Ladies,do you believe in cooking for your boyfriends?As for me,i do not believe in cooking for my boyfriend until i see an engagement  ring on my finger.Even though he proposes to me,i will only cook for him once in a while until we finally get married.Cos guys are so unpredictable.What do you think?

hmmmmm so u r the one my gf just met recently?

selena:

Ladies,do you believe in cooking for your boyfriends?As for me,i do not believe in cooking for my boyfriend until i see an engagement ring on my finger.Even though he proposes to me,i will only cook for him once in a while until we finally get married.Cos guys are so unpredictable.What do you think?

LOL

I do not believe in dating someone like u

@ whitelexi.HATER

selena:

@ whitelexi.HATER

Yeah yeah, WATEVA!!!

scottN:

hmmmmm so u r the one my gf just met recently?

LOL
i guess after that meeting your GF stop cooking for U,

Not really but she has reduced the frequency she cooks for me in a week

Hmmm. I really don't see it as a big deal. The only time I would see it as a big deal is when I don't get a THANK YOU or WELL DONE. He's is sure going to be in trouble for that.

selena:

Ladies,do you believe in cooking for your boyfriends?[b]As for me,i do not believe in cooking for my boyfriend until i see an engagement  ring on my finger.Even though he proposes to me,i will only cook for him once in a while until we finally get married.[/b]Cos guys are so unpredictable.What do you think?

U are on a long thing!

Wow. . . is it that big of a deal? At the end of the day you'll also eat the food.

It shouldn't be something you think too much about before doing. If u have the money or ingredients to cook the food and time then by all means go for it. He will appreciate it. U can also think of it as a means to show off ur cooking skills, or an opportunity to perfect ur skills.

Is ur bf so bad that u don't even want to feed him? ? ? I really don't get this!

she's playing it safe,

When I am in a relationship I always cook, its not a big deal for me. Its nice for a guy to cook sometimes too but it doesn't really bother me. I am used to cooking for myself one extra mouth won't make too much work cause I usually cook for a couple of days at a time anyway. No big deal.

My advise is for the GF not to show too much of her qualities during relationship  period: be it cooking, washing etc,

So that the Man can truly decide to marry you for whom you really are and also enjoy you more when he notice you have better to offer after marriage!

Its would not be funny to fimd out that you have no new thing ( ie HIM don see u finish) to offer after u are married,

But you are willing to sleep with him before marriage? What's with the cooking? Pride?

Poster

I totally agree with you, cookin, cleanin is all wifey stuff. As a girlfriend im in it for the fun/sex.

@ poster when you refer to guys being unpredictable, is that in terms of leaving for other girls, cos i dot think cooking has got anything to do with that, cooking is not going to enhance or a lack of it will not diminish a relationship, if he likes u i dont thik he would mind if you cooked or not

but at the same time waiting for an engagement ring just sounds silly, because ring or no ring guys can still leave shit happens in life so cooking lol

I will cook for him but he shouldnt make me a housemaid and should help out as well.

chaircover:

The big deal will be if he refuses to lift a finger while you are running around like a headless chicken in the kitchen and he hasn't the courtesy to say thank you when you place the meal in front of him

!!!

Ujujoan:

But you are willing to sleep with him before marriage? What's with the cooking? Pride?

ditto

Na una mate dey cook soup and stew for guys over here for cash, £50 a pot for the cooking alone oh, na we dey buy ingredients!

roflmao!!! Oh my days. . . . . this is not a big deal AT ALL. . . . . more like a recipe for sending your man to another womans house to chop food (if he can't cook). luckily for me, mine knows how to cook as well. . . . . however, if I'm done cooking, he go put apron and wash plate.

selena:

Ladies,do you believe in cooking for your boyfriends?As for me,i do not believe in cooking for my boyfriend until i see an engagement  ring on my finger.Even though he proposes to me,i will only cook for him once in a while until we finally get married.Cos guys are so unpredictable.What do you think?

sit down there I bet one day he will meet a girl dat cooks a lot and beta dan u (snail, efo & so on lol) den u will b dusted even d ring u r waiting for u won't see

whitelexi:

Na una mate dey cook soup and stew for guys over here for cash, £50 a pot for the cooking alone oh, na we dey buy ingredients!

Poster thanks for this thread, I asked my gf the same question, and she said she can never cook for any boyfriend unless she is married. I tire for that kind mentality, whereas other girls derive pleasures in cooking for their bf, maybe na those ones wey dey wash that thing cook for us.

Nothing wrong with cooking for my bf but he should not demand it as his right. I hate to cook but I do it for my guy anyway, there are other things he does for me as well.

follypimpi:

Thank God we can cook,we no need una cookin sef.

I cook very well, but sometimes i dont wanna eat my own cooking. . . I want something different

Come to think of it, I think I get the gist of what the poster is getting at . . . . . especially where some guys 'expect' it and they are not even engaged or married. Some guys get soo used to their girl cooking that they sly-ly stop taking them out to dinner etc, and even at the end of the day they still don't end up marrying them, but really it isn't a big deal as long as you're not seen as house girl or he doesn't lift a finger as someone rightly said earlier.  

dont really care if she cooks or not, as long as i can bang her, am sorted, you get me