Newbeginnings:
Don't Marry him... A man who doesn't believe in the beings that have performed great miracles everywhere, will not see anything wrong or anyone to answer to when he maltreats you.

He doesn't believe in God, he doesn't believe in you.

SpicyJosBabe:


What do u mean by a sky daddy? Seems like you are an atheist too?
If i accept him peradventure, what of my family? They may not, especially my mother. If we are to get married, the wedding will obviously not be done in a church or by a pastor, which is against my belief. What if he insists that our children must be atheists? These are issues that will be there.

firstking01:
Let him go look for an atheist and marry...everytime an atheist wants to marry a christian sister, abi dem no get atheist sister for that their gathering ni??....nobody is neutral in life, it's either you are serving mamon or serving God....also, [b]self righteousness can never take you to heaven cos i see people type here that some atheist have good character than a christian,[/b]this is fallacy in the higher oder of enthropy system...let him goan marry from his believe, it's as simple as that.

SpicyJosBabe:


What do u mean by a sky daddy? Seems like you are an atheist too?
If i accept him peradventure, what of my family? They may not, especially my mother. If we are to get married, the wedding will obviously not be done in a church or by a pastor, which is against my belief. What if he insists that our children must be atheists? These are issues that will be there.

HungerBAD:
Leave religion out of the matter of the heart.

It is his right to believe in whatever he believes in,and as long as those beliefs do not harm you,or him even forcing you to be an atheist,then follow your heart.

Who is Christian?I am sure there are more Atheist who do more good,than those that claim to be Christians.

If marriage is your intention,then you guys should have a talk on how you guys wants the kids raised.

There are Atheists here married to Christian women,and I think they have a good marriage.

Hahn come here,shebi your madam na Christian?

sorextee:
I know say I no too sabi BIBLE like dat. But can u pls shed more light at BOLDED, cos I bliv a man will be judged according to his works.. I also bliv religion as a whole shld be more about humanity, not some fake pastors/imams defrauding members...

Nigayoyo:
my sister, religion should have nothing to do with your love life because from the beginning it was not so BUT along the line as our brain evolved we thought there would be a shitty a.ss flying monster in the sky. Please love him for the content of his character and not for his belief or disbelief in a sky daddy.

sexymoma:
Think of your kids future darling
you are gonna confuse dem
which way to go...
you gonna tell dem about Christ, he s gonna tell dem he doesn't bliv in Christ
Forget love ooo... E dey fade in marriage
and besides you guys jos started, everything will still be new.
u better decide before it's too late.

I'll Advise you..Marriage where God nor dey involve na yagayaga e dey be oo
don't get me wrong, i mean your Marriage will jos be there.
There will be sometimes when you can't face the battle alone abi you think say marriage dey sweet forever ni
There'll be need for both of you to call on God, How are you gonna cope.
Pls tell me.
Think about it sis... you said he s sweet, caring and all that.. im not saying he s pretending ooo
buh hope you remember satan was an angel too... as a matter of fact, history made it known to us that he has the sweetest voice among angels.... Just think about it, Look into the future and imagine it, Him, You and your kids

U don't have to discourage her from marrying the one she loves. Love conquereth all obstacles. I am a Muslim ( though not a fanatical one) married to a Christian and we are both happy with 2 beautiful kids- a boy and a girl. What matters is accepting each other for who they are. My in laws only grudgingly gave their consent when they discovered their daughter had made up her mind but today they openly confess I am their best son in law.

Seun:
The most wonderful man you have met in the world is an atheist. That's great! You should convert to atheism so you can be equally wonderful.

Nigayoyo:


Yes I'm an atheist and you do not have to tell your family he's an atheist, rather tell them he's the best man you've ever met....Of course the marriage will take place in a church because I'm pretty sure he wouldn't mind.

Now, children are the most delicate issue here. For instance, once my kids reach age 5 or 6 I will buy them story books on Jesus, Prophet Mohammed, different myths of creation, children's books on Buddhism, Hinduism, and Zeus. The reason is to free them from the shackles of dogma and not indoctrinate them into any organized religion.

I and my wife will let our children understand our belief system and why we are convinced. There will be no trying to force them into our 'religious' inclination. Make your children inquisitive, don't make them to just stick with traditions, that's very detrimental.
My dad is still a pastor in Nigeria and he still does evangelism in villages but he knows I'm an atheist!

