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It depends on what your perception of it is, and who you are. But whatever the case, it's not a good thing cus most often than not, the after effects is not what you ever thought of.

olusolami:

Well, i flirt a lot, harmless, bt i duck when d SHAG sign turns on, i do run

From ur statement, u're someone who likes to think she's too smart when flirting. Why run? U forget that for every action (flirting) there's an equal but opposite reaction (f*king).

ifiyoma:

to avoid the name calling, after a one night stand

don't call the guy

one night stand is called one night stand for a reason

it means getting Hot and fu*king

and no strings attached

Bold 1: U make me laugh. You think that's not going to make him talk to his friends about what happened?

Bold 2: And what does that make one?

Ebonyeyes:

Dont mind them oh, these Negros will seat down in their secret meetings and castigate the girls that do it.

Perhaps she doesn't mind being castigated

naijalove:

Magum has protectn?

Have you been hit by one before?

whiteroses:

is not about conciense f{} that, its about having a principle your body is a temple and yours to keep not a device some drunk guy can use to scratch their itchy prick lol

Not to sound profane-prone , i thought it was the girl's thing that itch?

Dr. Lorenz:

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Perhaps she doesn't mind being castigated

I doubt it, the girl thought it was a mutual oneoff shag-fest so both parties should not blab about it to their friends.

What are we suppose to examine - One Night Stand or Sex on the First date?
Either ways . . . .I can't engage in both.

Ebonyeyes:

I doubt it, the girl thought it was a mutual oneoff shag-fest so both parties should not blab about it to their friends.

Can anything gotten that free be kept silent for long?

Dr. Lorenz:

Can anything gotten that free be kept silent for long?

Yes since it was mutual and the girl didnt "play hard to get" as you guys always say

Ebonyeyes:

Yes since it was mutual [/b]and the girl didnt "[b]play hard to get" as you guys always say

4 1c lemme concur wit u!

koolchicco:

4 1c lemme concur wit u!

Hallelujah

olusolami:

Well, i haven't thought it thru bt i knw for sure dt people (ladies) frown at letting a guy enter dia 'paradise' d day dey meet. I think its all pretence nt morality,dignity or pride. If your body is saying yes, why shld dt head tell u knw. U are thinking of hw gud his sex might be and u start battling wt d conscience dt wil prick afta d deed. So u ad a WOW sex wt a guy u jst met. If u wanna, u gotta. Maybe he will stick around after dis or maybe nt. If u dnt want to sleep wt d dude, why flirt till d flames starts to fly. I mean puhlleaase! Sex as a one nite stand is alwaz exceptnal, i did and we were together 4 3yrs. Until dt shit guys do happened. Ponder and get back wt what ya fink.

ifiyoma:

i think women should take charge of their sexuality, do what you wanna do on the first night or the 10th night,

dont let a man dictate for you period, and have no regret if u decide to

but as a christian the bible said till you get married so

u 2 ladies, kindly put up ur picz so that we will know the ladies to avoid, most likely u are a living aids factory

na2day?:

u 2 ladies, kindly put up your picz so that we will know the ladies to avoid, most likely u are a living aids factory

na2day?:

u 2 ladies, kindly put up your picz so that we will know the ladies to avoid, most likely u are a living aids factory

Dauyuuum Bro you went hard on them

Ebonyeyes:

Yes since it was mutual and the girl didnt "play hard to get" as you guys always say

See, fact is, both parties as you put didn't exactly agree that it was going to be mutual. They shagged becus they were Hot. If you look at my earlier posts, you'll see that i said something like 'after effects'.  

Talking about it like the guy would do, is one of the after effects. Secondly, the girl didn't say that she played hard to get or not did she?  

koolchicco:

Ebonyeyes:

Dauyuuum Bro you went hard on them

just saying

Dr. Lorenz:

See, fact is, both parties as you put didn't exactly agree that it was going to be mutual. They shagged becus they were Hot. If you look at my earlier posts, you'll see that i said something like 'after effects'.  

Talking about it like the guy would do, is one of the after effects. Secondly, the girl didn't say that she played hard to get or not did she?  

Yes they were Hot and did the do. That should be that rather than bad mouth her all over town like some men do. If she gave it up within 2hrs of meeting the guy, I pretty much doubt thats playing hard to get

Ebonyeyes:

Yes they were Hot and did the do. That should be that rather than bad mouth her all over town like some men do. If she gave it up within 2hrs of meeting the guy, I pretty much doubt thats playing hard to get

I quite understand you sis. Thank God you said some men. I personally wouldn't do it cus i don't see the essence in doing that, especially as am still a virgin . But the truth is that it happens and she should have thought about whether she actually wanted to do it or not and whether she gave a hoot if he should run his mouth or not. Girls play hard to get - that's certain - it's what happens at the end and how long the playing lasts that matters.

