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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 5:04pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
hw old re u again?
u have to be preteen to spit out this degree of delusion.
What type of men would an average woman fantacize about, on daily basis. Oshiomhole? Obj?

U are just not mature if u rely on money to earn u a woman. Thats utterly a stupïd way to live.

Tah!

You are not sincere with your comment. You know deep down within you that you are after the money and not after the look.

Mitcheew

You Have even given a perfect example. See the case of oshiomhole and his new wife.

All the guys here know you are a bloody liar. With money, we can get any woman we like. Women are commodities that can be purchased with money.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by torqque7(m): 5:06pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
Change things for women? lol i er swear u dont know nothing.
Wake up, women are looking elsewhere...

:oReally but I am enjoying my sleep and dn't want to wake up. Hmm your husband must never see this thread o.

Anyway if you marry for genuine love and not money or material things,trust me you'll find it very difficult to cheat. Btw hope you know two can play at that game?
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 5:06pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
If all men are the same
It means men cheat or have cheated or would at some point cheat on their partners, tho not at "the same degree"

If i may ask, would looking at a man lustfully count as cheating?

If you admire him , why the hell not.

It's a known fact that you'd find other men attractive besides your hubby.

What would be termed as cheating is when you initiate communication without his knowledge or try to hide such from him.
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Thiwalade(m): 5:08pm On Aug 08, 2016
smileysmiley:
of course darling
Thanks heart...
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LuvU2(f): 5:09pm On Aug 08, 2016
TheModsAreMad:


Tah!

You are not sincere with your comment. You know deep down within you that you are after the money and not after the look.

Mitcheew

You Have even given a perfect example. See the case of oshiomhole and her new wife.

All the guys here know you are a bloody liar. With money, we can get any woman we like. Women are just like a commodity that can be purchased with money.


Ok women will stay with your type and still cheat on u with a fine ass man. I hope u are ok with that? smiley

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LordScent(m): 5:10pm On Aug 08, 2016


Op looks does count, but lotta girls care less 'bou it as far as there is MANI cheesy

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LuvU2(f): 5:12pm On Aug 08, 2016
schumastic:


maybe cus i have always hold u in high esteem but this thread just ** le me don't say.just do what makes you happy, i just hope you don't regret it even though i have a feeling you are only saying this just to see people's reaction
embarassedembarassed
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 5:15pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
Ok women will stay with your type and still cheat on u with a fine ass man. I hope u are ok with that? smiley

Nah, it's only an irresponsible woman that will do that.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LuvU2(f): 5:15pm On Aug 08, 2016
torqque7:


:oReally but I am enjoying my sleep and dn't want to wake up. Hmm your husband must never see this thread o.

Anyway if you marry for genuine love and not money or material things,trust me you'll find it very difficult to cheat. Btw hope you know two can play at that game?
Love is not the only thing that keeps a marriage Love matters at first but other things wld come to play down the line. Are u a learner? smiley

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 5:15pm On Aug 08, 2016
Funny post!!

if the girl is beautiful of cos thats cause for concern when he starts being careless about his looks

but if the OP is talking about herself cheesy cheesy cheesy

she should be MORE worried about the guy leaving her!

since when do slim,ugly girls start having RIGHTS undecided undecided undecided

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LuvU2(f): 5:19pm On Aug 08, 2016
LordScent:


Op looks does count, but lotta girls care less 'bou it as far as there is MANI cheesy

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grin u dont want ur woman wanting to be in bed with another man. You dont want a woman to messilessly refer u as a dead body in love making. How do u treat ur ego after hearing that?

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LuvU2(f): 5:20pm On Aug 08, 2016
TheModsAreMad:


Nah, it's only an irresponsible woman that will do that.
Lmao! grin Learner

Pushplay so ya saying all men cheat

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LuvU2(f): 5:21pm On Aug 08, 2016
2BB4CB3E:
Funny post!!

if the girl is beautiful of cos thats cause for concern when he starts being careless about his looks

but if the OP is talking about herself cheesy cheesy cheesy

she should be MORE worried about the guy leaving her!

since when do slim,ugly girls start having RIGHTS undecided undecided undecided
undecidedundecided
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by JustHere2Observ(f): 5:22pm On Aug 08, 2016
A guy will post a thread on how he can't stand it if his wife gains weight after having kids, will say how women with stretch marks are disgusting and should be cheated on. They post this all the time shaming women and saying they will cheat on her if she lets her body go and he will get support from other guys.
But a lady saying she will cheat on a man who doesn't care for his looks is an olosho? Where is the justice?

