting her fiance and whatever they hold dear? Choking me this, choking me that. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Semper247(m): 3:44pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
iamNotAlone: Lol@ choking... Girls of these days sha.. It is obvious u don't love him cos u feel u have done him a great favor by making ur family accept him. SMH.. He gives the attention u crave in a relationship and now u feel choked? SMH... Just let the poor guy go, he is obviously wasting his love in you.. I pity the fellow sha cos in his mind now, he has found a wife. My sis, go and meet that other man jare... the one that cares less about what's on ur phone or how u spend ur time. The one who only calls when he wants u around and never cares to be around u "always " All the best but leave that nigga NOW!! 8 Likes |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by bdchange(m): 3:45pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
@op, when I checked ur profile now I saw your location to be"in my boo's hrt". Pls if you leave there now, where would you go? To seun's hrt or is it tosyn2much abi na.....abeg complete am for me. Just joking 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Eberex(m): 3:45pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
iamNotAlone: that's a negative obsession. if that is his character, then you know what you signed for |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Lamor(f): 3:48pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Sweetie,listen up.Once you are not comfortable or you have doubts in ur rship,then its nt meant to be.There should be this peace in ur mind,indicating dt u r in the right part.Bt once you loose that peace,then something isn't right. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by yipata: 3:54pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
WHATS THIS ONE SAYING.... NigAmbassador: |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
iamNotAlone: Is he obsessed with you ? like acts like a freak? if the answer is no then move to the next line. Did it also occur to you, you may be fustrating him? in as much as i dont support his childish behaviors and jealousy, the dude must really like you an love you to create time for you. You better open your eyes and protect your own before another lady comes into the picture. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by tolustwart: 3:55pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
How long have you been in the relationship.. After you've worked so hard for your parent to like, dat means you guys bin long in it. you didn't notice all this when you started and made your family liked him. we've just heard your own side of the story tho and we dont know if you are the cause why he is placing a tab on you.. If keeping tab is just the problem and he is not violent, womanizing, doesn't show care or any sign of love depreciating, then i will say you should keep your way plain and straight. and if its dat you are straight with him then talk to him tell him all you've noticed about him and what you dont like.. and if he doesnt listen, just walk away 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Pls go,leave the boy alone.girls self? Because guys are sending u messages daily,go and date dem. U ll understand. I wonder how. Many boys will see ur unclothedness before u marry 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Jacko01: 3:55pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Dump am jor.... Dump his sorry ass Send me dm.... Let me see ur specs.... If i fit manage u Dump am 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by richard870(m): 3:56pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
iamNotAlone:Sounds like you are hiding something #NoPunIntended |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
All men talks like a woman when they are truly angry. Just avoid that side of him as often as u kan. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by iamNotAlone(f): 3:59pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
bdchange:Lol....funny |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by ghostmist: 3:59pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
mimzy:BRILLIANT!! why is it that most women do not possess this kinda brain?? this is how a man would analyze this situation. but most women would rather jump in with emotion leaving logic behind. 8 Likes |
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