MUZBO:

No wonder most guys are opting for a sex change and hormonal therapy. @Uju, se na me kill Michael Jackson wey I go dey do all those things? My only duty to my GF is to be by her side looking handsome and scaring away the competition! Sue me.

TheSeeker:

So this topic is still going on?

kalmebad:

@ poster

Ecsorting you on travels and wedding, have you thought if he has his own personal engagement?? only if it pleases him.

Taking me and my girlsfriends out, a girlfriend and not girlfriend(s), well he if wishes but am not going to impose that on him or make it an issue, and as much she is a trusted gf and not the type willing to share him with me behind my back.

Ujujoan:

I think it should be an obligation. Of course I dont expect him to leave a serious engagement to follow me to my friend's B/day party, I wont do that for him either, but if he's free, he's obliged to go with me . . . . he shouldnt complain when I go with someone else.

Nothing is being imposed on anybody, but if you want to make your partnet happy, you should be able to go out of your way once in a while!! Even though most guys are jerks, some of them still deserve the best!  

Gabry:

Intresting . . .

Ujujoan:

Even though most guys are jerks, some of them still deserve the best!

TheSeeker:

I want you to expunge the word, 'obligation'. He's not obliged to go with you even if all he has to do tha day is play video games instead of going with you. So if he doesn't go with you, you'll go with someone else -- a guy I suppose?

I hope you won't mind if he decides to go somewhere with another girl too. I think it'd be a matter of choice but should NEVER be an obligation.

koolsasy:

@the seeker

u hit d nail on d head, way 2 go, !!!

@post

ermmm, nyc points,although i disagree wiv som,

on d side of wat gurls hv 2 do for guys,i think points 1-4 shuldnt be like a DUTY or BY FORCE, naturally,,a gurl should help cook,clean and stuff but abeg,if your gurl is busy or for guys dat dont even hv babes,wat happens?abi,wont guys eat,do thier laundry or keeep their houses clean without gurls??and BDW,i cant date a guy who isnt mature enuf to take care of himself by himself.
sha,i dnt mind hostin his friends sha,but its definitely nt goin to b evrytyme his friends com around, its evn more okay if the friends in question r also my friends, NO WAHALA at alll,

on d side of wat guys hv to do 4 gurls,
for 1,, hellll yeah!!!!!my guy has to do those tins, nyce point uju
for 2 and 3, welll,ok.not dat necessary thou esp for d escort part
for 4,, ermmmmm, he doesnt need to provide d MONEY for my hair,clothings and all wat not, ill handle my bills by myself, if he gives me money to do some stuff,i will take but i wont ask, ill onli ask if i dnt hv d money,and evn den,this rarely happens,
for 5,, yes o!!!he has to call,esp we he wake s up, b4 goin to bed and wen at work, i love calls,

6. Be with me: It’s not just the guys that want sex, we want it too. We also love the feeling of curling up in his arms all night long. We love company, we love knowing he’s there!!

slowie:

I love this post and some of the contributions except the michelle or whatever is her name, she sounds like someone that has experienced series of broken relationships. she is harsh.
Uju: you makes sense.

All those things na just busy body. You fit kill yourself to bath him, wash his clothes, clean his house and the man go still leave you go marry another woman wey nor dey do those things

m-ployer:

You are right, but I wont do that to you.

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Ujujoan:

I insist on the word obliged!! I think the whole point is that you should be willing to make her happy. If that's what she wants, you should be ready to do it.

And yes if you dont, I'll go with someone else, a guy!! Cos if my BF prefers to stay home and plya video game when I need him by my side, then he doesent deserve me does he? Its not just a matter of choice, its a matter of going out of your way for someone.

michelin89:

@Ujujoan

All those things na just busy body. You fit kill yourself to bath him, wash his clothes, clean his house and the man go still leave you go marry another woman wey nor dey do those things.

I fit understand fiances but common boyfriend wey wan turn me to housemaid you dey craze. I won't even even be so jobless as a wife.

Thunder fire your mouth. You know me before?

And why wouldn't she make sense since she is offering to become your housemaid?

Ujujoan:

Do you seriously expect every guy you date to marry you?  

m-ployer:

Dont want a nagging babe, hope you ain't.

Ujujoan:

She's just a baby!

I nor dey call international numbers, sorry

Ujujoan:

Do you seriously expect every guy you date to marry you?