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Re: I'm Heart Broken by DeepSoul(f): 12:01pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
ebila: So some people actually think it's a poem?? Those were my exact thots and feelings as at when I posted it. I sort of write as a hobby and I'm pretty good at it. Mayb thats why it came out that way. But no, it isnt a poem. Not even close Yes I agree. Love will definitely mean more |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 12:05pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Deep Soul: DeepSoul, i no dey harangue Uju. Infact, i think she is about the only sane chick on Nairaland. |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 12:06pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
OMO IBO: Well, if you dont expect too much, you can hardly get dissapointed can you? Something'll give, but you no longer think he's above doing the usual thing like . . . cheating. So when he does it, it dosent come as a shock to you! And please how's my post hypocritical? I know I say a lot of things on NL, but sometimes I say things just for the fun of it. If you want to know the kind of person I am, that'd be impossible to tell on NL. But like I said, I dont expect much from guys and I mean that! I do love men . . I see them as necessary evils!! Bashing guys is not my part-time job, its my hobby!! |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by ebila(m): 12:08pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Deep Soul:Well,it sorta like came out like a poem.I like d lines,they r well poetically contruted.I write too dat's y i found it quite catchy! |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by 55gal(m): 12:10pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
I HAVE A COMPLETE SOLUTION TO YOUR PROBLEM OF BEING HEART BROKEN. I WAS LIKE U BEFORE.I ONCE PUT ALL MY HOPE ON MY GIRL,BUT SHE DISSAPOINTED ME. THE LIST ARE NUMEROUS. THE LAST ONE 2 MONTHS BACK DID IT AGAIN. BUT SOLUTION CAME THROUGH KNOWLEDGE, I MET A FRIEND WHH PUT ME THROUGH AND AFTER 3 WEEKS SHE CAME BEGGING. your girl wiil come again!believe me.reach me trulyelvis@yahoo.com.i am willing to help u out. |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 12:15pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Ujujoan:Do u mind telling us the real reason your last relationship ended? I believe there's more to what u told us. And please how's my post hypocritical? I know I say a lot of things on NL, but sometimes I say things just for the fun of it. If you want to know the kind of person I am, that'd be impossible to tell on NL.kai, You dont want us to start digging out posts. . . .do you? But like I said, I dont expect much from guys and I mean that!i guess this is relative. what is you perceive as 'minor' is 'major' to someone else. so i'll let this slide. I do love men . . I see them as necessary evils!! Bashing guys is not my part-time job, its my hobby!!at least we agree on something |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 12:16pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Deep Soul: Well, I really don't care anymore. I'll marry a man I respect, have my kids and live my life to the fullest and I'll love my family . . . I think that's enough! I read your story and I like said, its just disspointing to see that despite how much he claims to love you, he can still look you in the eye and say those things you could never say to him . . . . that's why you should never expect him to be any different from the others, just because he says he loves you! I'm sorry for being so negative, but I really believe true love has certain standards, and I'd rather date a guy that dosen't love me than a guy that claims he does, cos in the end, they are all the same!! OMO IBO: Chick |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by follypimpi(m): 12:21pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
@Poster/Uju What i wanna know is if a relationship is not working right do u expect 1 to stay in it just cos u dont wanna hurt the other party or move on regardless of the love u hve for the girl,cos @ the end of the day we are all selfish. |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by posakosa(m): 12:27pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
follypimpi: Absolutely valid point. For me sha, moving on is not the issue. Its more of the manner in which the person breaks up with you. Is it with dignity and respect ? I think someone here said it best a while ago: the person doing the break up has in most cases, already moved on in thier hearts before they break up physically with the other person, so they are already prepared. The one who receives the break up news is always hardly prepared in most cases, Now both parties always know when the relationship is NOT working, the problem is that one party always thinks that they can work things out, |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 12:31pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
OMO IBO: I walked out of my last relationship because I didn't think it was worth the whole wahala. I never really loved the guy anyway! What I was telling Deep soul about didn't happen in my last r/ship but you honestly don't expect me to start spilling my guts here do you? And yes, we do agree on one thing, I looove bashing guys! |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by DeepSoul(f): 12:33pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
posakosa: Well said |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 12:33pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
hugs poster Time is the best healer |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by DeepSoul(f): 12:35pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Awww 10x Ebony Eyes |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by follypimpi(m): 12:37pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
posakosa: Dignity or Respect,the breakee won't see none of that while he/she's still hurting,nothing make sense to u @ that point and one seems completely blind to the other parties reason for breaking up. |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 12:39pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