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by torqque7(m): 5:28pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
Love is not the only thing that keeps a marriage Love matters at first but other things wld come to play down the line. Are u a learner? smiley

Hmm no doubt love is never enough for a successful marriage but it counts big time hun..I am a learner pls school me,see her small head there lol.

Makes me wonder what the the world will be like if every woman agrees with this your ideology. Godforbid bad thing,oya come let me pray for you so you can change your mind about cheating.
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LordScent(m): 5:29pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
grin u dont want ur woman wanting to be in bed with another man. You dont want a woman to messilessly refer u as a dead body in love making. How do u treat ur ego after hearing that?





I treat it with my ATM card..Kappisshh

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Alaanyihaji(m): 5:29pm On Aug 08, 2016
Thank you dear, you're just being frank. Same way pot bellied spouse is a bore on the bed, and that's a big and hard to resist temptation. The holier than thou may not understand. But that's the bitter truth. Even the bible says bodily exercise profiteth a little. In marriage and physical fitness, that little is significant.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 5:33pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
Lmao! grin Learner

Pushplay so ya saying all men cheat

In the wrong place at the wrong time. yes any man would likely cheat.

Especially if he doesn't get enough attention from his spouse. Doesn't mean he doesn't love his partner.
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LuvU2(f): 5:35pm On Aug 08, 2016
JustHere2Observ:
A guy will post a thread on how he can't stand it if his wife gains weight after having kids, will say how women with stretch marks are disgusting and should be cheated on. They post this all the time shaming women and saying they will cheat on her if she lets her body go and he will get support from other guys.
But a lady saying she will cheat on a man who doesn't care for his looks is an olosho? Where is the justice?
Thank u darl.
That's the world we living in, that's why i dont blame feminists most times. The world was "man-structured" to our disfavour.
I express myself as a woman, i get a negative tag immediately. Lol. Let's see who wins at the end

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LuvU2(f): 5:37pm On Aug 08, 2016
Alaanyihaji:
Thank you dear, you're just being frank. Same way pot bellied spouse is a bore on the bed, and that's a big and hard to resist temptation. The holier than thou may not understand. But that's the bitter truth. Even the bible says bodily exercise profiteth a little. In marriage and physical fitness, that little is significant.
Wow cheesy U garrit wink

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by torqque7(m): 5:37pm On Aug 08, 2016
JustHere2Observ:
A guy will post a thread on how he can't stand it if his wife gains weight after having kids, will say how women with stretch marks are disgusting and should be cheated on. They post this all the time shaming women and saying they will cheat on her if she lets her body go and he will get support from other guys.
But a lady saying she will cheat on a man who doesn't care for his looks is an olosho? Where is the justice?

No not every guy will cheat on his wife when her body starts changing after child birth,by the way it's not like guys encourage cheating,we dont because it is wrong but your culture frowns on women cheating on their husbands and that's how it will always be, it's not a court so dn't expect justice dear.

Somethings are just the way they are and can't be changed,its just like saying why is there lifeform on earth and there is none on the moon,where is the justice?
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by schumastic(m): 5:38pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
embarassedembarassed

no need to get upset, just change your belief that's all or better still, try not to make people get a wrong impression about you..aii take care then

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 5:38pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
Lmao! grin Learner

Pushplay so ya saying all men cheat

Well, i don't know what you mean by that as it doesn't correlate with my initial response.

Back to the issue on ground. Let me give you more proofs.

See the case of the ugliest man in Uganda. He is currently with his second wife, he divorced the first one and married another one.

You need to see how ugly he his. Infact he looks scary, yet he is changing women like changing clothes. Because he has the money.

Let me tell you something, women are not wired to be sexually aroused/attracted by what they see, unless for maybe nymphomaniacs. It's only men that are wired that way.

I don't think i should be telling you this since you are a woman. Unless you are a dude impersonating a lady on this forum and I'm beginning to suspect you.

I still insist, women are commodities that can be purchased with money. Guys are much wiser now and are not spending too much of their time in looking good or acquiring six packs instead they use that time to make money.

Once you have the money, it doesn't matter how old you are (i have seen 70yr old man marrying a very young lady in her mid twenties)

See the case of Alaafin of oyo. So age doesn't matter. And how you look doesn't matter either. See case of the ugliest man in Uganda.

