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He is not genuine. That guy should be a player.

it can't really mean anything much...nigga doesn't really like u like he used to that's all..if I were him I would have done the same thing.. Or is he shy..anyways if he really loves u he would want to hear from u at all times












Drop's mic..!!

When a gurl opt for words like " chyke and soft", I fight myself convincing myself she isn't a porn star already. FYI pple should learn how to apply the word "graduate". Keep ur hands to urself pls, mine isn't soft.

Mata at hand, tell him it bothers you

??huh

Before you jump into anything conclusive.. Get to know if he's working or not... Also get to know if he's the type that calls or not...

I'm equally som kinda guy dat barely put calls thro.. Doesn't mean I don't value my friends....

I do the visiting more dan calling!...

Oh! And chatting as well..!

But somfin tells me he's not for real....

Are you sure he is not married... investigate well... before taking final decision. No matter how busy he is, he should always make time if he really loves you.

Stop calling...

My dear lady, am a guy, wont lie to you, that guy didnt travel, he has a girl visiting its a weekend plus public holiday, just pay him a surprise visit and confirm. I used to use that line on my girlfriend then when i had side stuff and don't want her to visit the house.
If he really travelled he saw ur missed call, he should have called back or sent a message.

Ereholuwa:
Are you sure he is not married... investigate well... before taking final decision. No matter how busy he is, he should always make time if he really loves you.

Stop calling...

he is nt married and thanks for the advice..

I am sorry to hit it straight to you that the relationship is already dead before it started.
The guy has someone who he is more into than you at least for now,things may change to your favor though.but for now he is not completely ready for you.

Prechy08:
My dear lady, am a guy, wont lie to you, that guy didnt travel, he has a girl visiting its a weekend plus public holiday, just pay him a surprise visit and confirm. I used to use that line on my girlfriend then when i had side stuff and don't want her to visit the house.
If he really travelled he saw ur missed call, he should have called back or sent a message.

lolz,i dnt visit him without his notice,so i see no reason for him 2 lie abt nt been around..

aloobright17:
I am sorry to hit it straight to you that the relationship is already dead before it started.
The guy has someone who he is more into than you at least for now,things may change to your favor though.but for now he is not completely ready for you.

i didnt push myself to him if thats wah ur thinking....he stressed himself 2 prove himself 2 me...so y do dt of he is nt into me like u said?

Uhm don't tink he is into you o if he truly wants u he will def call u at anytime especially wen its important like traveling if he has landed what his presently doing but well who knows maybe something is wrong I suggest u give him a call settle down nd talk with him its best u discus this with him he has the answers best of luck

I see a player who doesn't give up.



By the way, why do graduates find it so hard to type words in full? Why shorthands? Smh for op

CindyeMerAld:

i didnt push myself to him if thats wah ur thinking....he stressed himself 2 prove himself 2 me...so y do dt of he is nt into me like u said?

My dear,I am a man an a good player,and I know how we guys can be selfish with all the seriousness just to get another lady and join to the ones we had already,E.g some men can travel as far as you can imagine,take all the risk and spend money to meet and impress a new lady while the serious girlfriend/wife is still very active,or you never heard of many busted stories of double dating or a lady later finds out that the guy she has been dating for 2 or more years as a single man is already happily married with kids?yet before then the man was very serious with the lady.

So our seriousness towards new catches does not necessarily mean we're single or in love. So play safe sis.I never thought you forced him as you tried putting on me.

This op nah mumu I swear. Jst reading all your reply I doubt ur taking any advice. Abeg unah shun this one joor .

smithsydny:
This op nah mumu I swear. Jst reading all your reply I doubt ur taking any advice. Abeg unah shun this one joor .

and you just had 2 be rude .....i pity ur life

Girl,lemme tell you ,this guy loves you,some individuals are like that,that what we call individual differences,he might not see it as bad not to call you,you are the one that will make him see the reason why he should and how its been affecting you..and you will be surprised he will turn a new leaf.A scenario for you,my girlfriend seldomly calls me,even before she begins to beep me,I knew the amount of saliva I wasted,because thats just her nature but alas SHE LOVES ME,,I later discovered that even while she was in school she does not even call her mum...So its matter of individual differences.
Feel free to let him know your mind,you can try texting him.

He not calling doesn't necessarily matter.....bae calls me more than I do, though I'm ashamed to admit

We do more of chatting, doesn't mean I don't love her

Hmmm, when a certain relationship gets to a point where only one person has to be showing, love, attention, time and even the calling, it means the true definition of the word "relate" is no longer there...walks majestically out of thread....walks straight to the viewing center in readiness to watch good football tonight, psg vs arsenal.

OP i'm also dt kind of person. My bae was also wrongly adviced. Assumptions are always very dangerous in relationships. Why not put d issue before him first and stop worrying urself.

Him, not calling u often doesn't really matter.

There was a time when there was no cell phones...

Then the means of communication was through post... Some times it takes 2 months for the missive to get to it's final destination...

It does not mean that does days people love each other less....

Calling u or not might not mean anything...

What about a case scenario where a guy might be calling a girl at the sametime massaging another girl on the bed next to him... whispering something he feels the girl will like to hear... when the call ends, he just laugh with the girl he was massaging at how foolish the other girl was. and the other one will be thinking oh!! he was all alone thinking about me....

So it does not matter if he call or not.. just live each day like it was your last and be happy...also take him for his words and action and trust him... until you have a solid reason to do otherwise

Not everyone is used to the calling aspect...some chat more than calling. That doesn't mean they aren't caring. Try calling him again. Show him you care, but if doesn't show any concern, then you fly away abeg.

chigoizie7:
Him, not calling u often doesn't really matter.

so you also noticed it? " Him not calling you often"
and she is proud to boast that she is a graduate. I wonder the sort of typical half-baked graduates that this zoo country is producing yearly. See her more errors below :

CindyeMerAld:
so my qstn question goes like this.... goes thus him nt calling most times buh i dnt knw if i shld call again just incase something is wrong...what do i do? what should i do

madam kindly go back and write your jamb and start afresh or better still go engage on a trade e.g seamstress, decoration or hairdresser etc. Calling yourself a graduate is an insult to the real graduates like us.
I rest my case.

EternalTruth:
so you also noticed it? " Him not calling you often"
and she is proud to boast that she is a graduate. I wonder the sort of typical half-baked graduates that this zoo country is producing yearly. See her more errors below :
madam kindly go back and write your jamb and start afresh or better still go engage on a trade e.g seamstress, decoration or hairdresser etc. Calling yourself a graduate is an insult to the real graduates like us.
I rest my case.

my dear u need help...thats all i can say

CindyeMerAld:

my dear u need help...thats all i can say

CindyeMerAld:
just call my nom 08142473845 and i will help u out....

not interested. Sorry. I'm not cheap like you. Thanks.
Pls dont quote me again so as not to defile my moniker. Goodbye