I feel is suspicion. Guys always feels there is some thing more to it. If he has Mooney, he thinks is cos of it. If he is handsome or from a rich home, same. For most ladies too, they are also too in secure, especially if the guy isn't too forward. (Most guys know exactly what they want(95% are what they can see, trust me). At such point, the lady begins to feel used or neglected cos she had formatted to her taste the whole relationship even before it began. When d guy is not playing out her pre supposed role, she becomes frustrated, most times, give up.
I think dat if a guy match what u can cope with: career, lifestyle, personality,etc it means the foundation is okay, he will surely come around, with time

I think only self esteemed guys take offence in a girl approaching them.Have had my own fair share of ladies making the first move and I kick it off with those I like and friendzone the ones I don't like.

And p.s,I don't claim to be a fineboy before people start attacking me.

Well, when u have experienced some girls coming close to you cos of what u have to offer, you find it hard to believe when someone comes close to you with honesty. I currently in a situation like that. pesn just need to check the tru motives before moving anythin forward. shikena!