I wish I could explain more..enjoy your life.

Seun:
The most wonderful man you have met in the world is an atheist. That's great! You should convert to atheism so you can be equally wonderful.

Seun:
The most wonderful man you have met in the world is an atheist. That's great! You should convert to atheism so you can be equally wonderful.

HungerBAD:
[s]Leave religion out of the matters of the heart.

It is his right to believe in whatever he believes in,and as long as those beliefs do not harm you,or him even forcing you to be an atheist,then follow your heart.

Who is Christian?I am sure there are more Atheist who do more good,than those that claim to be Christians.

If marriage is your intention,then you guys should have a talk on how you guys wants the kids raised.

There are Atheists here married to Christian women,and I think they have a good marriage.

Hahn come here,shebi your madam na Christian?


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Seun:
The most wonderful man you have met in the world is an atheist. That's great! You should convert to atheism so you can be equally wonderful.

SpicyJosBabe:
It started many weeks back i met this guy at an event, we exchanged numbers and since then we have been very close. We have gone out on dates together and i must confess that my love for this guy has grown so much that hardly a day goes by that i don't think of him and the same thing on his own path towards me.

I got the shock of my life 3 days ago when i was with this guy and somehow our conversation veered towards religious issues seriously for the first time and he told me plainly that he does not believe in God, i taught he was joking at first until i confronted him and he told me that he is an Atheist and nothing i can do to make him change his belief, that i either accept him for who he is or nothing else.
He said he can accept me for my religion and if our relationship leads to marriage, i can maintain my belief and he maintains his own.

I was born a christian and from a strict religious home and i still maintain christian values on my own even though i may not be so much religiously strict.
I blame myself though for not noticing this about him earlier, because initially i slighlty noticed that whenever i make religious exclamations, he acts uneasy and always changes the topic whenever i tilt towards religious discussions. We are in the same profession so most times our discussions are in that direction.

I left his place since that day and we have not spoken since then, but this guy's thoughts cannot leave my heart. He is the most wonderful guy i have met in my life, he has all the qualities i want in a man (except for religion), and my heart cannot just let go.
Pls, what should i do? I have never been so confused b4.

Seun:
The most wonderful man you have met in the world is an atheist. That's great! You should convert to atheism so you can be equally wonderful.

SpicyJosBabe

firstking01:
I dint see any bolded here but you can still drop your question here and i 'll answer you.

Seun:
[s]The most wonderful man you have met in the world is an atheist. That's great! You should convert to atheism so you can be equally wonderful.[/s]

hahn:


Atheism is not belief, it is the lack of belief in any deity or supreme being. Why is that so hard to understand?

SpicyJosBabe:
That i think would be practically impossible. I have already had the conviction of Jesus as the saviour of the whole world and salvation for mankind.

sexymoma:
Think of your kids future darling
you are gonna confuse dem
which way to go...
you gonna tell dem about Christ, he s gonna tell dem he doesn't bliv in Christ
Forget love ooo... E dey fade in marriage
and besides you guys jos started, everything will still be new.
u better decide before it's too late.

I'll Advise you..Marriage where God nor dey involve na yagayaga e dey be oo
don't get me wrong, i mean your Marriage will jos be there.
There will be sometimes when you can't face the battle alone abi you think say marriage dey sweet forever ni
There'll be need for both of you to call on God, How are you gonna cope.
Pls tell me.
Think about it sis... you said he s sweet, caring and all that.. im not saying he s pretending ooo
buh hope you remember satan was an angel too... as a matter of fact, history made it known to us that he has the sweetest voice among angels.... Just think about it, Look into the future and imagine it, Him, You and your kids

sorextee:
Wherr you said self righteousness cannot.....

Acidosis:


The richest man in Ota is a Christian. That's great! You should covert to Christianity so you can be equally rich. How about that?

firstking01:
Let him go look for an atheist and marry...everytime an atheist wants to marry a christian sister, abi dem no get atheist sister for that their gathering ni??....nobody is neutral in life, it's either you are serving mamon or serving God....also, self righteousness can never take you to heaven cos i see people type here that some atheist have good character than a christian, this is fallacy in the higher oder of enthropy system...let him goan marry from his believe, it's as simple as that.