Its still a mystery to me why lot of ladies want bad boiz and treat the good cool headed and nice guy as a crap or a weakling claiming he is not mad enough. i still wonder how some guyz feel out there who they are calm, nice responsible yet they can not find some good gal to wife or even date them. A story was told of a church sister who left the good church brothers for the so call bad and adventurous guy only for her corpse to be arrive in her fathers house after wedding for some months. I am tempted to say i all never treat ladies nicely because of my experience, when i treat them nice and calm but still responsible they begin to run away, i wonder if something is truly wrong. Matured advice,in a delima.

Sometimes we don't always get what we wished for but we still keep living with an hopeful mind.

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Its still a mystery to me why lot of ladies want bad boiz and treat the good cool headed and nice guy as a crap or a weakling claiming he is not mad enough. i still wonder how some guyz feel out there who they are calm, nice responsible yet they can not find some good gal to wife or even date them. A story was told of a church sister who left the good church brothers for the so call bad and adventurous guy only for her corpse to be arrive in her fathers house after wedding for some months. I am tempted to say i all never treat ladies nicely because of my experience, when i treat them nice and calm but still responsible they begin to run away, i wonder if something is truly wrong. Matured advice,in a delima.

there are still good girls who are not INSECURE like the once you talked about. PRAY TO YOUR GOD TO HELP YOU FIND THEM, dont generalize. YOUR DELIMA CAN BLIND FROM LEARNING THAT REJECTION IS ACTUALLY DIRECTION, or A CLOSED DOOR IS CLOSE TO AN OPEN DOOR but if you keep standing n getting yaself all worked up on the fact that a DOOR CLOSED then you are wasting the exact time to find a DOOR that is open just for you. LADIES ARE NOT TOOLS.... they are actually people who may not know what they want then they are searching but IF THEY FIND WHAT THEY TRULY WANT they know it with all their BEING and guard it that way. GETTING GOOD LADIES IS NOT A CONSTANT K, IT VARIES ACCORDING TO YOUR DEFINITION AND ALSO GEOGRAPHY MATTERS, YOU MAY BE IN THE WRONG PLACE LOOKING FOR THE RIGHT GIRL.... so bro pls seek GOD FIRST and you will find grace to get the right lady for you BECAUSE ONE MAN'S WIFE IS ANOTHER MAN'S KNIFE AND ANOTHER MAN'S WOLF.....

Try and balance things up, ladies like guys that can "ginger" once once at the same time sweep of their feet.

Op ure right but mind you majority of ladies nowadays are stvpid and foolish thats why you see them run to bad guys.
No reasonable and well brought up lady will choose a bad guy ovr a nice descent guy.

I can't still figure it out why it's like that, because i have seen sevral ocassions like that, well they might have seen something in the so called bad guys

just like we guys say we love girls with brain.. But we go for girls with big ass and beautiful face...same way girl says they want nice guy..but go for the badguy....you can be a goodguy with a badboy attitude that the full package ...

Women are one of the mysteries of life. The reason why some women go for bad guys is because she sees a quality in the guy that she likes or that attracts her.
So you just have to find the lady that likes your quality.... and don't force it