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@Ujujoan. You tried this time around, a little thumbs up but, the sex aspect is where i totally disagree. You both have no such obligation outside marriage. The act is supposed to be a consummation of the vows you would have exchanged on the day of your wedding and as such, it is forbidden for you both to engage in it before marriage.

So, let me say again that you tried but, u need to get a little more religious, i mean get close to God, give your life to Christ and who knows you might be a living example of that VIRTUOUS WOMAN mentioned in the Bible.

@ No2Atheism- sounds wonderful!!!! This is in response to ur previous post:

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"First of all, I don't believe in the BF or GF bullshit, I am more of a relationship person, its either am serious with a lady or I would not even start anything in the first place. To be frank, i find it insulting to use the word Boyfriend and Girlfriend, those words sound childish and hormonistic . . . and immatured.

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@topic

In my own book, the duty is quite simple.

1. Love her as you claim to do.
2. Treat her as well as you treat yourself (this can include but not restricted to material things).
3. Leave the rest up to her, cus women are more emotional than men hence the truth is that men can't compete in the emotional department."

I always thought being in a relationship is so demanding, this confirms it. Not me!!!

Signorina:

I always thought being in a relationship is so demanding, this confirms it. Not me!!!

Before nko?!

All the duties you mentioned are all based on gender stereotypes which are used to define gender roles.These roles cannot be applied to most relationships.

i dont think i can do this for a boyfriend. maybe fiancee or husband

^^ really

candylips:

^^ really

Ofcourse!

na wa o

candylips:

na wa o

na wa 4 wetin?

all dis talk. wat of advice? gud advice oh.

booberry:

all dis talk. wat of advice? gud advice oh.

If u need advice go for marriage counseling._{no be 4 here!}

i be the one and only marriage councelor for this land

candylips:

i be the one and only marriage councelor for this land

See this coconut Head!!

hehe yes na counceloring   i dey do i no dey do counselling

candylips:

hehe yes na counceloring   i dey do i no dey do counselling

Na u sabi!

lol

Well guy u get time to write those things o they make sense sah.

na who you dey refer to

Re: Your Duty As Someone's Bf Or Gf
« #17 on: September 15, 2009, 07:59 PM »

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@the seeker

u hit d nail on d head, way 2 go, !!!

@post

ermmm, nyc points,although i disagree wiv som,

on d side of wat gurls hv 2 do for guys,i think points 1-4 shuldnt be like a DUTY or BY FORCE, naturally,,a gurl should help cook,clean and stuff but abeg,if your gurl is busy or for guys dat dont even hv babes,wat happens?abi,wont guys eat,do thier laundry or keeep their houses clean without gurls??and BDW,i cant date a guy who isnt mature enuf to take care of himself by himself.
sha,i dnt mind hostin his friends sha,but its definitely nt goin to b evrytyme his friends com around, its evn more okay if the friends in question r also my friends, NO WAHALA at alll,

on d side of wat guys hv to do 4 gurls,
for 1,, hellll yeah!!!!!my guy has to do those tins, nyce point uju
for 2 and 3, welll,ok.not dat necessary thou esp for d escort part
for 4,, ermmmmm, he doesnt need to provide d MONEY for my hair,clothings and all wat not, ill handle my bills by myself, if he gives me money to do some stuff,i will take but i wont ask, ill onli ask if i dnt hv d money,and evn den,this rarely happens,
for 5,, yes o!!!he has to call,esp we he wake s up, b4 goin to bed and wen at work, i love calls [table][/table]

i love all your suggetions but some guys do take advantage

girls are rily the reason men go crazy but it doesnt mean we kill ourselves for them so guys be cool

@Uju Men i didn't read subsequent posts asides yours but i'm enthused at the openness you displayed with your thread.I wish most ladies would appreciate and be as sincere as you have displayed.

I totally support your view and wish to add that a guy should find new ways to tease and spicen up his relationships with his woman not to have it grow cold.

Checkin out gents n ladys.

Peace

@floriana Men as long as the money aspect isn't in the equation yet men i don\t mind taking you out as my gf.
what do you say?

@bolastickl I thought only i shared your opinion about relationships,you spoke the truth point blank.Glad they're more of us thinking in this pattern rather than the forceful cohabiting n mutualising thing folks call relationships.

@poster Bravo, uju , i love your post it's very ginga-manstic , even at @ both parties they should see to what they can do to keep the relationship lifely not boring , because if i kept calling and i did'nt get get a better responds because relationship should vise-versa , i will assume otherwise .

What a story, i think it as some truth in it.

a gf really doesn't have any duty. it is a wife that does

candylips:

a gf really doesn't have any duty. it is a wife that does

Thank you!

sexybabes:

Thank you!

Why u dey thank dat yeye man?

Bcoz he said d truth , I ges u disagree.
Well d only duty I have as some1's gf is 2 luv him if dts wt i told & promised him.