All what matters is the money!

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Kakamorufu(m): 5:38pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
If wanting ur own man too look good and stay fit equals oloshoing. Well, i am a proud olosho then undecided
ehn ehn. Keep it up then.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LuvU2(f): 5:38pm On Aug 08, 2016
PushPlay:


In the wrong place at the wrong time. yes any man would likely cheat.

Especially if he doesn't get enough attention from his spouse. Doesn't mean he doesn't love his partner.
Exactly, i cheat doesnt mean i dont love my partner.

Lol, i dont agree all men cheat tho.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by torqque7(m): 5:42pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:

Thank u darl.
That's the world we living in, that's why i dont blame feminists most times. The world was "man-structured" to our disfavour.
I express myself as a woman, i get a negative tag immediately. Lol. Let's see who wins at the end

Lol so you've turned it into a competition now to see who wins in the end?hahahahaha women ehnn na wah o. But you guys win in every other thing now so why won't you chill for us a lil on this one?
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by danieljessy: 5:43pm On Aug 08, 2016
My dear cheat al u want if ur disgusted with is luks,buh i tell u their are some ladies wu wil gladly accept him afteral(1 woman's poison is anoda woman's food)..so wen he cheats 2,ur marriage bcums a miserable one

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 5:44pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
Exactly, i cheat doesnt mean i dont love my partner.

Lol, i dont agree all men cheat tho.


Mr neither. cheesy

Just don't get him into such circumstance like not paying attention to hod needs. tongue
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LuvU2(f): 5:49pm On Aug 08, 2016
TheModsAreMad:


Well, i don't know what you mean by that as it doesn't correlate with my initial response.

Back to the issue on ground. Let me give you more proofs.

See the case of the ugliest man in Uganda. He is currently with his second wife, he divorced the first one and married another one.

You need to see how ugly he his. Infact he looks scary, yet he is changing women like changing clothes. Because he has the money.

Let me tell you something, women are not wired to be sexually aroused/moved by what they see, unless for maybe nymphomaniacs. It's only men that are wired that way.

I don't think i should be telling you this since you are a woman. Unless you are a dude impersonating a lady on this forum and I'm beginning to suspect you.

I still insist, women are commodities that can be purchased with money. Guys are much wiser now and are not spending too much of their time in looking good or acquiring six packs instead they use that time to make money.

Once you have the money, it doesn't matter how old you are (i have seen 70yr old man marrying a very young lady in her mid twenties)

See the case of Alaafin of oyo. So age doesn't matter. And how you look doesn't matter either. See case of the ugliest man in Uganda.

All what matters is the money!
shocked Nowstop right there.
If u going in to marriage with this mindset, that another thing, outside of u is capable of earning u a woman or her love, u are on a downward spiral and u know where to? failure

U dont tell me what i shd want baby. I want security, physical, financial, spiritual..u just name it. I also want utmost sexual satisfaction. I want someone who can make me fling myself on him. I want a man who i can hold and not want to let go. I want a man i can parade and not be ashamed of. If i can give him my best, why cant he?

Why so selfish?

If money can get u a woman it cant stop her from bedding another man instanta.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LuvU2(f): 5:54pm On Aug 08, 2016
PushPlay:



Mr neither. cheesy

Just don't get him into such circumstance like not paying attention to hod needs. tongue
urm ok grin
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by LuvU2(f): 5:55pm On Aug 08, 2016
torqque7:


Lol so you've turned it into a competition now to see who wins in the end?hahahahaha women ehnn na wah o. But you guys win in every other thing now so why won't you chill for us a lil on this one?
Lol joker
Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 5:56pm On Aug 08, 2016
LuvU2:
shocked Nowstop right there.
If u going in to marriage with this mindset, that another thing, outside of u is capable of earning u a woman or her love, u are on a downward spiral and u know where to? failure

U dont tell me what i shd want baby. I want security, physical, financial, spiritual..u just name it. I also want utmost sexual satisfaction. I want someone who can make me fling myself on him. I want a man who i can hold and not want to let go. I want a man i can parade and not be ashamed of. If i can give him my best, why cant he?

Why so selfish?

If money can get u a woman it cant stop her from bedding another man instanta.



You know what?

I will stop replying you. You have been busted! You are a dude.

Yes, it's very obvious you are a dude hiding behind that moniker. You better remove the picture of that lady you are impersonating.

Dude stop being fake!

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