1. Avoid rushing her with questions
If you are inquisitive and eager to know everything about the girl you have just met, you need to take a chill pill. Girls find it boring when you string them with series of questions; they become edgy and would be sensitive to you and your questions.
This is because you are making them feel like they are being interrogated instead. It is lame when you chat with a woman and send her questions like ‘how are you? ‘ ‘ Did you go out today? ‘ ‘Who was with you? ‘ ‘When did you get back? ‘ You have to slow down a bit.

2. In order to make her hold her phone more, be witty and fun
You do not want to strike her as some boring guy who is lost and looking for someone to infect with boredom. While texting and chatting her up, you have to be fun and witty.
Get crazy and give her something to hold on to while you are away charging your phone. Share past experiences and embarrassing moments with her; the beautiful thing about relating embarrassing moments is that they are always funny.

3. You have to learn to read mood from the responses you get
As much as you are trying to strike her as a guy that is witty and interesting, you have to learn to read her mood.
This would help you to change your line of approach in case you are starting to bore her. Doing this should not be tough because her response would give you the push you need to activate your next line of action.

4. Twist her words and tease her about wooing you
You can turn everything she says to a joke while you are chatting with her. She would find it weird at first but would get used to your style and start to enjoy your company.
You can tell her playfully when she changes display picture that you will not fall in love with her. Turn the table and assume the position she would take if a guy were to be wooing her.
You may beat around the bush for a while while teasing her. This would work for ladies anytime because they do not meet men like that every time.

5. Do not put her on edge while chatting with her
Women are very sensitive; the moment you start texting them and chatting them up, they expect you to press for a relationship immediately.
Do not be predictable; tease her about the boy she is tripping for (there has to be a boy somewhere). You can go on to tell her you are a limited edition; tell her to date you while you are available now.
Then you can tell her you are going to divorce her if she goes away for a long time. She would find you warm and interesting

6. Do not overdo these things
Too much of everything is bad; be sure not to overdo the things listed in this texting style guide. Once in a while, you can go back to having a regular conversation with her like every other guy.
This is to let her know you could be serious minded too; you should not strike her as a clown. Be sure that you have gotten a green light from the girl otherwise the response you would get from her would suggest you need help.

colik:
Really?!

so you won't 'trip' for a guy that chats with you like that?

iLegend cum nd see ur colleague in the makin

Advice

colik:
Really?!

We can test run for proper understandin

CosmicSensation:
so you won't 'trip' for a guy that chats with you like that?

Oh I will....But then the feeling will wear off after a while. So what's the use of it all?
Just be yourself ja'e and let the convo. flow.

UndisputedBosom:


We can test run for proper understandin

Oya na.

UndisputedBosom:
iLegend cum nd see ur colleague in the makin

Abeg I be learner o
iLegend na baba

colik:

Oya na.

Funny you

UndisputedBosom:


Funny you

Why are all these rehearsed stuffs always channeled toward the male folks?

Any lady available to try these out with?

colik:

So how do u want it.....a teaser or plain-er

can i toast U DEAR OP... HAVE JUST SAID IT ALL

colik:
Really?!

harrysjones:
can i toast U DEAR OP... HAVE JUST SAID IT ALL

Huh?
Toast kwa..

Eh! This kind topic can sweet nairalanders o

UndisputedBosom:


So how do u want it.....a teaser or plain-er

It's up to you..

colik:

It's up to you..

Am optin out dear....2 many contestants at your radar

UndisputedBosom:



Am optin out dear....2 many contestants at your radar

Yeah right...I understand.
chicken

colik:


Oh I will....But then the feeling will wear off after a while. So what's the use of it all?
Just be yourself ja'e and let the convo. flow.

a person doing the above could be him 'just being himself'.

What does that actually mean?

colik:

Yeah right...I understand. chicken

Lolz.....i've got ball.....are you tryin 2 make this a "challenge"

CosmicSensation:
a person doing the above could be him 'just being himself'.

What does that even actually mean?

I see what you mean.
Now,bear in mind that some guys are naturally witty. They know how to spice up a conversation.
For such guys yeah,doing the above like you said may come naturally to them.

Other guys are so clueless.
It's the normal;hi,how're you and other random questions.
If this sorta guy decides to use the following tips he might end up worsening the whole thing.He may come off sounding fake...to me anyway..
All I'm saying is,do what you're comfortable with.
'Sides In a conversation,all the work shouldn't be left for the guy alone.
It takes two;doesn't it?!

UndisputedBosom:



Lolz.....i've got ball.....are you tryin 2 make this a "challenge"

Am I?
You tell me.

colik:


I see what you mean.
Now,bear in mind that some guys are naturally witty. They know how to spice up a conversation.
For such guys yeah,doing the above like you said may come naturally to them.

Other guys are so clueless.
It's the normal;hi,how're you and other random questions.
If this sorta guy decides to use the following tips he might end up worsening the whole thing.He may come off sounding fake...to me anyway..
All I'm saying is,do what you're comfortable with.
'Sides In a conversation, all the work shouldn't be left for the guy alone.
It takes two;doesn't it?!

yea he might. He may also end up improving things. At least he's trying to do something about his cluelessness. Him remaining clueless will also improve nothing

I wouldn't like being myself If I were clueless. I would rather seek to improve myself.

And yes it certainly takes two, but not always initially.

CosmicSensation:
yea he might. He may also end up improving things. At least he's trying to do something about his cluelessness. Him remaining clueless will also improve nothing

I wouldn't like being myself If I were clueless. I would rather seek to improve myself.

And yes it certainly takes two, but not always initially.

And if improving yourself means making a mess of things? What then?
You're right tho.
I'm right too.
Let's agree to disagree.

colik:


And if improving yourself means making a mess of things? What then?
You're right tho.
I'm right too.
Let's agree to disagree.

lol, Alright.

colik:

Am I? You tell me.

Yeah....i guess u be thinkin i've chickened out ....right

UndisputedBosom:


Yeah....i guess u be thinkin i've chickened out ....right

Thinking? Nah....I know you chickened out.

colik:


Thinking? Nah....I know you chickened out.

Chickened out and am still here.......i got a flat battery that why it look like i did chickened out....anyway is the challenge still on?

what a comic relief!