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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Laveda(f): 11:56am On Sep 18, 2016
naijaboiy:

i hope you nor dey throw shades o? cheesy

Your signature though! gringringrin

No! gringringrin

You concur ba? cheesy them no dey try.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Nobody: 11:59am On Sep 18, 2016
Sgttanner:
( notice:pls don't mind my grammar )Hello doctors in the house .. It happened that I imprenated my girlfriend and we aborted it (she brought the whole abortion thing up herself ooo even though I was thinking about it but didn't know how to tell her , the pregnancy is like a month sha )The abortion was done lat week Monday surgically I guess ..after that , she was given ciprotab, and one orange pill like this ( I don't know the name ) to be used morning and night . But she has just been noticing some changes in her body such as high temperature , not feeling too good in her body , sleepy , tired , yellow urine, fever ..another thing is she stopped seeing blood the second day, she saw a brown discharge the third day and the fifth day But I just get scared anytime she calls to tell me all these.The latest development is she was told to receive anti malaria injection cos of the yellow urine and I just hope this won't complicate the matter , though she took the injection already . I am 24 and she's 23..I had to create another profile .. Please I need to know what she can do and your advice pls .. God should forgive me



When we told you kids to leave sex alone for the LEGALLY MARRIED, you people called us fools, holier than thou, rightour, old school, etc. Now o sheeleena.

Add murder to your sin ooooo.

Good a thing that since you are still alive, JESUS CHRIST is still willing cleanse you and set you free from sin. Give your life to HIM today. HE loves you.

Say no to fornication, adultery and pre-marital sex.

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Nobody: 12:03pm On Sep 18, 2016
Baba no be your fault jare, for this kin recession na only fvck dey cool man temperature, the only fcvk you make na to bust inside shawty, you for pull out na, I never see the conjas when go make me cumila intoto, neways wetin don hapun don hapun, just comfort shawty.

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by emmancecute(m): 12:04pm On Sep 18, 2016
klbakare:

U could have just done a medical abortion with misoprostol since its jes a month old. Now that you are into shit. Be ready to spend more money. Cos u have to confide in a doc. Don't be shy or afraid, they have seeing lots of such cases. They are the one who can bail u out now. Be truthful with the doc. And show him all d previous drugs taken. Nigerians should stop hypocrisy. If u are not legalizing abortion, subsidise contraceptives cos people are dying daily from improperly executed abortions. PEACE!!!!!
Gold circle is just 50 for a pack. What other subsidy does he want?
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Xmen149(m): 12:05pm On Sep 18, 2016
Dnt knw alot but 1month?..dude,u should a brought this up b4 the act...1wk plus (z still blood clot) z even managable,certain specialized pills wl make it flow like mens,.bt 1month?.dude!..ur girl must be 16 not to notice changes in her under 1week and u2 stupid 4not knowing a sht abt grls and her and still call her your grl(else na 1night stand),.my advice...go to a doctor and get prof.advice alone and bring her along later if the doc can help..(depending the cntry u in sha)
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by emmancecute(m): 12:08pm On Sep 18, 2016
jusRadical:




When we told you kids to leave sex alone for the LEGALLY MARRIED, you people called us fools, holier than thou, rightour, old school, etc. Now o sheeleena.

Add murder to your sin ooooo.

Good a thing that since you are still alive,
JESUS CHRIST is still willing cleanse you and set you free from sin. Give your life to HIM today. HE loves you.

Say no to fornication, adultery and pre-marital sex.
Hypocrite! Tell me u didn't have premarital sex and I'll believe you. mtchewwwwww shocked shocked
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Xmen149(m): 12:08pm On Sep 18, 2016
jusRadical:




When we told you kids to leave sex alone for the LEGALLY MARRIED, you people called us fools, holier than thou, rightour, old school, etc. Now o sheeleena.

Add murder to your sin ooooo.

Good a thing that since you are still alive, JESUS CHRIST is still willing cleanse you and set you free from sin. Give your life to HIM today. HE loves you.

Say no to fornication, adultery and pre-marital sex.
And if he pratice hinduism nko?..what will budah do?..lol
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by chuksbogus2001: 12:09pm On Sep 18, 2016
she should continue to take the ciprotab 1 tab twice daily and should also go and get metronidazole ( flagyl ) 400 mg three times daily both for 7 days ,tab ibuprofen 400 mg 3times daily with food..and may be take antimaleria cus maleria might come up now due to the stress she is going through.after one week go for ultrasound to know if their is retained product of conception . though what u guys did is not good but we have to save her life first .

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Tex42(m): 12:12pm On Sep 18, 2016
24 and 23 year old... ! Children of this days get mind o!
U may want to take her to a gynecologist.
No forget to ask baba God for forgiveness o!
Peace!

