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Ha!

I think men need to understand this - stripping and prostitution is a means to money. Some women enjoy the act, but it's a job like any other.

That's why offering money to make a woman escape the job is offensive to most women who make a good living this way.

Why would she want to swap financial independence to be dependent on a person and feel obligated to them? It is like being a slave, being bought by a man.

If you think you've fallen in love with a sex worker, think again. It's a strip club not POF.

Her words and actions are motivated purely by money. Just like your actions are when you do your job.

There may of course be exceptions.

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foolinlove:
Ha!

I think men need to understand this - stripping and prostitution is a means to money. Some women enjoy the act, but it's a job like any other.

That's why offering money to make a woman escape the job is offensive to most women who make a good living this way.

Why would she want to swap financial independence to be dependent on a person and feel obligated to them? It is like being a slave, being bought by a man.

If you think you've fallen in love with a sex worker, think again. It's a strip club not POF.

Her words and actions are motivated purely by money. Just like your actions are when you do your job.

There may of course be exceptions.

being a stripper/prostitute is one of the worst kind of slavery you can think of.Not only physically but emotionally

WindUpMerchant:
being a stripper/prostitute is one of the worst kind of slavery you can think of.Not only physically but emotionally

I suppose you would know from experience?

Don't assign your prejudices.

It's not slavery because you get paid and have the choice to leave or work at another establishment.

I don't know what emotional slavery is.

foolinlove:


I suppose you would know from experience?

Don't assign your prejudices.

It's not slavery because you get paid and have the choice to leave or work at another establishment.

I don't know what emotional slavery is.

Are you a stripper?

PushPlay:

Are you a stripper?

Not personally. But a few people I know have worked in the sex industry as strippers, prostitutes and dominatrixes. It was very interesting to talk to them. Very enlightening and sometimes really funny, too

foolinlove:


Not personally. But a few people I know have worked in the sex industry as strippers, prostitutes and dominatrixes. It was very interesting to talk to them. Very enlightening and sometimes really funny, too

Hmmm!
Okay, cuz you sound like you're one of them.

foolinlove:


Not personally. But a few people I know have worked in the sex industry as strippers, prostitutes and dominatrixes. It was very interesting to talk to them. Very enlightening and sometimes really funny, too

Lols NL people and lies.

PushPlay:

Hmmm!
Okay, cuz you sound like you're one of them.

I support them. But I don't have the looks or youth required to perform this profession. Maybe I'd give it a go if I were younger, j st to see what it was like.

A lot of the ladies I met were younf single mothers and conventional jobs didn't allow the flexibility and money needed to support their children.

It was really interesting to listen to these women talk about their experiences but I'm not judgemental.

saintdennis:


Lols NL people and lies.

Dominatrix doesn't require sex so is a different type of sex work.

foolinlove:


Dominatrix doesn't require sex so is a different type of sex work.

continue...

saintdennis:


continue...

Dominatrix is when a woman degrades, humiliates and causes physical pain to a man for his sexual satisfaction.

More often than not, this type of work requires no sexual contact, the woman is just mean to the guy and ties him up, whips him, beats him, says mean things, makes him perform humiliating acts like licking her shoes... the dude gets so turned on by this he releases without any conventional sexual stimulation.

Weird, I know. But there is enough of a demand for this that it has become a profession.

foolinlove:


I support them. But I don't have the looks or youth required to perform this profession. Maybe I'd give it a go if I were younger, j st to see what it was like.

A lot of the ladies I met were younf single mothers and conventional jobs didn't allow the flexibility and money needed to support their children.

It was really interesting to listen to these women talk about their experiences but I'm not judgemental.

Hmmm!
Okay.

foolinlove:


Dominatrix is when a woman degrades, humiliates and causes physical pain to a man for his sexual satisfaction.

More often than not, this type of work requires no sexual contact, the woman is just mean to the guy and ties him up, whips him, beats him, says mean things, makes him perform humiliating acts like licking her shoes... the dude gets so turned on by this he releases without any conventional sexual stimulation.

Weird, I know. But there is enough of a demand for this that it has become a profession.

