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Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Feanah(f): 11:14pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
The women insulting OP, I just pray & pray & pray you get someone like this to stay with,then we'll see whether or not their attitude will annoy you. OP jare don't mind the ones insulting you,just treat him as nice as you would a brother ;I understand how you feel,especially him dropping the plate he ate with when you're washing..so disrespectful.Sit him down and explain the daily chores you expect him to do , if he doesn't listen ...sit him down with your husband and talk to him again. We've someone living with us too,infact my mum was the person who brought him,he wanted to do the same o but when he realized my mum wouldn't take it from him,he pulled himself together.We live peacefully together and he does his daily chores like he should. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by dprof2016: 11:14pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
If he is nt doing houz chores,u shld abandon dem den, dnt do dem b'cox he dnt wants 2 help let's c hu wil get divorce amongst u 2.I dunno d problem wit al dese modern wives,if he z ur relative would u ve cum here 2 say al dese abt him? |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 11:17pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
See attacking |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by paragon40(m): 11:19pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
lolaluv1:hahaha this got me cracking (soup has finished again, but i just bought milk) damn funny. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 11:19pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
I never esperred it |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 11:19pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
ststyreal: See this woman ooo.....Na you get your house....yan yan yan yan yan ..since the husband that brought him isn't complaining....wetin be your own....because say ur family dey feed am now...e gaz turn house help.....ure very funny....no be by force nao...the only person that has the right to compel him to do anything is the husband...and since the husband decides to say nothing ...he's cool with the guy. ...if her body dey hot make she jump enta pool. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Adex097: 11:20pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Aunty Rose, why not meet me personally and pour out your mind instead of tabling my matter before Nairaland . Anyways, ah wee start packing my things first thing tomorrow morning . I thank you and uncle for the hospitality. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Feanah(f): 11:21pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
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Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by iWise(m): 11:22pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
The OP appears to be an easy going person, who abhors confrontation. From the little info available, the guy knows this and is foolishly taking advantage of her "niceness". Under the given circumstances, the best person to solve this problem is the lady's husband, not her. Because that dude has no respect for her and any confrontation between her and the dude can get ugly very quickly. Madam, if your husband can afford to pay the dude's house rent for a couple of semesters, I suggest you try to convince him to do so. No point getting all worked up over his lazy ass. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Frankicent(m): 11:23pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
his is name Maxwell or Chukwuyem |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by lordkhalifa(m): 11:28pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Rossy99:op u want advice right used this snipper if u were caught in the act, blame bughari
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Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 11:28pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
''A goalkeeper's saves is not counted rather the missed is counted''op you'r sounding like as if there is no single contribtion from him. A single flaw of him can be corrected maturely and not making the little one obvious. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Calebosko(m): 11:28pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Rossy99: |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Calebosko(m): 11:29pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Rossy99:woman,i understand what ur goin tru,av been tru it before,mine was my workplace asking me to permit him to stay with me,he knws that if i send him away,they wil tag me a bad person,n i deal with him with a political mind,what u wil do is to make d house uncomfortable to him on a polite way,politicaly,or u ask ur husband to marry him,who knws ur huby might be gay,if he is not a gay,he wil realy felt ur absent and tink twice,remember d rule"be nice to those who are nice to u"fight ur fears,dnt mind what people think if ur not comfortable with somthing |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by yeyeboi(m): 11:29pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Tel the boy to come and explain his own side of this matter una go see sey him own yannings go different 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by stuntman007: 11:39pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
greatgod2012: My dear, I don't know what your brand of drink is, pls go to the nearest bar and order. I promise to pay. You are so mature with your advice and it shows you are a good WIFE material. 100yards!!! |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by JayJustus(m): 11:40pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
SOLUTION nobody should live in your matrimonial home...be it from either the man or womans side...they tend to cause katakata one way or the other...live as a nuclear family!!! this bullshyte is how I solved most issues in our house...keep all relatives distant and watch peace RETURN... it's not rocket science it's MAGIC... 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by bikefab(m): 11:41pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Get a househelp...gaskia! |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by nuelzz04(m): 11:42pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
