I must confess u guys are right somehow.
My boyfriend is a total nice guy! does everything a woman dream of.
So caring and nice; but I am really not so into him.

I don't really love him 1/20 the way he love me.

Proves women don't love who loves them

sometimes I tell myself that his love bores me, cos its not challenging at all!

Ms Zee:

I must confess u guys are right somehow.
My boyfriend is a total nice guy! does everything a woman dream of.
So caring and nice; but I am really not so into him.

I don't really love him 1/20 the way he love me.

Proves women don't love who loves them

sometimes I tell myself that his love bores me, cos its not challenging at all!

so despite all your misgivings, you are still happy for him to spend and be spent on you, leading the guy along knowing fully well how u feel about him?
And people wonder why some men "use and dump"

Nice guy be MUGU, for this region, cos 95% of guys will only be nice with condition

Some of the so- called nice guys out there are actually accidents waiting to happen. Experience has told me this.

dont know if u'd classify me as a lady if u met me, but my definition of a nice guy is the character described in Jill Scott's song He loves me

a nice guy is a guy who treat his mother well

i'm sorry i wasn't aware there was an alternative meaning to the words nice and guy.

If you don't want to be with someone who's nice, do not call me when your thug of a boyfriend does anything nasty to you cos i won't laugh, i'll do worse

A funny thread I must say

Infact from what I have read so far,
I think it doesn't pay to be a nice guy either as a boyfriend or a Husband.

Personally, am begining to feel sorry for the girls cos 90% of naija guys will show them (girls) pepper.because with what is happening now nobody wants to be a nice guy anymore.


sorry girls----I feel like weeping not only for you(girls) but also for the few guys that will fall prey to these girls!!!

Give a chik all she wants, U are a nice man!!!

nice guyz r mugus?

Dotbex:

LWKMD, I wish ther wher more pips lyk u mehn

hw mennnnn

simply means Ode, Dindinrin, Omugo, , Egbe, e.g the guy in the Last American Virgin

1. High moral standards. Honest
2. Warm, ambitious and decent
3. Accomodating (not try to change me) of my stubborn independence. Decent
4. Very confident. Decent
5. Not emotional (thats what Im there for), but still sensitive. Decent
6. I wont need a man to tell me how he feels about me. I want him to SHOW IT

A nice guy is a guy that threats you the way he wants you to threat him

maufunky:

A nice guy is a guy that threats you the way he wants you to threat him

Please, is it threat or treat?

Ops E:

simply means Ode, Dindinrin, Omugo, , Egbe, e.g the guy in the Last American Virgin

lol u're too harshhhhhhhhhhhhhh mannnnnnnnn 

i think a nice guy is someone who is genuine, honest and who cqan love hyis woman 4rm his heart without playing games

^^^ I concur.

Games are for kids.

There is a distinctive difference between being "nice" and being a "mr Nice Guy"
when you are nice all the damn time and even go out of your way to please a girl and women don't feel secured and aroused when they are
with you, then you fit the mould of the latter.

the former is nice on his own terms ([b]women have to earn [/b]his soft/sensitive side) on the otherhand the latter is just excessively nice

a nice guy is someone who make people feel good wen dey down and need help in any way

A nice guy is someone who is loving and caring.Always there whenever most needed but most girls misuse this opportunity.

A nice guy is a chameleon, heart breaker, a pretender,

When you find any ,exploit him to the skin ,make it quick and fast a purported nice guy will turn a bad guy sonner than expected,

A  nice guy is some one who always please girls/ladies including laying down his life and regretting
at the end of the day.

@rozu4luv, you self be mugu
A nice guy is someone that is easy to yahoozee for ladies, pleases them and regret intrapersonally.

A gentleman whom everyone can truly truly really trust. Not only nice to his girlfriend but everyone. Pure in heart and mind, words, body language everything. I have met one. I can bring him at my house and fully trust him. He won't say or even look at me in any odd way.

Sorry to add the above, when I'm home alone.

jalether:

There is a distinctive difference between being "nice" and being a "mr Nice Guy"
when you are nice all the damn time and even go out of your way to please a girl and women don't feel secured and aroused when they are
with you, then you fit the mould of the latter.

the former is nice on his own terms ([b]women have to earn [/b]his soft/sensitive side) on the otherhand the latter is just excessively nice

good point

bawomolo:

good point

seconded

here is one o

'9c guy' = gooda$$
QED.

@Topic

The bottom line of the matter is, it doesn't pay to be a "nice guy" or a nice person in general in today's society.I'm not just referring guys that are nice to women alone, i am referring to being nice to anybody (both male and female).

There are three main classes of nice guys or nice people.First are those that are not good people but appear nice on the outside.Second are those that are insecure with people and the only way to endear themselves to others is by being nice. Third are those that are just nice to people due to their upbringing or the way they look at life.I used to belong to the third category.I used to be nice to people in general (male and female) and it's not because i was insecure or morally bankrupt.NO! Far from it.I was raised to see the world from a positive perspective.To appreciate humanity and help out whenever i could without thinking twice.That was how my world used to be until i realized how shallow people's brains and minds really are (especially blacks. . .sorry to say).In today's society, a nice or good person is seen a MUGU or "money miss road".You cannot afford to help anyone in distress no matter how genuine they sound coz at the end of the day, it's like shooting yourself in the foot.They will continue coming over and over again for one help or the other until you get feed up with them.So as it is, even if someone comes to me looking like they just came out of a refugee camp or AIDS ward, i just can't be nice or helpful.Even as much as i want to, i would rather prefer to be called a stingy bastard than be called a MUGU.The funny thing is people who see good people this way are people of terribly low IQ's.Human beings don't appreciate nothing good (not for one bit).

Any ways, that's my bit. . .lol

A guy that is not naughty