I've been dating my main chic for over 5years now and I feel this is the best time to propose to her but I'm having a little problem. The problem is that I have 5 other girls in my life too. I even have a child with one of them. My main chic is the type of girl every man dreams of. She's faithful, industrious, accommodating, well mannered, loyal, homely and a very good cook.

My main chic is very aware of the fact that I had a child before we met and she doesn't have a problem with it. But she's unaware of my other 4 side chics. I've been to tell one of them that I'm about getting married and she was so emotional but she later agreed and wished me luck. Now I'm thinking of how to tell the remaining 3 the same thing I told the first.

Please help a brother out my fellow nairalanders.

hmm

Post your obituary on Punch, Vanguard, Guardian and all social media outlets. Then elope to Las Vegas with your main chick.

thesicilian:
Post your obituary on Punch, Vanguard, Guardian and all social media outlets. Then elope to Las Vegas with your main chick.

guy say something reasonable. I'm being serious here.

you are just too wicked and irresponsible for her.

thekingisback:
guy say something reasonable. I'm being serious here.

In your mind right? If you were actually as sensible and serious as you claim, you'll know that there is no way your so called main chick will read this and not know its you. So in the spirit of joblessness (yours and mine) I'll refer you again to my earlier advice:

thesicilian:
Post your obituary on Punch, Vanguard, Guardian and all social media outlets. Then elope to Las Vegas with your main chick.

SUPERPACK:
you are just too wicked and irresponsible for her.

please don't insult me.

thekingisback:
please don't insult me.

sorry if i insulted you.

thekingisback:
I've been dating my main chic for over 5years now and I feel this is the best time to propose to her but I'm having a little problem. The problem is that I have 5 other girls in my life too. I even have a child with one of them. My main chic is the type of girl every man dreams of. She's faithful, industrious, accommodating, well mannered, loyal, homely and a very good cook.

My main chic is very aware of the fact that I had a child before we met and she doesn't have a problem with it. But she's unaware of my other 4 side chics. I've been to tell one of them that I'm about getting married and she was so emotional but she later agreed and wished me luck. Now I'm thinking of how to tell the remaining 3 the same thing I told the first.

Please help a brother out my fellow nairalanders.

I wish I could tell these women to get themselves tested. STDs are real. This is disgusting.

Women needs attention. Forget the forming. They all do. Start making your presence scarce around them. Whatsapp calls etc. Even when you finally talk put the impression you are too busy. Its wont happen suddenly but they would get the drift.

Besides unless you have promised heaven and earth to them then you really have to tell them otherwise.

And if that's the case your girl should know what you are doing. If she can stick with you this long she deserves to know if things turn ugly.

Your nickname is father christmas. You're very generous

Did you promise them marriage? If no, tell them the game is over. But if you did, na ur wahala be that. I don't support using the promise of marriage to get down with a woman. Goodluck.

Simple...tell one u lost ur job, tell d oda uve got HIV and tell d last one ur herbalist asked her to follow u to a particular forest.....do dis and watch dem disappear.