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Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Evacroft: 7:20am On Jul 22, 2016 |
streetzdreamz:U can go on and rant bout this,u picked d points I stated out and I replied u back for not opening ur eyes to see,cos it was obvious I didn't generalize. And who told u am frustrated,boy u're in dream land. Next time answer the questions u want to and don't pick pple out of assumptions cos I guess u are a fully grown dude. I still maintain d fish brain though. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by GAZZUZZ(m): 7:24am On Jul 22, 2016 |
Zoharariel: дерьмо́ 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by streetzdreamz(m): 7:42am On Jul 22, 2016 |
Evacroft:rant?? What you people dont understand is that no one has a monopoly for violence, i chose to reply u in a matured way but that further fueled your ego,thought u said u r married,a supposed adult eeh?? So many overgrown babies claiming adulthood,fully grown dude?maturity has nothing to do with age,its a way of relating with everybody according to the level of their understanding, i picked ur point,just one "overly quiet dudes" cuz am annoyingly quiet and i possess none of those attributes which made me give an opinion,and i never said u generalized you are obviously a blind bat for you not to see where i opined ur words might be right,was only trying to correct a bad image u making of quiet guys,its just an opinion why go berserk oer it?can u comprehend a thing now??hell no!!you obviously too slow to pick up any!and thats your personal conviction,people goin tru this will know whose grey matter is deficient of some cells betwixt us,mrs ode. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Yorobastard(m): 8:43am On Jul 22, 2016 |
Sorry to hear what you are going through. I have just gone through your profile to read some of your topics as the guy in the front page did and I must say it is a very complicated issue since you said you can deal with the jealousy and that your pastors had given you a go ahead and also received a sign from God. What I want you to know is that no human created by God is perfect and if you finally try to avoid a bad side of you then another bad side automatically comes up. Have you discussed this issue with your pastors and have you prayed to God about his attitude and finally talked to your mom about it as she was the only person that initially supported you guys being together? Lastly, have you talked to your man becos relationships like this is based on trust and jealousy is what you will have to tackle. I understand that most girls want a jealous man but what you may wish for may be more than what you are expecting. Let you guys seat together and ask him about his previous relationships so as to know what may have ignited him to not trusting you enough and I don't see anything bad if he is checking your phone except you have something to hide and if you do jus do away with it. Since you both love each other then never stop trying to make things work. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by veave(f): 8:46am On Jul 22, 2016 |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by veave(f): 8:47am On Jul 22, 2016 |
fexyrich: I'm not intelligent at all |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by confistified(m): 8:53am On Jul 22, 2016 |
veave:hw was ur nite |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by skywalker240(m): 9:19am On Jul 22, 2016 |
mimzy:Now am regretting why i didnt voted you as miss nairaland...you are a true queen |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Mekyno(m): 10:35am On Jul 22, 2016 |
mimzy:Best advice........hv a heart to heart convo with him. Grass is nt always greener on the other side....noted |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by fexyrich(m): 12:23pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
veave:point of correction .you are very intelligent just that you didn't look deeper before analysing the post... |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by veave(f): 2:36pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
fexyrich: I didn't look at all |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by veave(f): 2:38pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by confistified(m): 2:45pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
veave:Short but ok..... I need a favor pls |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by veave(f): 3:01pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by confistified(m): 3:07pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
veave:sure ...... I need you to pls vote Vizkiz for Mr Nairaland |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by veave(f): 3:11pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by confistified(m): 3:28pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
veave:voting commences nxt week ..... I'll keep u informed |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Mekyno: Lol |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Nobody: 4:26pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
iamNotAlone: exactly how I lost my relationship. solution is to ignore Cus once u open up, it will soon crash. fact! gudluck |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Longman6(m): 5:16pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
This issue is quite simple,op why not talk to your man,you think he is jealous maybe he is,but the big question is this:was he like this at the beginning? am sure not,someone that can try to know your family,tries to know whats up with you loves you,although he might have trust issues,and all those yelling leave him,dump him and all,have u ever considered that not every relationship is perfect including you,Do you have the best of behavior,love is two people in a relationship coming down to say,honey,I want to tell you something,sort things out instead of throwing it away at each intance.This generation is suffering from the problem of alternatives".stop believing social media/relationship advocate,every advice is nostalgic..talk before cutting off 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by ODAVI(m): 5:34pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
SOME MANY IMMATURE FEMALES ARE HERE.. HENCE, I WARNED THE LADY IN QUESTION TO BE WEARY OF ADVISES HERE.. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE.. LET THE LAST OPTION WAS TO LEAVE HIM... NOT UNTIL YOU HAVE DONE THE BEST ADVISE AS YOU CAN TAKE HIM OR REASON LIKE I SAID AND SAID BY THE PERSON QUOTE I AM REPLYING ON.. AND ONE OTHER LADY WHO SAID YOU SHOULD ARE NOT MATURED ENOUGH FOR MARRIAGE.. THIS ARE THE THINGS SOME LADIES CRAVE FOR. "QUALITY TIME, QUALITY ATTENTION, ETC.. I MIGHT NOT SUPPORT HIM ON OTHERS.. PLEASE PLEASE CALL AUNTY LADA ON ISPIRATIONAL FM TO HEAR HER VEIWS ON THURSDAYS FROM 7PM AND SAT. cheers Smileprince: |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by timilinda(f): 5:39pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
USHERLAN, She is not alone! Just because d OP is female, u've chosen not to accept her view on her relationship. Stop being USHERED into d LANd of chauvinism. Being clingy, possessive n insecure can be irritating, even annoying, its also very dangerous, whether its from a man or lady. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by abuaudu(m): 11:50pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Dnt knw much abt relationships |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Evacroft: 12:16am On Jul 28, 2016 |
streetzdreamz:Oh really,u picked a point? I stated what I felt and u picked it,that u can't do obviously if it ain't no faceless forum. But really u're a small boy who doesn't still get where his brain is located. Am done replying ur rants cos obviously u are not matured enough to see pple air there views without thinking urs is th best. So boy take a sit and Kip that mouth of urs to ur self , but I know u will reply again. Captain ode |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Nobody: 3:22am On Sep 07, 2017 |
iamNotAlone: How did this end? |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by analice107: 4:12pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
thorpido:But she needs to break it up with Wisdom. Guys like that can turn brutal and even hurt her. When you see a guy acting like that, he can hurt someone. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by thorpido(m): 5:03pm On Sep 07, 2017 |
analice107:True 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Blackfire(m): 7:11am On Sep 10, 2017 |
thorpido: Sweetheart @Analice107 I will disagree with you on this... What if you hear the other person story.. I know deep down that story is incomplete. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by analice107: 1:26pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
Blackfire:I agree. But, i particularly will not be around any man who does the things she talked about. The day i'd make a mistake and greet an acquaintance, he will flay up and hurt me seriously. No sir. that's not love. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by Blackfire(m): 1:59pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
analice107: U see some women makes a good guy turn to a monster, and they still turned around and claim victim. And you know sometimes women don't tell you all details I couldn't reply my 80k phone was stolen or misplaced on Sunday. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Despise My Fiance' by analice107: 2:44pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
Blackfire:So sorry about your phone. And, don't stay with any girl who doesn't love you. |
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