curvysola:
mine! the guy was always accusing me of cheating! any call i receive am a cheat! i come late am cheating! i forget about something am cheating was really bad! painful part was that he was a boring person but i really loved him so i managed till i met my present and i left his lame sorry ass!

halfricanadian:
i just got out of one terrible painful exhausting

But hey i dodged a bullet ni o praise the lord

Thats my testimony

LordofNairaland:

halfricanadian:

Ok

LordofNairaland:


Ever been in an abusive relationship?

halfricanadian:

Yes a painful one very painful

LordofNairaland:


Kai. Take care, dear. Mine was really terrible too. A possessive partner?

LordofNairaland:


Nawa o.

Must have been seriously tiring. As for me, no relationship for now. So scared to enter into another.

halfricanadian:

May b all i ever wanted was sincere true lovw
I never got it
Tanx

LordofNairaland:


Sorry to hear that. I hope you don't regret leaving?

NiGeRianTr0ll:


Why OAU of all schools

Change your moniker to pvssyofNL...a girl bullied you LMFAO

LordofNairaland:
I come from Anguilla but I came to Nigeria to school at OAU, Ife. I fell in love with a girl and we started a relationship that was so abusive that I had to quit after two years.

During this period, I couldn't keep a friend (male or female) because Miss wanted all the attention. I was studying medicine but she wouldn't understand that I needed space to read. I liked to stroll (alone) in the evening to clear my head but Miss always insisteld to follow me and she always had her way because she would scream and be unreasonable.

Every argument always ended up in a fight and when I noticed she always wanted to win all argument, I avoided arguments. She hated Muslims, criticized me for being a traditionalist (even though I told her before the relationship became more serious) and was very troublesome. She once insulted a girl on FB for daring to call me "Dear" while wishing me a happy birthday.

I couldn't pick what to wear. She always picked for me. I am a very simple person who liked to wear clothes that I find comfortable. She wanted me to wear suits and ties and jalamia in the heat.

She was very nice to me and very hardworking but she was trouble. Most of her demands were unreasonable. There were neighbours I couldn't greet and neighbours I could greet.

So many other terrible issues. I am so grateful to be free from her. Who else has stories similar to mine.

halfricanadian:


Dont kno bou dat d pain is too mch to stay

LordofNairaland:


Don't worry, you will get over it. It takes courage to say enough and courage to find your feet again. I know you will. You strike me as a woman who can take care of herself. A strong woman.

FinestPINACLE:
as a medical student who shld be studying, wat at thou doing on Nl

halfricanadian:

I hope so tanx

LordofNairaland:


Kai, I was just remembering those days. I am a doctor now. Actually, I am a psychiatrist.

I was a medical student back then. Was a nerd but then I got to school and fell...

FinestPINACLE:
Nice. you miss her don't u If u don't, u wldnt remember her sotey u create thread

LordofNairaland:


Honestly, remembering her makes me happy. I do not regret. I feel so free.

Ever been in an abusive relationship?

FinestPINACLE:
lol... Kinda, d dude hits me and says he is moulding me to be his wife. I grew up and kicked his silly arse.

LordofNairaland:


Good!! Everyone has a fault but when somebody is always trying to change your faults while blind to theirs, then, there would be trouble.

I have noticed one thing with abusive people. In all my life as a psychiatrist who has a solid background in psychology, abusive people always look for whom to blame for their shortcomings. So, if you are unlucky to get into a relationship with someone with complex issues, you will always get the blames. They never take blames.

sinaj:
lol true

Mr psychiatrist.

I did my intern there nd I njoyed every minute I spent there, it's quite an interesting course

LordofNairaland:


Wow!! What is your academic discipline?

sinaj:
Psychology

LordofNairaland:


Sango o! That was really abusive.

FinestPINACLE:
lol... Was still Ada is a girl then.

LordofNairaland:


Sorry about the late response.

Psychology. Reminds me of neurons and nerve impulses.