He is the most wonderful guy i have met in my life, he has all the qualities i want in a man

except for religion

HungerBAD:
Leave religion out of the matter of the heart.

It is his right to believe in whatever he believes in,and as long as those beliefs do not harm you,or him even forcing you to be an atheist,then follow your heart.

hahn:


Atheism is not belief, it is the lack of belief in any deity or supreme being. Why is that so hard to understand?

HungerBAD:
Leave religion out of the matter of the heart.

It is his right to believe in whatever he believes in,and as long as those beliefs do not harm you,or him even forcing you to be an atheist,then follow your heart.

Who is Christian?I am sure there are more Atheist who do more good,than those that claim to be Christians.

If marriage is your intention,then you guys should have a talk on how you guys wants the kids raised.

There are Atheists here married to Christian women,and I think they have a good marriage.

Hahn come here,shebi your madam na Christian?

SpicyJosBabe:


Thank u for your response. I always kept on hearing of Nigerian atheists, especially here on nairaland, never really though that i'd ever be involved with one like this. It seems like atheism is really growing in Nigeria.

I wish this could be as easy as u say it. I was planning on taking him to see my mother soon, what would be my mother's reaction if she asks him his church denomination and he replies 'I am an atheist'? She will never accept, i know my mother. It will be so terrible.

Nigayoyo:
my sister, religion should have nothing to do with your love life because from the beginning it was not so BUT along the line as our brain evolved we thought there would be a shitty a.ss flying monster in the sky. Please love him for the content of his character and not for his belief or disbelief in a sky daddy.

hahn:


Atheism is not belief, it is the lack of belief in any deity or supreme being. Why is that so hard to understand?

HungerBAD:
Leave religion out of the matter of the heart.

It is his right to believe in whatever he believes in,and as long as those beliefs do not harm you,or him even forcing you to be an atheist,then follow your heart.

Who is Christian?I am sure there are more Atheist who do more good,than those that claim to be Christians.

If marriage is your intention,then you guys should have a talk on how you guys wants the kids raised.

There are Atheists here married to Christian women,and I think they have a good marriage.

Hahn come here,shebi your madam na Christian?

sexymoma:
Think of your kids future darling
you are gonna confuse dem
which way to go...
you gonna tell dem about Christ, he s gonna tell dem he doesn't bliv in Christ
Forget love ooo... E dey fade in marriage
and besides you guys jos started, everything will still be new.
u better decide before it's too late.

I'll Advise you..Marriage where God nor dey involve na yagayaga e dey be oo
don't get me wrong, i mean your Marriage will jos be there.
There will be sometimes when you can't face the battle alone abi you think say marriage dey sweet forever ni
There'll be need for both of you to call on God, How are you gonna cope.
Pls tell me.
Think about it sis... you said he s sweet, caring and all that.. im not saying he s pretending ooo
buh hope you remember satan was an angel too... as a matter of fact, history made it known to us that he has the sweetest voice among angels.... Just think about it, Look into the future and imagine it, Him, You and your kids

SpicyJosBabe:


I think you are right. I just wish i knew all this earlier before going deep into this relationship. I will really need a long time to recover from this.

tukdi:
My dear sister, please run for your life!

He can only manage you for a short while because the relationship is still fresh, later on, he will definitely show you his true colours!

Sister don't forget that his atheist friends will be coming to visit him in the house ie: You will be surrounded by atheists.

Your children might be atheist aswell because they might lack the fear of God! You will be the only person saddled with the responsibilty of training them in the ways of the Lord!

So because of marriage and money, you want to marry an atheist?


Please once again, flee from that man!!!

IamLEGEND1:
Danger be staring you straight in the face and you're still contemplating if you should run or stay.

matters of the heart my foot. that burning, butterflies-in-your-stomach love fades eventually and what's gonna be left is a deep mutual understanding which can only stem from having common core values. forget all that 'opposites attract' bullshìt.....that is true only on a superficial level.when you are at clear odds with your partner on matters critical to your lifestyle, you're headed for doom,no way around that.
Your religion is important to you,stick with it or drop it and jump into his bed.
Na when una marry ur eyes go komot wella.

Newbeginnings:
Don't Marry him... A man who doesn't believe in the beings that have performed great miracles everywhere, will not see anything wrong or anyone to answer to when he maltreats you.

He doesn't believe in God, he doesn't believe in you.

genieluv:

Hmm, is it just me or am i surprised to see you not trolling on OP's thread this time around. I guess her emotional state made you easier. But still your words were quite harsh on her.
If you've been in her shoes, you will know it's not so easy.