Dr. Lorenz:

I quite understand you sis. Thank God you said some men. I personally wouldn't do it cus i don't see the essence in doing that, especially as am still a virgin . But the truth is that it happens and she should have thought about whether she actually wanted to do it or not and whether she gave a hoot if he should run his mouth or not. Girls play hard to get - that's certain - it's what happens at the end and how long the playing lasts that matters.

And im the queen of Africa . Anyhoo both parties should not run their mouths.

well sex is about being comfortable with someone so if after just one night you feel comfortable to have sex with a stranger then its a free pass (ignoring religious disposition) but you never know who that "one night stand" could be for example the brother or sister of your future husband or wife and then it all comes back to haunt ya. Also girls have the habit of getting emotionally attached and expecting more,

@ Dr. Lorenz

who gives a flying fu*k what the one night stand guy and his friend thinks

i don't live in the primitive world like you

a guy should count himself lucky i considered him for a one night stand

ifiyoma:

@ Dr. Lorenz

who gives a flying fu*k what the one night stand guy and his friend thinks

i don't live in the primitive world like you

a guy should count himself lucky i considered him for a one night stand

i don't mind one. . . God loves a generous giver.

boy1:

i don't mind one. . . God loves a generous giver.

Ditto!

everything

I met a girl for d first time in a bank, we talked and the next day she was at my place, then we had sex, and now i am in deep Love with her that i think of her all the time, So whats bad in a 1nite stand thing?Answer= Nothing

ifiyoma:

@ Dr. Lorenz

who gives a flying fu*k what the one night stand guy and his friend thinks

i don't live in the primitive world like you

a guy should count himself lucky i considered him for a one night stand

One, are you a female?

Two, count himself lucky? U think you're the most beautiful thing to walk the sands of the earth? I don't think you're even quarter as beautiful as my youngest sister duh!

Three, you don't give a f*k? Then go stand on the roadsides and do whatever you want. Skinnyass b**ch!

Four, i wasn't even talking to you in the first place!

Ebonyeyes:

And im the queen of Africa . Anyhoo both parties should not run their mouths.

U no believe me eh? . Like i said earlier, i don't see the essence in doing that. Haba! Btw, why is it that some people won't keep their mouths shut when we're talking?

@ Dr. Lorenz u must be a woman cos

any guy who calls a girl a skinny bit*h, is just a downlow guy( gay guy still hidding)

well i dont blame you, in nigeria being gay is not accepted yet

and FYI skinny means[b] thi[/b]n, cos its weird you call someone you have never met skinny

you do know that not all std's are preventable by condoms? herpes for example is not preventable by condoms and is not curable and you do not always have symptoms of the infection.

Dr. Lorenz:

U no believe me eh? . Like i said earlier, i don't see the essence in doing that. Haba! Btw, why is it that some people won't keep their mouths shut when we're talking?

Yes I dont believe you . I guess they nosy

Hmmnn, ONe nite stand aint nufin bad in it as long as its protected and a mutual thing btw duo. All depends on ur principle and what u wanna do. No crumbs. I see it as d most mature thing done between two adults

ifiyoma:

@ Dr. Lorenz u must be a woman cos

any guy who calls a girl a skinny bit*h, is just a downlow guy( gay guy still hidding)

well i dont blame you, in nigeria being gay is not accepted yet

Me a woman!? Fancy you should say that when i asked you if you were woman. Me a downlow guy? What planet did you come from? Pluto? FYI, i hate gays with a deadly passion so don't even try pulling the gay stunt on me.

ifiyoma:

and FYI skinny means[b] thi[/b]n, cos its weird you call someone you have never met skinny

Oh, i didn't need you to tell me that skinny means thin - i very well know what skinny ass b**ch means. I knew i haven't seen you before i called you that - I only said that becus i din't want to sound too insulting.

@Ebonyeyes
Yeah they nosy lol. And they posy too. .

I think they jealous, cus
when we talk they nervous
some even try to be devious
but we dangerous

Ha nice rhymes

Why the deviation.
Anyways, one nite stands r simply AWESOME.

Ebonyeyes:

Ha nice rhymes

Merci, merci, tu est tres gentil.  

puskin:

Why the deviation.
Anyways, one nite stands r simply AWESOME.

What's up with deviation?
This is not a posting competition

People stray away from the topic after a while thats forum life

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Nothing as long as all of them know it is a nightstand.