Seems u confusing me with these ignorant NL boys sha...I knew errtin bout S&M way b4 ur cherry got popped.

I also used to have alotta hustlers(even gay hustlers) back in my skul days as friends ... if na naija u dey then u lying about dominatrixes .
Most men as masochists, u jes dey famz dey form say u get girls wey don perform Dominatrix roles.

Continue...

I'm surprised no one's stating the obvious here: La click la enter the industry.

saintdennis:


Seems u confusing me with these ignorant NL boys sha...I knew errtin bout S&M way b4 ur cherry got popped.

I also used to have alotta hustlers(even gay hustlers) back in my skul days as friends ... if na naija u dey then u lying about dominatrixes .
Most men as masochists, u jes dey famz dey form say u get girls wey don perform Dominatrix roles.

Continue...

I'm white. And I don't care about your sexual history, thanks.

foolinlove:


I'm white. And I don't care about your sexual history, thanks.

Whites on NL... ah ya ya.

saintdennis:


Whites on NL... ah ya ya.

Problem with white people?

WindUpMerchant:
being a stripper/prostitute is one of the worst kind of slavery you can think of.Not only physically but emotionally

Well spoken like the ignoramus that u are. If that is so then why do some women enjoy it in some countries? Do u know many european countries have legalized prostitution and the women pay tax? Stripping is not prostitution, two different things.

foolinlove:


I'm white. And I don't care about your sexual history, thanks.

White ?? I wonder why that term.is still being used? U probably mean Caucasian.

drnoel:

White ?? I wonder why that term.is still being used? U probably mean Caucasian.

My skin is white. Accepted term like black.

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cool...hope you reply my PM.not really crazy about looks.you sound interesting

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foolinlove:


I'm white. And I don't care about your sexual history, thanks.

I love this reply.

Just epic.

I hate judgemental people.

This job pays a lot,
There was a time I complained to my friend about my job saying it was too stressful that if she could help me get an easy one with good pay that I won't mind, na so my friend come the next day tell Me say she don see work for us buh as starters #100,000 per week if you see how my jaw drop, I just dey scream, dey tell my colleagues say I don dey go, say make them enjoy the suffer head where dey that place
We met with the young man by a pool, I first think say we go dey teach people how to swim, we now go one bar, na hin I change my mind maybe na this bar we wan dey work
Several things went through my mind, the guy was just beating around the bush, na hin my friend just vex and told him to tell us the name of the job,
Immediately the guy just tell us, I just pack my bag and slippers say ehnnnnn it's high time I left this place
My friend she took the job, saw her few months later looking so fine, I come tell another of my friend, wetin happen she say me be MUMU, not long then after I got admission into uni
Rejecting that job was the best thing that ever happened to me..

foolinlove:


My skin is white. Accepted term like black.

I have followed your post. not literally though. i noticed something different from your way of reasoning compared to other female post i read in this forum. you are not from around here obviously.

foolinlove:


My skin is white. Accepted term like black.

Its a racist term.

ThundrCork:


I have followed your post. not literally though. i noticed something different from your way of reasoning compared to other female post i read in this forum. you are not from around here obviously.

I can think critically. I'm not afraid of showing it, because I don't suffer from the fear that men won't like me.

pheyhi:
This job pays a lot,
There was a time I complained to my friend about my job saying it was too stressful that if she could help me get an easy one with good pay that I won't mind, na so my friend come the next day tell Me say she don see work for us buh as starters #100,000 per week if you see how my jaw drop, I just dey scream, dey tell my colleagues say I don dey go, say make them enjoy the suffer head where dey that place
We met with the young man by a pool, I first think say we go dey teach people how to swim, we now go one bar, na hin I change my mind maybe na this bar we wan dey work
Several things went through my mind, the guy was just beating around the bush, na hin my friend just vex and told him to tell us the name of the job,
Immediately the guy just tell us, I just pack my bag and slippers say ehnnnnn it's high time I left this place
My friend she took the job, saw her few months later looking so fine, I come tell another of my friend, wetin happen she say me be MUMU, not long then after I got admission into uni
Rejecting that job was the best thing that ever happened to me..

Will you do the job if you were offered mask to conceal your identity?