fellis:u r very quick to judge ....der r always 3 sides to a story her side ...his side n d truth ....u heard one side n u passed judgment |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by blackpanther25(m): 11:42pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
dprof2016: This has nothing to do with modernity. He has been given free accomodation and food and he can at least clean up after himself. If he was at hostel who would be washing his plate and fetching water for him? Is the women is wife or age mate that he feels entitled to same benefits? Honestly am not one for nonsense. If someone was behaving that way in my house and after speaking to him, there was still no difference then he needs to gp and stay in hostel. When you are living with some one else you generally go out of your way to not make them get fed up with you and if a simple thing like cleaning after yourself is too hard then i really don't know. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by ststyreal(f): 11:45pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Freiden:Taaaaaa! Forget that thing. Which husband get only the right? Wetin be marriage? It simply means 1+1 equals to one. God forbid make I marry another person husband, as far as say na my husband I marry, na wetin I like, him go follow me like and na so e go be for him own case too. A total stranger no go come inconvenience me for my house and u say make I swallow am, na lie, e no fit work. Na my house him come and since wey him no wan behave himself then, i go show am the way. Bible say anything wey go hinder you from entering the kingdom of God, make you cut am throw way. So my brother, don't let us drag this issue, am honestly stating what I would do, even though I fervently pray not to experience such in my home but peace is paramount for a fruitful and a happy family and whatever that would hinder such should be jointly dealt with by the couple. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by nwamehn: 11:46pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Op, in order to stop appearing like the bad one as u claimed here, just ask ur husband that u need a house help to be helping out in the chores so that u won't have to mind whether the stupid boy sweeps house or washes plates or not. As for his complaint about food not being enough, pls, if the money is there, always dish out enough food for him, God has a reason for placing u in the position that u would be able to help people. Don't just mind the boy so that u won't start having issues with ur husband for no meaningful reason as u claimed. Leave him, he never see anything for this life. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Feanah(f): 11:47pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
delishpot:As in,you know this. The way some people reply to posts,You'll think they're 11 or 12...very immature and insensitive 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by lolaluv1(f): 11:47pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
paragon40: But you know it is true. But nobody wants to talk about it. It is the woman's own people always talk about.... |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Sankabson(m): 11:47pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Oh Allah, Please bless me so I can take good care of my family. So my family won't stay with this kind of people for any reason. Op, You need to get a maid. And for those advising you wrongly, I bet most them are still living with their parents or just finished Uni. They have little or no experience of life. Sanusi. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Feanah(f): 11:48pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
bikefab:That's if the husband can afford getting one now |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Organs(m): 11:49pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: Rossy99 do not listen to "crazyquinn" oh?? She is crazy already and no condition is permanent Be nice to him do your part, its not forever and we are only hearing your part. I also lived with people growing up at some point and some were like Crazyquinn, unnecessarily mean, now i send the family $$ and the wife is always ashamed cos she sabi as she treat me back then, but i am not bothered, it was good training, i survived, the husband was an excellent and good man and now they all need help and i see it as God placing me in a position to assist so i do assist wella. conclusively, GEJ, IBB etc lived with family members growing up now see them today. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by banzuz(m): 11:53pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: See your name, crazy quinn... you type pf wife ehn, i cant keep. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by banzuz(m): 11:56pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: I see you like a lot of private affairs ... affairs minister, your kind of wife i need to change bed every year... |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by kid7soccer(m): 11:56pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Come oooo when them marry u i dash am give una as wedding gift. dear If u can't leave with him pls send him away sharp sharp, na so monkey dey take style grow long hand oooo. Also let ur hubby no u can't take it any more. Tell ur hubby to get the guy his own place or let him stay in the hostel. I no marry i and ur hubby together na haba Rossy99: |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Bizibi(m): 11:57pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Rossy99:you say wetin!!!!oya time Don reach fr the boy to sit up or leave.....shuuu!!!! 1 yr....una try. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Organs(m): 11:58pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
lordkhalifa: lordKhalifa: You might take it as a joke but you dont know how crazy some people are or how they think and reason, just today on NL, one man in Akura lured his girlfriend into the bush and killed her and said he cant explain what came over him, ... just remember that someone might read this and actually carry it out cos you dont know what people are going through in their mind and head and You might end up having blood on your hands because of a stupid joke. 2 Likes |
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