follypimpi: I dont know what you are talking about but I dont expect a guy to date me when he's not 100% he really wants to be with me. Like I said, its the way you go about it that matters. You dont love someone and then turn around and say its not working for no reason at all. That's not love to me!! The truth is that people use the word love to sugar coat what they are doing and try to patrionize you when its obvious they couldn't have cared less. Love is one thing that is not selfish. Kings have been known to give up their throne for love!! What part of that is selfish? 'I love you' is the easiest thing a man/woman can say, but if you know what that means, you'll realize that it's more than just words! |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 12:39pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Ujujoan:hmmmmmm I thought it was something else Anyways, so, you had no feelings for the guy yet to went into the relationship?? I bet you've used a few choice words against guys who went into relationships just to have sex. What I was telling Deep soul about didn't happen in my last r/ship but you honestly don't expect me to start spilling my guts here do you?Make we go outside? ChickOk, swap it for babe, woman, etc etc anything . . . |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 12:43pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Uju, i don catch you. I dont know what you are talking about but I dont expect a guy to date me when he's not 100% he really wants to be with me. Like I said, its the way you go about it that matters. I walked out of my last relationship because I didn't think it was worth the whole wahala. I never really loved the guy anyway! Abeg, reconcile those comments. |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by follypimpi(m): 12:45pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Ujujoan: So if i get u right u have problems with both MEN/WOMEN saying I love u when they dont mean it,so hence they move on from the relationship cos Love never existed in the 1st place . |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 12:48pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
follypimpi: Well that's only true if he dosen't try to put the whole balme on her! I mean he's the one saying its not working, why pass the bulk? OMO IBO: At least he knew why I was going into the relationship and I didnt try to sugar-coat it with love!! |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by follypimpi(m): 12:52pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Ujujoan: U make me laff The Fact remains for a relationship to work it tkes 2 both parties is got to blv in each other,This is real life not Orlando bloom in troy. |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 12:56pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
OMO IBO: How I walked out of the relationship cos it wasn't worth it. If a guy thinks the r/ship is not working, I wont blame him if he leaves. I can't deal with a guy that claims he loves me cheating on me, even if it's 'by mistake!!' follypimpi: Yes! Personally I dont beleive true love ever 'expires'. |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by follypimpi(m): 1:00pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Ujujoan: If we MEN use the line babe it's not u,it's ME we get cursed,IF we blame it on the girl we still get cruxified.I can assure u there's absolutely no gud way of breaking up,face it. Ujujoan: If we are upfront that we are in it for sex na wahala,If we lie about Love nah die.I don tire ooo |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 1:05pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Ujujoan, there are just too many loopholes in your ideology of a (loving) relationship. Disecting and reconciling them will only leave an even bigger big gash. |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 1:11pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
follypimpi: That's not true. I don't need a fairytale to tell me that true love is never selfish. How do you belive in someone when you are only thinking about yourself? Think of how perfect your r/ship will be if all you ever want to do is to make your GF happy and all she ever wants to do is to make you happy! follypimpi: LOL ! You are very funny!! I disagree with you, there's a good way of breaking up!! But it takes maturity for someone to do it. I've broken up with people before, some took it badly while some understood, but my consience is clear cos I know I did the right thing. So you still tell a girl you love her just to have sex wiv her? How old are you sef? |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 1:14pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
OMO IBO: |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 1:18pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Wey DeepSoul, DeepSoul, wetin this your guy do you? Make you come start to bash all of us for the sin of one person. |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 1:19pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
@ Follypimpi http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edward_VIII_abdication_crisis That's not Troy, That's real life!! |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 1:24pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
OMO IBO: LOL But seriously, are you saying guys dont deserve the prejudice they get from women?? |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by follypimpi(m): 1:24pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Ujujoan: Now we are arriving somewhere,u can't forsee how the other party is gna tke it be it understanding or not,regardless of how matured u go about it.The whole idea of your conscience being clear is highly over rated. Who on earth does that,Sex is too cheap to propose Love b4 they open up like a BOOK,am only being sarcastic. |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by follypimpi(m): 1:26pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Ujujoan: 1936 Babe the world has changed as well as the people in it both men and women,thats a 1 off,there was no recession then . |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 1:33pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
Ujujoan: Why question is why go on thumping something that is dead? There are women that are guilty of the same sin you accuse guys of but you don't hear us create a storm in a tea cup about it. You lot need to get a grip of your emotions and maybe blame yourselves when it goes wrong. |
Re: I'm Heart Broken by Nobody: 1:34pm On Sep 23, 2009 |
follypimpi: I dont think its over rated. Doing the right thing is much more important than any other thing. I agree you cant force love. You cant just love a girl, just because she loves you. But if you love her, and she loves you, you should be willing to go that extra mile! follypimpi: you are impossible! |
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