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by musicwriter(m): 12:13pm On Sep 18, 2016
Sgttanner:
if I am financially buoyant.. I won't allow it

You're not financially bouyant, but you're sexually bouyant?

Haven't you heard of condom before?

When I was your age, all I was thinking was how to help my mother. The first girl friend I ever had was at 35 and till today I regret not marrying her, cause I've never seen soneone else I like.

I don't pity you at all. My only worry is the young girl. There's a good chance she'll run into serious complication that may result to death.

Well, after you can pray to Jesus to give you Paul's false hope of grace and forgiveness, when in fact mother nature is counting your crimes and preparing you for hell, unless of course you realize your crime now, make a U-turn or what Jesus called repentance, and contact the family of the girl to have her parents save their daughter as you are not financially bouyant to take care of this situation.

Again, the right thing to do now is find a way to tell the parents of the girl to take her to a proper hospital to save her life. Nothing would save you, if that girl die.

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Nobody: 12:18pm On Sep 18, 2016
emmancecute:

Hypocrite! Tell me u didn't have premarital sex and I'll believe you. mtchewwwwww shocked shocked


If you are guilty of it does not mean othets are.

Ni matter how dark your life had been, only JESUS CHRIST CAN SET YOU FREE.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by IghoCentric(m): 12:21pm On Sep 18, 2016
Sgttanner:
if I am financially buoyant.. I won't allow it
U can't so broke that u couldn't buy gold circle #50.. That girl might be infected. I will advise u to find a coded nurse to help u or talk to the person who did the abortion.. She might ve come across that case before.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Nobody: 12:22pm On Sep 18, 2016
Xmen149:

And if he pratice hinduism nko?..what will budah do?..lol



JESUS CHRIST IS THE WAY, THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE. NO ONE COMES TO THE FATHER EXCEPT THROUGH HIM.

FOR THERE IS NO OTHER NAME IN HEAVEN OR EARTH BY WHICH YOU CAN BE SAVED EXCEPT THE OF JESUS

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Nobody: 12:23pm On Sep 18, 2016
naijaboiy:
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Y'all just know how to act sanctimonious and all holy as if you haven't committed a sin.

I'm darn sure the Op knows the gravity of what he and his girlfriend has done and now he needs help. But what are we seeing? People who can only condemn without proferring any solution.

Please it's better you and others who are insulting the Op shut the hell up and allow people who have something helpful to say to comment.

Finally I'll blame the Op also for thinking there are many sensible people on here when all we have are hypocrites with low thinking abilities.

If you can't help then you close your fingers tight to prevent you from typing shït.

Nonsense!
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I will always ignore you because silence is a weapon for the fools.

Don't get across to me because I know it took you a lot of time to put up such write up and I will not want to call it rubbish but to bring more sanity to it but on the other way round, why will I disturb myself to bring sanity to someone like you because you are popular for your 'abusive personality'. I mean you even received an award for it.


I'm done with you

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by riczy(m): 12:23pm On Sep 18, 2016
Who I go ask?
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Nobody: 12:24pm On Sep 18, 2016
Darlingmua:


Lol... Dem day teach person to Bleep? grin
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Nobody: 12:24pm On Sep 18, 2016
IYANGBALI:
to fok sweet pass to write english na grin grin
lol at your siggy cheesy
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by IghoCentric(m): 12:26pm On Sep 18, 2016
Tobium1:
Gold circle still sells as cheap as N50, postinor2 is N250
Abeg where u dey buy postinor2 250... My area na 400.. This pharmacy wan wreck me Abi... Lol
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by eldoradoxx: 12:26pm On Sep 18, 2016
Davash222:
Oh Lawd! Where did we go wrong
So people no come get shame again to even boastfully say they commit abortion?
Guy, just pray for forgiveness.
At least 6 in every 10 ladies above 25 have had an abortion before. Nigeria should legalize it so that it can be properly done in good hospitals and not road side quacks that complicate the health of these women. I am pro life in as much as the woman is capable of taking care of her baby. we should not impose babies on unwilling mothers. society will pay dearly for it.

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by eldoradoxx: 12:31pm On Sep 18, 2016
IghoCentric:

Abeg where u dey buy postinor2 250... My area na 400.. This pharmacy wan wreck me Abi... Lol
I see Postinor specialists here. hehehehehehehe. Has health implications anyway.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by IghoCentric(m): 12:33pm On Sep 18, 2016
Nikkybrainz:
I had a similar experience. It is normal to have still have pregnancy-like symptoms after an abortion. Since it is not up to a week, a pregnancy test might not be the best option because she will likely still have the HCG hormone in her and might still show positive even though she's not pregnant. This should stop in about two weeks at most. It is normal for her to have stopped bleeding. That differs from woman to woman. So do not worry about that

Your best option is to tell her to have an ultrasound. That would give you a 100% guarantee that the abortionist got everything out and hence, zero chances of a septic infection. If the high temperature and other symptoms exceed two weeks, then I'd advise she see a doctor.

