hottottie:

wat? where did you get that from? Naija girl here

Sorry dont be offended hun from the look of your profile pix i got
that feeling but now am satisfied** BTW which part of London do
you live

hottottie:

No not offended nothing wrong with being vietnamese. I live in Kew. You?

Hmm Kew where is that
Although I live in Glasgow

Mr, Cork:

hottottie. ermm Sweery, are you one of those Nigerians that live in council flats in London? (no oofeinse)

Kenny_G:

Kew is down the road from Heathrow I think
@op
There's a lot wrong with One-night stand in my opinion, for a start there is the small matter of STD, if you are a lady it doesnt help your reputation at all

hottottie:

No. i dont and there is nothing wrong with council flats. No offence taken btw.

MAdam, so u r sayin u r not one of those Chicks who normaly piss in the lift?

hottottie:

yeah why is that? surely a man sleeping around should not be acceptable either right?

Kenny_G:

of course it doesnt and i pretty much alluded to that in my opening line, what i'm stressing here is that a woman has a lot more to lose in what is essentially a male dominated world people tend to be unforgiving of women who have rep of doing 1 nighters

hottottie:

yep very unforgiving. I think that people can do what they want and i know this sounds corny but as long as you arenot hurting anyone and you are safe then whatever.

Kenny_G:

but you might be hurting yourself on the long run

hottottie:

Yes that is always very likely but my thing is you only have yourself to blame.This is why i was unsympathetic to some friends in this situation. From experience many of us ladies do not separate sex from emotions. We some how can't divide the two.That is why though some girls will say they don't care about one night stands, they really do hurt afterwards

Mrs, Chima:

In my opinion, having one main manliness is the best way to go. 

Great idea!!! can we mate?

hottottie:

yep. When it becomes a habit they there is a serious problem. May even need therapy or something. You know what? i stand by this,if girls are brought up by their fathers toloveand respect themselves alot of girls wont go looking for it in random guys.The relationship a girl has with her dad tells alot in how she turns out.

Kenny_G:

while i agree with you to some extent, people need to start taking responsilibty for their actions at some point and quit using the inadequacies of their folks an excuse, but sha some men don't have a relationship wiv daughters pass the usual give money to and ban them from seeing guys

hottottie:

I am going to play devil's advocate now. Ok what makes it wrong? is it morality? religion that has given us a morality gauge? what is wrong with it really. Are we really meant to be monogamous beings? I'm just saying!

Kenny_G:

morally it's wrong, religion also forbids it

and these days, the so-called "unknown partner/booty call" may actually have staked you out previously or been "sent" by someone.