I am, however, quite sure everything is fine since it was only a month old and the bleeding has stopped.

Try to show her support for now at least. And please and careful next time. If you still love her, forget the past and forgive her. That she did that doesn't mean she's a bad person. Maybe she was scared and didn't want to disappoint family and friends.

Peace.
Forgive her for what.. Na she give herself belle?.. Na una women they give us moral to treat una anyhow..

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by donasere(m): 12:34pm On Sep 18, 2016
haywire07:


It's the same haywire u find errwhere o grin.. Do u know me?



Wait ooo....from nysc b15?


You just lost...where you dey nao?
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Tobium1(m): 12:36pm On Sep 18, 2016
IghoCentric:

Abeg where u dey buy postinor2 250... My area na 400.. This pharmacy wan wreck me Abi... Lol

E fit be say de price don escalate o, de last time wey I buy am na 250 thereabout. So, I no go doubt if u say na 400 now
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by eldoradoxx: 12:40pm On Sep 18, 2016
TLisieux:
You need to take her to a good hospital ASAP.
Abortion is evil. The killing of an innocent and defenceless human being. Both you and her need to pray seriously for God's and the baby's forgiveness and also to make reparation for this crime.
And please, if you are not ready to be a father, then zip up!!!
A foetus is not a human being capable of being killed.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by haywire07(m): 12:41pm On Sep 18, 2016
donasere:




Wait ooo....from nysc b15?


You just lost...where you dey nao?

This guy sabi me truly o !!

I dey here and everywhere na although the mods they always ban me .

How far, let me know you nau
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by diplomatvicky(f): 12:41pm On Sep 18, 2016
just wondering why sex seems to b d ultimate thing in a relationship lately..does it now mean we can date without involving sex in it...y engage in sex wen u know u can't bear d responsibility of catering for a baby...goshhhh,,,its so disgusting...may God forgive us all...

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Nobody: 12:42pm On Sep 18, 2016
Everybody go claim say dem never abort. But go to the clinics and see long line. Those ones are aliens abi

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Berbierklaus(f): 12:43pm On Sep 18, 2016
klbakare:


How much is an intra-uterine device? For me, anybody above 18 should be able to seek medical counsel on and get contraceptives, but na this una attitude(hypocrisy) dey deter them. I have seen lots and heard lots of stories about copper-T not properly fixed or complications afterwards. Condom makes sex less pleasurable esp. To the female folks so they prefer some other contraceptive method. How much is the pills mr educated? Don't even go near depo-provera which causes over-weight by making ladies retain water. Most women don't want to use it. Making an IUD the best device. But just how much do u think it is? Then I will tell you that a whole lot of nigerians can't afford it
Kindly get down from the high horses you are riding.
I wonder when it became adviceable for unmarried youngsters like the OP and his girlfriend,to use complicated family planning contraceptives like the ones you listed,because they want to freely fvck theirselves without restrictions or when it became good and acceptable to abort foetus like they are visiting the toilet after every act of unprotected sex.

And kindly answer this question,will the use of condom and postinor1 or 2 reduce the probability of pregnancy,yes or no?

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Nectarbaba(m): 12:44pm On Sep 18, 2016
Advice her to continue using her drugs but if the symptoms persist you myt need to see a certified doctor. Nobody is perfect for most u judging continue.
Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by diplomatvicky(f): 12:46pm On Sep 18, 2016
and just bear in mind dat u once in ur lifetime, committed murder..just go ask for God's forgiveness... Dats d only advice I v to give not trying to make u feel guilty,,but it's simply d truth...

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by labzydoy(f): 12:46pm On Sep 18, 2016
its going to take a yle for d hormonal changes takes place in pregnancy to return to normal.she shld jst take d antibiotic given religiously, nd take d antimalaria,dats d most lykly coz of d fever,pregnanc cozs immunesupresion nd malaria is d comon outcom

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Re: I Did An Abortion , Please Help by Berbierklaus(f): 12:48pm On Sep 18, 2016
naijaboiy:

This is the problem.

The deed has been done. One who is on the floor cannot be afraid of falling.

Even if you want to condemn his actions it shouldn't be now he needs help. His girlfriend may lose her life. We should try to proffer solutions first before we condemn him.
Kindly remove the dark shades you have on and point to where I condemned his actions?
I didn't comment on the topic or OP,I simply addressed the hypocrisy singing choristers.


please avoid my mentions if you can't assimilate my posts
Thank you

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